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Avoid Dating Rules

Updated on October 15, 2017
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Why Should you Avoid those who live by dating Rules

Centuries ago, dating wasn't practiced.

Mostly arranged marriages, or girl meets boy and for convenience relationships.

Nowadays, dating happens very quickly or is a slow process.

Couples have married their childhood sweethearts, and lived happily ever after.

Since modern times dating has many rules.

  • Do you think one should follow Dating Rules?

Those who follow these rules are plain and dull people, it is as if you need a guide for when in the moment of making love.

If you have mutual interests, or do stuff together without any kind of guide you can enjoy your lives together.

Be a who does not dictate from a diary every few minutes.

  • Do what you like and feel free to explore different avenues?

  • What do you look for in your dating partner?

Those who don't live to enjoy their lives, would rather spend most of their time at work, or the gym. would find dating rules most helpful.

To meet someone you got to get out of your home and mingle.

Have a real interest at heart.

Spend time with people and get to know them.

When dating you often expect too much of the other, something that is unavoidable.

Dating someone for the first time may seem all okay, but if a woman judges a man by the shoes he is wearing then forget the second date.

So, you want to date and don't feel the need to follow a guide.

It would be much better if you gave yourself a chance to meet someone through a friend.

Sometimes traditions hold you back from dating.

You should do what you can to make your dating experiences fun,and most interesting.

Socially, most women are expected to be modest, good mannered, or are expected to get into the bed of another man.

This happens is if they have given themselves to another before marriage.

In some situations some women sleep with other men to solve their emotional problems.

Dating doesn't mean you have to go to bed with every guy you meet.

  • If you don't date how will you find the one?

Rather be yourself. Be up for a challenging dating experience. In trying to follow a Dating-guide, it may not work out for every one, some daters would like to meet people and take it from there.

It is based on their own thoughts and feeling. While others would feel the need of following the rules of dating.

You may think having to go with the rules of dating that you would have a perfect relationship. In fact there is no perfect marriage or relationship.

The use of a guide-book is all up to the individual.

It won't make your partner and you communicate any better.

Things can get rougher and tougher.

Okay, the rules can offer comfort to your mind on dating, or maybe the cuddling after a one night stand.

Leaving the other doubtless after the first or second time dating is another point of dating you fail to understand. Whether you avoid those who use a dating guide, or mingle with it, the differences are not visible to you.

The choice is yours.

  • Who needs Dating Rules?

Those who have been hurt in the past usually holds grudges against their partners.

Thinking of men as losers or dogs happens when a female has been in bad relationship.

It leaves her feeling negative about all men and she can't stand any man from her bad personal experiences.

When she listens to what her friends have to say and goes by their advice.

This kind of person should be totally avoided. she won't be worthy of you.

A close-minded person, well, she looks at her rules in a narrow-minded way.

An insecure person, the one who has a negative behavior and believes only in her rules. The kind of woman that knows her rules are the best, and lies to you, forget her.

Most women are thought of as unlovable, mean, bloodsuckers, pitiful, nagging, or are just waiting on that someone to rescue them from their pathetic lives.

Love is beautiful and makes a woman want to fulfill her needs.

  • Date without rules!

Most important know what makes you and breaks you, believe me it is not love.

Know what you want, listen to your heart it never lies.

Remember marriage is a huge commitment.

Don't get into marriage if you think commitment is not for you.

It is entirely up to you if you want to get into bed with your first date. Think carefully about that idea.

Single people shouldn't think it is the end of their lives without a partner. Sometimes a single life is better than those who have a committed life.

Don't think negative about your life.

  • What makes you strong?

The weak moments make you stronger.

You must know that alcohol and intimate moments shouldn't be combined. It won't work out as you think when you have had conversed while drinking alcohol.

Hours later your feelings won't be the same as it was when you were in the excessive drinking moment.

Eventually you will learn of the truth about your partner.

Fun time is the best time.

A normal time for girls and boys to hangout with friends and have fun conversations. Even meaningful conversations.

When you notice your dating partner disrespects you that is when you should call it off.

A precious way of life for many girls and make the most of life. Also, use your freedom with care.

You must learn about life the hard way.

Make sure you don't give in easily

Don't always wait for him to ask you out, take a chance and ask him out.

Breaking up with someone doesn't mean you must fall apart in the process.

Don't date cheapskates.

Don't buy white shoes, those who where white shoes are classed as cheapskates.

Show you are independent, focus on confidence, and keep your head up high.

You can't always be into him and he the same for her.

The more loves you have it shows you are genuine and makes you a stronger and graceful person.

