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Dating And Flirting Tips

Updated on May 28, 2009

Welcome to online dating tips hub page!

If you are single and wating for someone special than you are at the right place.

if you have no knowledge about dating than carefully watch out my hub and learn different tips of dating. Some key feature of my hub-

  • Learn how can prepare your date.

  • What are the main differences between Man and Woman.

  • Where you can find your partner.

  • How can ask a woman for her phone number.
  • How woman flirt.

  • Some flirting tips for man.

  • How to tell if she like or interested in you.

  • What should be our body language at the time of dating.

All most people are confused who looking for a great girl or a man. Here you can find some most effective tips by which you can understand thinking of a man and woman about each other. We knnow that before making any relation a better understanding is so important, so read my hub tips and create a great understanding with your partner.


  • Look into her eyes "too long." 

This is simply holding eye contact a little bit longer than you normally would. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it's a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there's a brief, more intimate moment between you.

  • Make decisions easily. 

It's important to make sure that you make decisions easily. Remember your outcome: romantic feelings, and moving the seduction along. This means that making a decision quickly is more important than choosing the perfect type of coffee, or taking the time to really think about whether you want a cherry danish or a plain one. By making decisions quickly, you show her that you are a decisive man who she won't have to take care of.

  • Wink at her. 

You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.

  • Check out her body.

Checking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her body, not objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don't do it too often--two times during a coffee date, for instance, is plenty.

  • Keep your body powerful.

Women want to be with men who are engaged in their lives. You'll appear even more engaged if you sit, stand and move like you are both fascinated and fascinating. As a bonus, moving as if you are totally engaged with and turned on by life will perk you up and give you more energy for the interaction.

  • Compliment her.

You want to cultivate complimenting her as a potential lover, not as a tepid friend. Let's talk briefly about the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman's friend compliments her by saying something like, "you have a very nice briefcase." The compliment doesn't show that he is interested in her romantically, or that he notices anything romantic about her. Put another way, it's a compliment another woman might give to her. If you give a woman a compliment that another woman might give her, you might as well be another woman, striking up a casual friendship.

You want to make it clear that you are a man who is noticing her as a woman, rather than an amorphous blob of undefined protoplasm who might as well be another woman talking to her. A man who is committed to being seen as a potential lover gives compliments that show that he notices her as a woman. Rather than saying "You have a nice briefcase" he'll say something like "You have beautiful eyes," or "Your smile is so beautiful, it lights up the room."


  • The most important tip I can give you about picking up a woman is to MAKE EYE CONTACT with her. Look long and adoringly into her eyes. Never look down (a sign of submission, timidity, and weakness) and never look at a woman's breasts when you're talking to her (a common mistake many men make).
  • Also, be sure and SMILE! A smile sends a positive and important message. A smile says, "I will not reject you. I like you." A smile combined with prolonged eye contact says, "I like you a lot. I want to know you. Let's talk."
  • INTRODUCE YOURSELF For example, simply say, "Oh, my name is (your Name). Then allow the woman you're picking up to offer you her name. Pause for a moment. If she doesn't offer it, ask her what her name is. Then, and this is very important, USE HER NAME in the very next sentence that comes out of your mouth. Using her name works like magic to put her at ease and makes her more interested in you. A person's name is the most important and powerful word you can ever say.
  • The next thing you want to say or do is COMPLIMENT HER. Call attention to some detail about her, and flatter her in a totally positive way. Be sure to say something specific, that is special about HER. Be polite and creative when dishing out compliments. The more poetic and/or dramatic you can be, the better the results you'll get. Because men lust with their eyes, BUT women lust with their ears!
  • The last tipis NEVER BE SHY ABOUT ASKING HER FOR HER PHONE NUMBER. It doesn't matter that you only just met her. Even if you have only spoken with her for as little as one minute! Be direct. You can say something like, "I have to be going now. But I'd love to see you again. Can I call you?" Without the all important phone number, you will never get anywhere with a woman. Because to score you will need a date. And to get a date you will need the number. So ALWAYS ask for the telephone number!


  • Do some homework. In the days before a date, take time out to catch up with current events and hot topics. These are great convesation starters and you will be able to impress your date with your knowledge. Try to remember as much as you can about previous conversations together so you can follow up on them.
  • Start looking and feeling good in advance. Set time aside for exercise in the days before the date, whether it's yoga or push ups. Eat well and get plenty of sleep.
  • Pick your clothes early. You should have several outfits laid out before the day of the date. It will allow you to try on a few different looks on the day of the date.
  • Clean up on the day of the date. Take a nice, long shower or bath. Ensure you have clean hair and nails. you should smell good, but not overpowering. Avoid heavy perfumes and aftershaves.
  • Think positively, you are going out to enjoy yourself, After all. Don't start worrying about what disasters could happen, because that way they are far more likely to. If you are getting nervous, call a good friend, listen your favorite songs.
  • Be punctual, Give yourself plenty of time to get to your rendezvous. Keeping your date waiting will start things off on the wrong foot.


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  • Not shake or move a lot in the presence of an attractive woman.

Men tend to easily get intimidated with women that are way above their league. It’s really funny to watch. It usually goes like this: Man sees attractive woman. Man starts to smile nervously. Man starts to make unnecessary movement because of the extra energy he feels. Man gets very jittery. When woman gets close, man tends to change his behaviors and act way cooler then he really is. If you’re nervous all throughout the interaction, chances are she’ll be nervous

  • Should not have thy hands inside the front pockets.

Never have your hand inside your front pockets when you initiate a conversation with anyone unless it’s below freezing and you don’t have any gloves. For some reason, I feel comfortable when my hands are out of my pockets. At the same time, don’t move your hands around too much when you talk.

  • Should not stand or sit too close or too far from her.

If you stay to close to her, right from the bat, then she will feel very uncomfortable. If you’re too far from her, then it won’t feel like it’s a conversation. I’ve had success with starting off at about 3-5 feet away, and slowly get closer at specific points of the interaction. Try mixing it up. At high and fun points take a step closer or move your chair closer. At low points step away a little bit. Experiment with it.

  • relax and lean back.

when you assume a relaxed position, even if you’re nervous, you slowly start to feel more relaxed. Next time you’re in an interaction, just lean back and try to be as relaxed and comfortable as you can. That includes doing things like slouching, placing your feet up on chairs, and leaning against the wall.



  • Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
  • She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated (this could be mistaken for being high on drugs).
  • Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
  • While talking to you she is slowly stroking her cocktail glass up and down with her thumb and index finger.
  • If she is wearing clothes that shows her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
  • She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
  • Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
  • She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
  • She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way.
  • She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
  • She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
  • She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
  • She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
  • Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
  • She rubs her wrists up and down.
  • She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
  • She laughs in unison with you.
  • She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.
  • Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
  • She mirrors your body language and body positions.
  • Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.
  • While talking to you, she rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
  • In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
  • While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
  • She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.


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