Bad Boy or Good Guy?
The Bad Boy
A bad boy pays no attention to the woman, he is uninterested and unreachable which in return makes a woman more fascinated in him, this makes her want to get to know him because he's such a mystery.
A woman likes a bad guy because he can bring a certain type of excitement into her life. With the ups and downs the trials and tribulations it is known to impact the relationship, Leaving something to remember.
He can be charming always knowing the right things to say, making sure that he always gets his way. Fun to hang around, knowing all of the popular hangout spots.
Bad boys are also known to be cheaters, they can be very flirtatious which prevents them from being in a committed relationship.
They abstain from intimacy because they see it as being sensitive. As a result to this they show no affection, they refuse to be susceptible to catching feelings or getting to involved.
The good guy
He's that one guy who will always be there for you no matter what. He takes care of you and makes sure that you are okay. He listens to you when you talk, allowing you to speak without having to cut in on the conversation.
Nice guys are better at understanding your feelings and emotions. He's open with showing you how he feels, how much he cares about you and supports you when you need him the most. He pays attention to the small details because he knows that they can be the most important.
He's more willing to get to know you and wait until you are comfortable going further. He displays respect as well as self respect because he makes being a better person a top priority. This guy is very compassionate, loving, sympathetic, affectionate, inspiring and giving man.
He is often left in the friends zone because from what the roomers say, when a guy is to nice some women take that as being a pushover. This is true in some cases but there are some strong good guys out there.
It can be broken down into many different types of good guys. For example, One who is good at heart but also has his curiosity about what all the hype is about being a bad boy. Then there's the good guy who loves to please others, who can sometimes be needy and unsure of himself.
The phase
As an adolescent, a woman goes through a learning phase in her life..
Due to her being young minded, she pays the least amount of attention to the details of finding a life long partner.
She becomes entertained by a guy who has a well kept appearance, she gets turned on by his I don't give a f*** attitude.
As she gets older she realizes that she wants more out of a relationship. Wanting a man whom is trustworthy, gentle, sensible and always there for her.
This leaves men pondering on these questions:
What does she really want out of a guy?
Is it true that every woman wants a bad boy, or is it just a phase?
Is it possible that every woman has different wants and needs?
Why does the good guy always get friend zoned?
Balance
What a woman wants is balance..
They want that guy who can be a good impression on their family at the same time being that bad boy who brings excitement to the relationship.
Let's be completely honest here..
We ALL want it all, we want the total package!
Someone who is Good looking, Honest, Well kept, Smart, Charming, Good in bed and has something good going for themselves.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting the best of the best for yourself, We just have to remember that chemistry plays a very important part in how the relationship will turn out in the near future.
Being an open minded individual helps you to understand other people's situation, giving you a better opportunity at finding someone that you really like.
Looks are great and all but having that special someone who gets you, makes you feel comfortable enough to be goofy around, and is able to connect with you on a mental and physical level is a different kind of sexy.
© 2019 Truvybex