'Do Not Judge My Chains': A Life Circle and Special Poem of Hope: About Love and Not Judging Others.

Do Not Judge My Chains: A Life Circle and Special Poem of Hope: About Love and Not Judging Others; by Pearldiver. It's amazing how we are not always right in our preconceived ideas of someone; especially if we ignore our own faults. This is all about a guy whose friend, a girl, is someone who never learned how to not be judgmental of others. In him, she finds that he knows her inner self better than she does. As a result, he spares nothing in telling her of her shortcomings, her coldness and her needs to change, if she wishes to find love. She listens to him and the more she understands him; the more open she becomes to understanding herself.

For him, he gets to show both her and himself that he is not going to allow himself to be controlled by the perceived chains that others use to judge him. To do this he must firstly have is friend change the way that she looks at him and have her look honestly at herself. For the first time then, complete honesty takes them to a level of friendship that neither could foreseen. Love is a hard subject to write about when the words just want to ride off the page and follow the heart given them by the author. I hope that I have held them here, without chains, just long enough for you to read and enjoy! So please enjoy: 'Do Not Judge My Chains' by Pearldiver.

Please Note: To Appreciate this poem please read it at a slow pace - hahaha - it was written slowly!

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Do not judge any man by the chains he wears

For he may be your next husband’s lover

Do not judge any stranger, or think you are that wise

For he may be your unknown father

Perhaps a brother or your nemesis perhaps

Standing here before you; within his chained disguise

Can you hear the tears of a mute man?

Do you even care to try?

Because, you speak of caring

You speak of love

But you never feel; or learned, what it is to cry

Do not judge others by your sense of order

For all people were not made so to be

Do not judge my heart with such detachment

For my friendship is not merely a placebo for your pain

Such hurtful feelings fall hard, like raining acorns

Their echoes lost; to falseness they can not dent

Can you describe colors to a blind child?

Do you sense the depth of blue?

Because, you speak of wisdom

You speak of love

But you take away chance; its chance to grow in you

Do you even understand your expectations?

Foolish prejudged values, measured only by you

Do you even know what being in love is, at all?

For those seeds you sowed, fell on fertile ground

As you searched for perfection; true flawlessness

High standards we’ll never find in you; as you’re not that tall

Can you say words only deaf friends could hear?

Do you know how to sign “I care?”

Because, you speak of truth

You speak of love

But in you, these things; in you, they just aren’t there!

So do not judge the chains that you feel I wear

Even though you may think, you know me well

Look at yourself from within the soul that I can see

Find the emptiness where humility is meant to be

Look at the hollow space within your unloving heart

Then find in your heart reason, to become judgment free

So can you be taught how to walk by a crippled man?

Can you believe that he found love in you?

Because, you spoke of dancing

You gave him hope

But he won’t understand it, if you don’t learn, how to be true

Now others will judge you by all the steps and moves you make

Can you learn to love without judging broken chains?

Because, he speaks of forever

And speaks of loving you

In love he can dance endlessly and in love maybe learn, to walk again

*Pearldiver*

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