The Defiant Person

Defiant is when one individual wants authority over another. She is defiant and will not take heed of his conversations.

What you must know about defiant people:

The person had learned this kind of attitude over time. Arguments occur more and more, and this can make one feel more pressured in their daily activities.

Requests are not complied with in a relationship.

The Defiant Person

The partner in a relationship does not follow any rules. A kind of attitude that can annoy one another. It can also be an upsetting issue.

The mind of the individual blames others for their wrongdoing or mistakes. They can become frustrated with others very easily.

I have noticed the angry attitude of this woman and have seen the way she behaved towards simple conversations. Often, she speaks rudely, and unkind words come out of her mouth.

I sometimes wish I did not have to see her that often. Her attitude is about seeking revenge. Communication is rather difficult with this individual. She always knows and has an answer to every question.

I noticed that she had an answer to every question that I asked her. She has a mind of her own and thinks she knows better than others.

Her anger and impulse control are not intact. I recently made some mint sauce and when she came over for a quick chat, I told her I made something special.

I asked her if she knew what I added to the sauce. I was surprised by her conversations about the ingredients, but she did not give me one correct added ingredient of the mint sauce.

This type of woman just wanted to be right and acted like an expert, but lacked knowledge of the ingredients in the mint sauce.

A defiant woman and up for a debate in all times I have visited her and with her husband.

She is disobedient!

An individual who refused to comply with anyone’s needs. She often annoys others deliberately. I have seen in her behaviour that she can be spiteful or vengeful.

There are no compromises in her marriage. An adult who will not accept she is wrong. Verbally she can show her anger and annoyance. I have seen her lose her temper and argue with her husband.

Any request is denied by her husband making him feel disregarded. The common problem is her resentfulness and blaming others for her mistakes.

Authority is her priority!

I have not had such an experience before with a defiant individual. She perfectly fits the description. Her constant change in attitude connects with her not-so-normal behaviour.

In her conversations with me, I have observed that she feels misunderstood and disliked by other people. The type of woman who is too quick to get angry and defend her conflicts.

In some cases, such behaviours are intolerable. Individuals shoplift and go on a different path in life. They tend to use drugs and excessive use of alcohol.

Her often argumentative conversations leave her husband speechless and helpless. He cannot reason with her.

In this case, she does not use any substance but has a way of dealing with her issues. Whatever she suggests is right in her mind for her husband to abide by her.

Her vindictive ways have shown me the type of person she can be, so I decided to keep my distance from this crazy woman.

My recent visit to her house showed me how hard it must be to live with someone who has defiant characteristics.

They got into a moment that surprised me!

Someone who would not reason with their husband on a debate. The words flowed easily, but with only one intention. Nobody is right except for her in the room.

The argument I heard for a few minutes wasn't pleasant nor was it fair to her husband to the guests she had in her home on that evening.

I eventually left and sensed the tension between these two.

I do not expect every person to be the same, but just seeing the way she communicates with others makes me know more about her rude behaviour.

I often hear her tone of voice and that tone explains all about her defiant character.

The early stages of her marriage are already in trouble. It is a one-sided marriage. He has failed with her arguments and sadly will not admit it.

The relationship in this marriage is about her being right each time. It is not about others when you marry you should be happy and free in your marriage.

This marriage is about other people accepting them or not. A marriage is about two people not about the village being involved.

It is not worth my time to make any point right or wrong with her. She seeks revenge and constantly buys clothes to compete with others. Her life is about frustration, misled communication skills and a lot of anger.

It is difficult to handle such situations when entangled with words. I observed this character and know what the best for me which is to stick to my best choices of people.

Her negative thoughts make her feel that way and she is less confident about herself adding to her crazy behaviour.

I feel she has not much to compete with and tries to be something she is not.

For example:

She barely knows much about my culture and when I mention anything different, she right away assumes she knows what I am speaking about.

Her defiant behaviour has grown to annoy me, but I do not want to stoop down to her level.

Everything in my life has changed and sometimes it feels like I am on this roller coaster ride forever.

I try to be happy in my own way and avoiding such characters is one of my greater ways of managing my days. I have grown to accept certain parts of my life the parts I know and feel are easier to know more about.

When I meet such individuals it just feels like a dark cloud has come over me.

I still look over that dark cloud because I know the sun is hiding somewhere there and will be out soon.

I do not have time to waste my time on people who are defiant and assume they know it.

They do not know as in this case, she is a less-educated person with a definite problem.

I see this case in the following way:

Her problem lies within her from childhood and now as an adult, these factors are affecting her marriage and friendships with others.

How do you see this problem?