Break Ups are Happening
All dreams over the years suddenly cracked like pieces of glass, and everything seems normal except something deep in the soul. This age of ‘big dreams’ has invented another word ‘, break up’. Today relationships are fully packed with breakups and Ex. Committed relations are there, but materialistic and practical aspects are becoming more powerful.
People feel easier in shifting relation than shifting train. Ohh…I remember someone's words, ‘ Now the train has left the station.
Why do breakups happen?
In old fairy tales, movies, and novels, or real life, we have seen ‘two hearts in relation’, and suddenly some outsider appears, and the story gets a twist. They face many ups and downs, and finally, all is ended either happily or with some tragic end. Outsiders are as important in Love tales as real heroes because they make the tale really sensible.
In contradiction of my above lines, I will add that Outsiders are not that important if ‘two hearts in relation’ are completely committed to each other. Nobody can be a ‘big outsider’ if you are not ready to welcome them. Every relationship has its own share of fights, arguments, and misunderstandings, but nothing can affect the relationship if we are attached somewhere inside. On the other side, if our inner bond is losing grip, we start creating arguments, making fake reasons, and moving from the relationship.
A breakup is hard to bear but moving on is worse, especially if you are still in love with your ex. A few days back, my one close friend shared his heart. His voice was really bold n confident, but his eyes explained another tale. He is broken inside. How can you see a person with someone else whom you have seen in your dreams?
I want to put here that sometimes 'people in relation' themselves are responsible for breakups. Nobody from outside does anything, but their own perceptions become a ‘big hindrance’ in relations.
They start doubting their partner and kill their own relation. Few expressions we often listen to. I remember a few.
- You are not caring. They are more caring
- Why are you doing it for them, not me?
- You are meant for me only.
- You have people around you so that you will be fine
- Delete me from Facebook account
Here I will say that there are endless excuses if you have decided to move, but relations are really hard to through in the fire of breakups.
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2012 Jaspal Singh