Making you realize the real experience of true love when you have more than a few lovers.

Waiting for the right person to come along can take a while. Only if you believe there is a right person out there for you.

In the mean time you can have fun with other dates, those who could be the wrong ones, it is all part of life.

Dating someone with good manners is a good idea.

If you speak out to your date he or she will stay and want to be with you even more.

Don't treat your first date like a job interview.

You should control yourself in a relationship.

Don't change yourself.

Don't lose interest in conversations while dating. Remember to focus on you not only on your date.

Take your time and get to know your date, don't rush into anything.

A great smile makes the moment most perfect.

Dating books or guides are not always as helpful. You learn from personal experiences

Having butterflies in your tummy ought to tell you if you are doing the right thing, and when you had found the right person.

You see true love in your partner when your bad habits are being accepted by them.

Be choosy, another major point when dating.

Finding someone by surprise is worth it.

Don't ignore self-confidence.

If your dating partner really wants to be with you, that person would be by your side through all times.

When dating never speak of having kids, that would chase your dater away.

Dating should be conversational and open.

Show you feel about each other not about what color underwear you are wearing.

Avoid topics of debate like religious issues and politics.

Love shouldn't be deprived and love shouldn't be feared.

Sometimes love can make one feel mixed emotions.

Often one thinks of what would others say about them.

Also, of the choice of partner you have, and off-course if you really have true love.

Such thoughts or opinions can be frustrating to have on your mind.

Let it go.

No rules required for dating. Listen to your gut, and if you are dating in your true beliefs know what you are getting yourself into.

Love is in the mind, and what you stand for are of your great values.

If you are willing to make sacrifices, that is who you are, and changing yourself is not possible.

Love is blind and you can't help who you fall in love with.

  • Would you follow the dating rules?

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      jtrader thank you for stopping by at my hubs so glad you commented. Your time is always appreciated.

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      jtrader 3 years ago

      "When you notice your dating partner disrespects you that is when you call it off." I agree.

      Everyone has dating rules of their own. ;-)

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      Devika Primić 4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      L.L.cool.J thank you for sharing your thoughts here, every relationship should have an open communication with both partners.

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      L.L.cool.J 4 years ago

      I have always said that girls are their own worst enemy when it comes to romance because if something is bothering them, they go tell their girlfriends instead of their man, and their jealous girlfriends will bash the man instead of telling her to go back and talk to him and work it out. The main key to any successful relationship/marriage in direct communication.

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      Devika Primić 4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      moonlake avoid dating rule go with the flow too many rules can spoil the dating process. thank you for sharing your thoughts here always appreciated.

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      moonlake 4 years ago from America

      Haven't dated in many, many years so I didn't know the rules but I do now from your hub. Good advice.

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      Devika Primić 4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Indian Chef thanks for commenting on my hubs so glad you came by.

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      Indian Chef 4 years ago from New Delhi India

      very nicely written hub. good work

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      Devika Primić 4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Au fait thanks for stopping by here have a lvoely day

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      C E Clark 4 years ago from North Texas

      Interesting perspective.

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      Devika Primić 4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Raitu Disong thanks for your brief comment

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      Raitu Disong 4 years ago

      Interesting Hub!

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      Hamad 4 years ago

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      Devika Primić 5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thanks stricktlydating for your comment

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      StricktlyDating 5 years ago from Australia

      I'm right into dating, and I think dating is about having fun and not stressing or obsessing, especially over dating 'rules'. Mind you, I have had my time doing just that! I realise now, dating should just be a time to enjoy spending with someone you are getting to know at the relationships own pace. So, I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic! :)

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      Devika Primić 5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thanks again you are one of my good supporters

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      Devika Primić 5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thanks for your encouraging words I am glad you found my Hub as good advice

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      kjforce 5 years ago from Florida

      DDE...Interesting hub...from the people I know who are in the dating world...it has changed immensly over the years...especially since the internet dating syndrome...and after hearing some of the horror stories, my soul mate is looking better every minute...thanks for sharing the thoughts and info...

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      lovedoctor926 5 years ago

      This is very good advice. The only books on relationships that I find useful are the why men are from mars and women are from venus collection by John Grey because it is written by a man with a psychology or PHD. degree. You are right though! I must say that I have broken quite a few dating rules since I go after what I want. Lol.. I don't think any of our girl friends are the best suited to give advice about men. Most of them will tell you oh he's a loser or he's not worth it you can do better. Your girl friends tell you what they think you want to hear, which is why it's never a good idea to talk to anyone about your love life. You make very good points with regards to who needs dating rules. Voted up.