Advice on creating charm
You are
irresistible just when you find life irresistible to you, when you love each
and everyone and are thrilled with life’s challenges. That attitude gets
reflected from others too, you kind of drag them along to a good way of living.
But how to come about this? You must let go of rigid patterns of life and open
yourself to new possibilities like most do when they are about to go for a
holiday. Catch that mood and let it be your guide to how to live your life, how
to approach the things in life and how to be social. But be quick witted in
this and pay especially much attention to when it works well and at which
moment it has ceased to be effective and when it goes totally ashtray. Since if
you are too slow, you start the right way but then continue along some old
habit of yours and end up pouring your good will upon others who are stuck on
their own habits without you getting anything in return. You ought to keep the
thrilled mindset all the time. It isn’t anything fixed, it is like being born
anew each moment: “Oh, it is like this… And that! And there is! And there!...”
Each new thing which catches your attention gives you strength, each enjoyable
experience is kind of fuel that keep you going. And in that it is important
that you do not overdo anything, just go with the flow of the situation without
“putting it to a box” to repeat, to continue or to give to others – just let go
and enjoy life, that way you can endure forever! In social relationships you
have to see what is a good way to live for both of you, kind of seduce the
other one to the right kind of good times and then just enjoy the thus found
entertaining life together.