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Are You Gentleman? Check This Out!
As a man I really admire woman. I was born in the beautiful word cause a woman. of course she is my mom. Sometimes I can't thought with a man action who waste the woman. I realize that many of man have a big ego. And the other side woman want to be loved and woman liked the romantic situation, How to keep the warm relationship if there's no understanding between man and woman. As a man I want to give the best for my couple. And this is naturally as a man. With one condition, we must put aside our selfish sense.
To create those situation we have to act as a gentleman. If you are a gentleman, you certainly will work hard in order to make your partner feel protected and safe at your side. There is a tips for you how to act gentleman in front of a woman. By these action help you to indicate that you are a perfect gentlemen.
Let her sit first
While you're eating with your partner or candle light dinner. A man will be expected to attract the chair first for the couple. Sometimes this action considered too formal. But I think there's no wrong if you let her to sit down first. Standing a little longer to make her feel more respected, though perhaps she didn't realize it. Don't be too clearly pointed this out, because often she felt embarrassed. If this action successful, you will show that you want her feel more comfortable first.
Watch Your Language
One important point often missed. When we use the language that is sometimes too harsh. A man should be proud to be able to demonstrate the expression without using harsh language. Not only it will show your intelligence, but also shows a high standard for yourself and the people around you. Of course, smart doesn't mean using complicated words. The important thing is don't be rude!
Offer your seat!
A gentleman will never forget to standing and giving his seat on public transport for older people or pregnant women. Especially for your couple, don't ever forget to give your seat on the bus or other public transportation. This shows that you are more concerned her existence. Stand before offering your seat, this is an extra to show your sincerity.
This thing you can do at the time were at a party or while attending your friend's wedding invitation, or family party. This is the best time to introduce your partner or your wife to your friend, public or your family. A woman feel more appreciated when we want her to get involve. This would make her doesn't feel alone and isolated. Make sure that your partner always feel comfortable beside you and make her feel very important to you.
Turn off the phone when dating
Sometimes you look very busy. Until the dating moment your phone never stop ringing. And you are busy to receive that calls. This is very rough, either at the time of dating or other appointment, Try to make her as the most important person in the world in dating. Jut remembering when you receive the calls or you calls someone, you make her uncomfortable and as an silent object. Make sure you make a phone calls or receive the calls after the dating over.
Bring an umbrella for her
gentleman action is to bring an umbrella, make sure that she was still
dry, this is the best way to show a good attitude. A gentleman would always be ready for the weather the simple tools for this condition is an umbrella. When the rain come show your attention that you are more interested in her with carrying an umbrella and protect her from rain. There is nothing wrong if you're wet, because these actions indicate that you want to protecting her.
Give your jacket
Sometimes when dating moment, she wasn't wore thick clothes to keep out the cold air or air conditioning. If you feel that tonight is cold enough, offer her your jacket immediately . He may refuse your offer, but if he's starting feel cold, don't hesitate to offer again. You felt cold too? just hold on for a while! don't forget she's your main priority.
Take her home
This is a very important action for a gentleman. Make sure she gets home safely. This is your main priority. She would feel safe if she knows that you accompany him to the front door. If she stops and doesn't get in, probably means she wants you to kiss, but if she doesn't want it, don't force it!
Open the door
90% of women felt that this action is the main action of a Gentleman. This simple action will make a woman feel appreciated. It looks simple, but I want to remind you again. From the simple things we can get the bigger things. When you held it open until the person behind you pass that door. These actions show that you also respect others.