- Gender and Relationships
Being Gay In Todays Society Denial
The stage known as denial is a sad stage you see not everyone wants to accept what they are or what they have and they look for a way to hide it which we know as denial.
Some people get denial when they have a terminal illness or other bad things have happened in their lives but were focusing on gay denial which is also a bad stage, some turn to drugs or drink and crime and a lot of people with denial have been known to commit suicide, as we have one of the highest suicide rates in the world because:
·They don’t have the support they need
·They can’t accept what they are
·Their bullied terribly by friends or family
·Rejection from family and friends
These are only a few of the many points that have driven people in denial to suicide each one in their own way terrible and wrong. That is why you have to be strong and avoid denial because it will only make matters a lot worse for you if you don’t.
People in denial try to hide what they are with excuses such as:
·I`m straight not Gay
·My family did this to me
·Gay is a disease
·Its wrong to be gay the bible says so
·Its a phase I will grow out of
I have only named a few but there are many more excuses that people use and refuse to accept what they are, denial can lead to suicide, depression and many other bad things but with support from the right people they could be helped out of denial that is why I have wrote this guide to help you understand that its nobodies fault your gay its your identity and who you are and to be proud of it not fear or shame it. You can cheat people in this life but you can never cheat yourself so these excuses are of no use to you because you are cheating yourself into believing your not gay, when in fact you need to accept that you are gay and you can not carry on like this, because it will only get worse for you living this lie.
I do sympathise with you but you can’t carry on like this indefinitely your only gonna be worse off for it and never able to accept anything in the future, this is not who you are or why you were born in to this world.