- Gender and Relationships
6 Most Annoying Things Girlfriends Do Without Realizing
Being in a relationship has lots of benefits as well as pains. I remember back in 2008 when I was in college, I was dating one of the prettiest girls in college. Certain things about her that I am not sure to say it really turned me off or say it sort of annoyed me big time are listed here for others to learn. I can write this hub because she has gone out of my life. Thanks to the universe for granting my wish. I am pretty sure you will find many in your relationship. Here is my list.
1. She Remembers Every Single Fight We had
This I don't mean physical bashing. I never bash a women. I have my reasons not to. Every time I didn't satisfy one of her demands or desires, she remembers all that so well that she can even give a full thesis when she wanted to. This to me was totally annoying. It is only human that I made mistakes. She does that too. I forgive and forget but for her, she carried the big luggage around frequently emptying all the stinking garbage out killing us both.
2. She Complains Just About Anything
She should better be a radio announcer. She complains just about every thing. Food, clothes, money, our friends and family. The most annoying thing I hate was when she brought her family problem into our relationship. For instance, her mother gets on her for something and then she instead of getting mad with her mum gets mad with me for very little or should I say unnecessary things. Sometimes I used to think this beautiful girl was insane.
Not to forget her mothers throws her fingers right into the heart of our relationship. She tries to tell us how to live but then we were growing up adults in college. OK. Its better to take advice from the older ones but it gets annoying when the older ones try to dictate your life. To me this was totally crazy.
3. Unwanted Organization Of My Stuff
To this I understand she only tried to help. I love her for doing that but only as lovers. Only if she consults me where to put what and what to put where. I have to be honest here that I lead a higly organised life. I am a writers, environmental researcher, I work with so many NGOs and I am a public figure. It only makes life easy when I live an organised life. When ever I want to get something, I just go and pick it up because I know where exactly I had placed it. What used to pissed me off was that she comes to my room and organizes things in my room in the way she wants it. Even she decided the type of curtain I should buy for my room back in our college days.
I had all this bottled up inside me because she was soft and I didn't wanted to hurt her by telling her I didn't like her doing that. Ask me why? Read the next reason.
4. She Cries At Things Not Worthy For Her Tears
Its OK to cry. When her granny died she cried bitterly and I had to give her all the comfort she needed. When her mum walked out of their family I was the shoulder she cried on. That is perfectly normal. But not when she called for me to come quickly to see her and because I was doing a major assignment, I had to come late and what? She cries. Damn. Not when she didn't score well in her sociology exam. She should study hard instead than to waste tears. Damn again. Not when Jack in Titanic drowns. Not when I justify to her that I wanted my soils research books to be stacked in one row and on-line writing books on the other row. Most of this tears were totally unnecessary and to me were annoying. Why? We should be happy and not crying and cry when it necessary.
She Moves At A Snail Phase
When I say "Babe I am in a rush to meet my soils professor"...She will yells out "Wait! Wait! Wait!"Then I wait and wait. "Baby I am already late" I'll say again. "Wait" Then she grabs her towel and runs into the shower. I know too well not to leave her behind because if I do she will cry unnecessarily and I just don't want to be annoyed again.
We will say to go and see other friends but she takes million years to change into a proper out fit. Hey! We aren't going out for a formal dinner with the Prime Minister of Papua New Guinea.
I am always time conscious and this lateness annoys me.
She Compares Herself With Another women
Find it more annoying to see my women comparing other women with herself. She has my approval and attention already. What more does she wants? I know women are competitive, but it's just not attractive to listen to you dog someone out, particularly someone you don't even know. Kindness is underrated, and cattiness is a mood-killer.
Add to the list what you find annoying about women in your relationship. I would prefer you use your own experience. In the next hub I will produce annoying things about men in a relationship.