A man's heart

The devil I know is better than the Angel I don't know' is a popular proverb which each and every one of us can possibly relate with and I am sure that Stephanie Oge will agree with me that the heart of a man is like a deep ocean.

A deep ocean is not something one can just dive into, it requires some kind of special skill for one to perfect in its exploration and that is where most people fail. What you see is not what it seems says my personal person Miriam Akaolisa and I totally agree with it.

What lies inside the heart of a man is professed by the action he take and the words he says but men are so good at burying their emotions and this makes it impossible for even the wise to understand their true feelings and Logo Nwachukwu Onuorah is one person I know that always hit the nail on the head whenever people go beyond proper conduct.

These days, we see alot of ladies going beyond proper conduct and this situation leaves folks like Nnamani Micheal wondering what the world is actually turning into. I mean there is a process and it requires doing things the proper way but when we take the short cut to get what we want, we either end up pushing someone too hard and also end up asking lots of WHY.

Best friends are the one set of people that knows almost everything about us but sometimes, we don't truly know our friends talk more of our best friends. Who takes the blame when what we see is not what it seems, who takes the blame when the handwriting on the wall is not understood? Well, this is what happens when people don't do it right.

There is a process for everything, believe me Scholastica Onwubiko is in the best position to address this because she understands what it means for one to be stupid. Yes I mean it, it's an act of stupidity when it's done the opposite way.

Naturally, guys are the chasers but that doesn't mean that a girl can't go all out to express her uncontrolled and true feelings for a guy, I mean ask Sandra Wenwa Okafor and she will be kind enough to let you know that most girls go the extreme to express their desires.

We've seen it times without number and the Internet has been bombed with footages of girls doing it the wrong way and in most cases, this act ends with tears that is why Eugenia Alex Amakubukuro insisted that as far as she is concerned, that the modest and most acceptable way of proposing marriage is the traditional way; that is the guy doing it and not the girl doing it.

I don't meant that you don't have to chase after your heart desire, no you truly have to chase what you believe but Rita Ify Okoye always talk about allowing things to flow and I agree with her because the best thing that could happen to every one tangled in love is that love flowing.

You don't have to propose marriage to a guy, no descent girl does that and this is why I agree with Nnamani Micheal that girls that rush about marriage or trick a guy into marriage with pregnancy are bond for doom because what a guy has in his heart is quiet different and he shows it not quite long after you make the mistake just like Jessica and Anthony.

Jeremiah 17:9-10. The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? “I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.” This is just the truth about the man' s heart but do not blame the man because you are at fault Yes, Bigtata Cynthia says that it is wrong for a woman to be desperate.

When you are desperate to get married and you end up proposing to him, bet me; you willingly atrract shame upon yourself just like Ogonna Chiemezie rightly put it, men disrespect ladies that are too desperate to settle down because no matter how you try to justify this, she is settling down for the wrong reason.

You have been the chief bride's maid ten times in two years, all your friends have gotten married therefore you must settle down even if the man in your life is not yet ready, you believe that you will get him ready by all means, wether you agree or not, you have the wrong reason and with this kind of reason, my good friend Okoye Obiora Samuel once told me that women that act desperately end up settling down with the wrong person.

Afam Chukwuma said that men generally understands when a woman is not truly genuine, when she is simply after a man's material offer, men according to him usually play along because they consider the woman a player or in other words a gold digger so what they do is pretend that they are hooked simply to keep the woman blinded from the truth and women who find themselves in this kind of relationship are in hot soup.

They simply don't care who the other lady is and who she is to you, they cheat on you with people you know and they don't care about your feelings says Nkeiruka Priscilla, that is why she urges ladies to be confident of themselves and to be mindful of how they push their men because of the other woman because you might think that she is not aware but she has eyes on her back head. And she strikes without a second thought.

Jeremiah 17:9-10. The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? “I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.” This is just the truth about the man' s heart but do not blame the man because you are at fault Yes, Bigtata Cynthia says that it is wrong for a woman to be desperate.

When you are desperate to get married and you end up proposing to him, bet me; you willingly atrract shame upon yourself just like Ogonna Chiemezie rightly put it, men disrespect ladies that are too desperate to settle down because no matter how you try to justify this, she is settling down for the wrong reason.

You have been the chief bride's maid ten times in two years, all your friends have gotten married therefore you must settle down even if the man in your life is not yet ready, you believe that you will get him ready by all means, wether you agree or not, you have the wrong reason and with this kind of reason, my good friend Okoye Obiora Samuel once told me that women that act desperately end up settling down with the wrong person.

Afam Chukwuma said that men generally understands when a woman is not truly genuine, when she is simply after a man's material offer, men according to him usually play along because they consider the woman a player or in other words a gold digger so what they do is pretend that they are hooked simply to keep the woman blinded from the truth and women who find themselves in this kind of relationship are in hot soup.

They simply don't care who the other lady is and who she is to you, they cheat on you with people you know and they don't care about your feelings says Nkeiruka Priscilla, that is why she urges ladies to be confident of themselves and to be mindful of how they push their men because of the other woman because you might think that she is not aware but she has eyes on her back head. And she strikes without a second thought.