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Broken Heart Prescription

Updated on October 20, 2009
A Broken Heart by sweethaas photostream at flickr
A Broken Heart by sweethaas photostream at flickr

Get over it!

It’s so easy to say “get over it” or “you don’t deserve him…he’s not meant for you…you deserve someone better…” blah…blah...blah! But no matter how sick you feel when you hear those same lines of advice from your friends, it still hurts inside. Killing you like crazy!


The best thing to do about it is learning to smile again. Move on and taste another life’s heaven!


How to do that? It’s simple than you think. Doing these tips could make you laugh out at yourself in the end and think, “How the hell I’ve wasted my time crying over him?!”

Ice Cream Sundae Cupcakes by jamieannes photostream at flickr
Ice Cream Sundae Cupcakes by jamieannes photostream at flickr

How to Mend a Broken Heart


  • Sweets for my sweet, sugar for my honey…chocolates could make you fall for someone and it can also do the otherwise—forget about someone. Don’t forget the soothing power of your favorite ice cream.


“I never knew Mc Flurry tastes so good until you left me, honey…” –blaise25


  • Say goodbye to your old looks. That is so last season! You know what I mean, makeover! Looking more beautiful and fresh boost more confidence and positive energy. Before healing the inside, start with the outside.


“In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.” –Coco Chanel


  • Depressed no more it’s time for shopping! Complete your new looks with new wardrobes, shoes, accessories or whatever you like. It’s about time that you reward yourself and stop splurging things for someone else.


“When women are depressed, they eat or go shopping. Men invade another country. It's a whole different way of thinking.” ~Elayne Boosler


  • Socialize. Go out, meet new friends, mingle and get to know beautiful people like you. Who knows, you might meet your soulmate, “the right one,” your “meant to be,” or whatever you call it for that matter.



  • Experience what you’ve missed out. Go back to the hobbies and passions you’ve left out before. Visit a friend or a relative you haven’t seen in a long time. And hang out again like before with your friends.


“The only thing that heals a broken heart is time. But it really helps hanging out with your girlfriends as much as possible.” –Lauren Conrad


  • Put a smile in little children’s faces. Treat them out in a zoo, amusement or ocean park. Cuddles and kisses from your favorite little nephews, nieces and cousins pamper the soul. Their smiles are contagious. You’ll see, you smile more and more.


“Don’t cry because it’s over…smile because it happened.” -- Doctor Seuss

photo credit: yamiqs photostream at flickr
photo credit: yamiqs photostream at flickr


  • Visit a place you’ve never been... Make a new happy memory by going to some places you dream to go but never had a chance. Just don’t forget your camera.


“I went there realizing two things... I fell in love with the beach and I fell in love with me…”—Blaise25


  • Let go of the past. Welcome a new life. Maybe this time, after experiencing all those above, you had met a person who becomes special more and more. Don’t be afraid to take chances just because you’re afraid to be hurt again. After all, that’s life, you’ll never feel what is it to be really happy until you’ve felt what is it to be really lonely.


“When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone." -- Tennessee Williams



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      Alexander Thandi Ubani 5 years ago from Lagos

      Interesting and useful. Great tips

    • acaetnna profile image

      acaetnna 5 years ago from Guildford

      Wow - extra ordinary brilliant - well done!!!

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      Fehl Dungo 6 years ago from close to you...

      Thanks for the awesome comment :) XO

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      Dim Flaxenwick 6 years ago from Great Britain

      You really ´nailed it´here. Awesome AND beautiful and oh so wise.

      Bless you , l so , so enjoyed that.

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      Fehl Dungo 6 years ago from close to you...

      Thanks Acaetnna :)

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      acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

      Great, just got to keep on smiling! Thank you.

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      yup yup..Hope you'd be well. Thanks Kaye777 :)

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      kaye777 7 years ago

      yeah there is always a cure its up to u if you'll help urself or nurture the pain..bleed til u die..

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      hey, the heart never grows old...anywayz, I'm glad wherever your bike leads you, you always drop by here ;p

      thanks Micky! :)

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      Micky Dee 7 years ago

      It's all true but my make-over. This old dude can't be made-over! I have soothed with chocolate though.

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      yeah, and I don't mean to change for what a person is or who she is..what i mean is just to freshen up and a little make over LOL

      yeah, chocolates..chocolates..more chocolates :)

      thanks heart4theword!

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      heart4theword 7 years ago from hub

      Great Advice! It is true that making a change physically, not only changes the outside, but helps to then heal the inside:) Oh, can't forget the Chocolate! That helps too:)

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thanks christal ;p

      goodbye? hmmm, that's a tough one huh? LOL Never said goodbye to someone in the past relationships. If I did, I never mean it LOL I always wanted to be friends, though it was kinda hard at the start..I'm someone who doesn't hold grudges or whatever. At one time, you will always meet at crossroads, and it's always a time when all wounds were healed..Goodbyes for me are always left unsaid..But if they say it to me, it's fine..I don't have a problem with that. LOL

      In short, life is too short to waste for hard feelings..when you found happiness, stick to it. :)

      So do you still want my advice? LOL

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      christalluna1124 7 years ago from Dallas Texas

      Excellent article with perfect advice. Got any for saying good-bye?

      Warmest regards,

      Christal

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thanks Sierra ;p

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      sierra8 7 years ago

      Nice work!

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      @Ralwus

      me and him..

      thanks again ralwus ;p

      @Madison

      thanks! your sites are awesome. thanks for the fan mail ;p

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      Madison 7 years ago from NYC

      Awesome hub!!

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      ralwus 7 years ago

      Now seriously, who could break the heart of a pretty girl like you?

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thanks so much stars ;p

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      stars439 7 years ago from Louisiana, The Magnolia and Pelican State.

      very nice. very well written. gby

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      glad to see you here Annie Laurie, thanks! ;p

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      annie laurie 7 years ago from England

      A great hub it made me smile

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      and that made me smile HealthTip ;p

      thanks!

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      HealthTip 7 years ago

      I love this Hub, it made me smile, am bookmarking it !

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thank you Melody! ;p

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      Melody Lagrimas 7 years ago from Philippines

      A very inspiring hub.

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thanks Dark Heart!

      and if I may add,,your "Coldest Glass of Wine" may be a great help, too ;p

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      Dark Heart 7 years ago

      This happens to almost everyone at one time or another and

      good practical advice such as yours really helps.Thank you

      so much.

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thanks Ash!

      I'll try more to keep it up ;p

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      CiscoPixie 7 years ago from I'm in a world of my own, but aren't we all?

      FANTASTIC! once again you have done a great hub :) keep up the good work Blaise!

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      hell yah, I too wanna grab one! lol

      thanks for dropping by lorraine ;p

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      poetlorraine 7 years ago

      that is a really nice positive hub, wish i could just reach in and eat one of those cakes

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      exactly ;p

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      Best Web Redesign Company 7 years ago

      The best thing to do about it is learning to smile again.

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