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7 Steps How To Be The Perfect Caring Best Girlfriend

Updated on November 16, 2011
Be the perfect girlfriend: Independent, Intelligent, Smart, Caring, Understanding, Creative, Loving...
Be the perfect girlfriend: Independent, Intelligent, Smart, Caring, Understanding, Creative, Loving...

Consider these ways and find out how to become the perfect girlfriend.

Do you want to keep him near you and, more than that, you want he considers you the coolest, the best and perfect love in the world? Consider these steps and find out how to become the perfect girlfriend.

1.Be an independent girlfriend

Men do not like women to take care of all the time, especially when they are barely able to take care of himself. Not considering exceptions where, for example, you had a terrible day and you need him near you. But try to avoid complaining all day long, to act like a spoiled child who sits in the background and crying when something goes wrong. Also, try, if possible, to have your money and do not ask him to buy your stuff (clothes, makeup, shoes, etc.). But it is recommended to do that on special occasions.

Another very important thing to support your independence: you should always have your own opinion on how it is not normal to say that you agree with everything he says.

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2.Be a smart girlfriend

Do not laugh at all his jokes and do not act like a girl who he would never introduce to his family or friends. It's okay to be witty and laugh at good jokes, but try to not to avoid it if it is not the case.

3.Respect him

If you are in the company of his friends or family and they all make fun of him, try defense him. Do not try to add something to make the joke even bigger or reveal something spicier from his life only you know. Respect his decisions and treat them properly, both in public and in privacy.

4.Let him be a man

Do not stop him to go out with boys, not ask him to eat salads and go on a diet, in general give him a little independence. No man likes to be kept under that kind of control. When he will feel this (or perhaps his friends will laugh at it) there are chances he may leave you.

5.Do not nag him

You know very well that nothing is worse than a nagging woman. When something is bothering you, put the problem in an elegant way and not behave like a mother in law. Obviously, if he goes out with his friends and "forgets" to call you, you have every right to get mad at him, but avoid endless arguments.

6.Be in good relationship with his friends and family

If you won his mother means you practically won "the war", especially if you know she is very demanding in what it regards her son. Do not bother to please her all the time (do not look flattering), but occasionally you can offer a bouquet of flowers or a symbolic gift (and do not forget to ask him his opinion because he knows her tastes ).

7.Love him

Love him as he is and not try to change him. A man who feels that the woman beside him loves and cares for him, is ready to offer the same in return and even more.

Be the perfect girlfriend and he will do his best to be your perfect man!

The Perfect Girlfriend


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      nikipa 7 years ago from Eastern Europe

      Leeberttea :) thanks for stopping by and sharing your opinion!

      Tonight... probably I will stay home and do some keyword research :) Probably this is the best hobby of all HP members.

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      leeberttea 7 years ago

      Oh yes, this article is right on! I think you would make the perfect girlfriend! Sooo what are you doing tonight?

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      nikipa 7 years ago from Eastern Europe

      Thank You Cheeky Girl for the nice comment! :)

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      Cassandra Mantis 7 years ago from UK and Nerujenia

      Wow, some good tips for all ladies here, I think. This can be put to good use! Thanks for the interesting tips here.


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