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Don't Be This Type Of Female

Updated on June 13, 2010

Here we go again! What is up with the women of today? We want far too much, especially from our men. We want perfection when we ourselves are very flawed. Truth be told the entire human race is flawed. This is my problem when it comes to us women and yes I included myself. We all know the condition of the men today. They are spoiled beyond belief when it comes to getting the things they want from women. This is not a bad thing in itself; but it's the number of women at once that turns this situation into a bad thing. Men, do not have to prove themselves anymore. The only thing women of today require is for him to simply show up. Oh we talk the talk....the problem is we don't have the legs to stand on to walk. With women out numbering men due to incarceration, murder and homosexuality, women are left with the notion that they must up their game in order to maintain. Men being fully aware of the shortage, realize that women are now in competition for their affection and therefore are manipulating the situation. Some women are going as far as taking care of employment on their behalf...required. This is so sad, because we are ruining our men. The bad ones are gone worse and the good ones gone bad. However, all is not lost. There are good men still out there. The thing is they are not going to touch you with an 100 foot pole. The reason being you no longer possess self-esteem. Competing for an man's affection does not scream self confidence. If you are a self confident person you would know that you cannot buy love and if a person truly loves you then there would no need for you to compete for their affection. A good man is a well rounded individual whom shows his woman (wife) respect. He's known and respected by many (men and women). He's committed to one woman and he's a man that believes in God. He's hard working and a good provider for himself and his family. He will not raise his hand in anger to his woman or his children, instead he is their protector. Women this is what you deserve! We have become so adapted to providing for our families that we ourselves have taken the place of good men; but we are being good to individuals that do not deserve this type of love. I have seen women loving men like this; just for this man in return to beat them, take their money and sleep with other women. Don't be this type of female! Know your worth! If you cannot find a good good man will eventually find you. Stop running from one bad relationship to the next. Your womanhood was not meant for this. Don't be this type of female: victim, damage goods, bad mother, etc.,etc.. Most of all stop your whining because it's not making your situation better; instead let the no good guy go, don't pick up another one, rebuild your self-esteem and learn to identify the qualities of a great man. God Bless.

PFP. 2010

The Truth About Love © 2010. PFP

Women spend their entire lives looking for love. Why look for love when it's within your reach? It's not something to seek. True love begins with you. If you cannot truly love can you expect someone else too.? When we don't love ourselves, it shows, leaving our insecurity out there for everyone to know. I'm sick of listening to women whine about how men are dogs, have you stopped to realize your inability to love yourself may be part of the cause. We stereotype these men; but at the same time we expect them to be our lovers and friends. Truth is, the issues between the sexes is at an all time mess.....ladies instead of seeking....... you need to chill out and just flex.


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      SweetMocha-Monroe 7 years ago

      Lady_E thank you so much for your kind words. I loved your hub and will share it as well. God Bless.

      dreamreachout thank you so much for your kind words and becoming one of my followers. It is very much appreciated. God Bless.

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      dreamreachout 7 years ago

      Wonderful practical hub!!

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      Elena 7 years ago from London, UK

      Very good advice - I will share this.


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      SweetMocha-Monroe 7 years ago

      Thank You For Reading.

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      SweetMocha-Monroe 7 years ago

      Thank you. I always appreciate your comments.

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      breakfastpop 7 years ago

      Very wise advice for women of all ages.