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10 Reasons Men Cheat

Updated on February 14, 2018

The "road of cheating" for men can affect many lives including their families, friends, even employees to become stuck in an ugly, dirty outcome. Cheating men have broken their commitments in a result of their dangerously sexual activity with other women.

Not all men are cheating. Some men do cheat. Some men never cheat. However, some men happen to walk through an opening door of cheating and think, "Cool, my girlfriend (or wife) will never know about that" or "Hmm, I think that sex is just for fun." After cheating, some men say, "What is wrong with me!?" Do you know why men are cheating?

Here 10 reasons men cheat:

1) Men focus on what they desire that would meet their sexual needs.

2) Men are upset with their girlfriends/wives for their problems.

3) Men feel like they cannot be able to make love with their girlfriends/wives.

4) Men believe that their girlfriends/wives would cheat on them back.

5) Men think that it would make them feeling pleased.

6) Men think that they would not get caught cheating.

7) Men think that their wives/girlfriends are not interested in them.

8) Men are trapped by their lusts.

9) Men feel boring and lonely.

10) Men want to try new positions with other women as a result of developing their sexual fantasies.

Cheating men create their cheaper excuses for their cheating in order to cover their tracks. Sometimes, they are relieved and fortunate that their girlfriends/wives never be suspicious of that way men are cheating. But, some wives/girlfriends will find out someday that their boyfriends/husbands cheat anytime, any day, and anywhere!

When men found cheating, their girlfriends/wives have their rights to be angry and hurt very much and they have their rights to leave their cheating husbands/boyfriends in a result of losing their respects and loves. Cheating men destroy their friendships with their close friends; cheating men can hurt their relationships with their families, and cheating men may make their employees feeling uncomfortable and untrustworthy. Cheating men destroy their reputations in the result of that everyone lost their trusts in them. Sadly, cheating men have been embarrassed and depressed after destroying their families, friends, and employees. Cheating men facing their shameful situations are not very easy to be solved.

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© 2010 Joyce Cortes


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      5 years ago

      Tommy, your girlfriend sucks. If the two of you have kids together currently than try to make it work but if not, get out. Tell her that if she wants to stay in a relationship with you, that she will agree to go to counseling to save the last 7 years you've spent together. If not, then it's time to leave. Easier said than done, but still true. I've never cheated on any girl I've dated. All of them have cheated on me and forgive them all. It's tough for me to get back into dating. I fear I will never find a woman who will be loyal to me regardless of how much money I make or don't. But I'm out there trying, talking to women. If we don't face our fears, then our fears will destroy us. Face your fear Tommy. Your life is worth saving and hopefully she will go with you to counseling so she can learn how to forgive you and start over so she doesn't lose the only guy she has.

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      6 years ago

      I really agree with you, thanks for this post, I will always come back for more. Keep up the good work. I also found some useful information on this website too

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      6 years ago

      Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 yrs I cheated 4 yrs ago since then I regret what i have done and tryed to make up for what i have done since then she keeps talking on Facebook emailing other men talking to exs ect and continues to claim she does it because of what i did 4 yrs ago I have not done anything but try to fix what I've done and she continues to keep doing the things that she claims she does not want me to do is it right for her to keep doing this if she is claiming she wants to be with me and loves me but when she does why does she keep useing what i did 4 yrs ago to justify what she is doing wrong now


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