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Flirting to get back at your next door neighbor's Wife

Updated on November 1, 2017
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Flirting with the next door neighbor


Flirting with married women

Are you flirtatious?

Do you think it is a good plan to flirt with your next door neighbor's husband?

A married woman flirts with her next door neighbor to get back at his wife. The man's wife is jealous and insecure.

Is that a way to get back at a jealous person?

The married woman flirts with this man and his wife is troubled by her behavior.

The problem with the couple she is too clingy with her husband and he married this woman so that he can fulfill her needs.

Whenever, this next door woman visits the couple the husband pays more attention to her and makes sure his wife serves her immediately.

She can't stop this woman's visits to their home and the other woman enjoys every minute of flirting with this man.

The woman thinks it is a good way to get back at this spiteful woman and is a great satisfaction.

He married this woman thinking everything with his family and friends will be the same. Unfortunately, nothing is working out as he had in mind.

Since marriage this woman has driven his family away from him they stopped their usual visits. the family is torn apart.

This makes the man unhappy to see how the marriage has affected his life.

Before the marriage the families were the very close and happy.

It is about the type of person he had married.

Often he talks about his problem to other neighbors.

The sideways glances are telling the wife she doesn't mean much to him.

The flirting makes his wife frustrated.

You need to remind others you still have it and this woman is showing that she still has it.

Flirting with the next door neighbor's husband makes her feel positive and lets them know she is full of action.

This man reminds this woman she still has it.

Life is not just about cleaning house and taking care of babies, a little of something to keep each day happy does make sense to some individuals.

The wife is angry at him and trying to change his way of life because of their marriage. It is not fair to this man to experience this unfairness from his wife.

He shouldn't give up his priorities because of marriage.


Jane flirts with the supermarket butcher. Her husband is happy about the flirting and knows Jane is a good catch. This flirting with the butcher made Jane's husband see how much he should appreciate his wife.

She has every right to flirt if she is that type.

Flirting with the next door neighbor is making the wife feel not so important. In this case, the man is happier when in the presence of this woman than he and his wife are happy together.

She has every right to be annoyed with the other woman and the flirting continues to and she is fed up..

He responds to the woman's flirting and the wife doesn't know how to cope with such behavior.

The stares from this man to the other woman makes the wife feels jealous.

It is normal to feel jealous but he won't stop the flirting.

The two woman are not friends the flirting is to get back at this jealous woman because she often likes to pick on the other woman.

He often wants this woman to accompany them to functions and would prefer to have her by his side than his wife.

She is not happy with the way everything turned out. for them.

He has become more stressed and confused about his marriage.

The flirtations between him and this woman make him feel great. He is happier when the other woman and when in conversations with her.

The wife has had enough of it and is in this marriage for the money. She is holding on to her man by showing him she is jealous and possessive. The constant fights are not making their marriage any better.

I don't believe a woman can change a man’s habits or his lifestyle.

The friction between these couples is over the boiling point.

Another example:

He started admiring his wife's friend's helpfulness around the kids and took the bait. Her flirting took him in hook, line, and sinker.

He appreciated this woman more and more each day and started spending more time with her.

Little flirtations lead to bigger actions if taken seriously.

The woman felt the need to invite her friend for a party, and this opened her eyes to a bigger surprise. Her friend followed her husband for most of the night.

She wore revealing clothing to get the attention of her friend’s husband, it didn't work out they stopped being friends once the truth was revealed.

The neighborhood flirtation happens in small communities and when among good friends.

Flirting with your next door neighbor can become an emotional affair.

Stay away from that act.

Back to the first couple, he flirts back with eyebrow –raising conversations and wide smiles. The happiness shows in his eyes.

The woman is slim and is always well-dressed. The wife tries to do the same but is no contest to that woman.

Most men do like it when women flirt with them and show them attention. Also, they like the compliments and thrive on it. Sometimes the flirting steps over the boundaries as in this case, it has.

He needs to say NO when the flirting has stepped over the boundary. A man who fails to stop the flirting with the other woman then he has something else on his mind.

In this case, the woman is jealous and insecure.

The two are not enemies and don't prefer their friendship together.

She can see her husband is not into the other woman.

It is not working out for this couple and he is not interested in stopping the flirtations with other woman.

Is flirting with your next door neighbor's husband a good way to get back at her for the spiteful behaviors?

What do you think about the next door neighbor's wife?

Is he accepting the flirtation because he no longer is interested in his wife?

Does he prefer to be with the other woman than his wife?

Is he being misled with other woman's flirtations?

Is he falling in love with the married woman?

Why does he flirt with other woman?

Married men are not supposed to be available to others.

Does he want to be intimate with the other woman?

Would a serious conversation make the situation more direct?

There is something brewing between this man and the married woman, this relationship started before he rushed into this marriage.

He did admit his true feelings to this woman and since then he has not stopped caring for her. After marriage he moved on with his life but in a different way.

His focus never failed to be on that woman.

He has feelings for her and doesn't know how to go on with his wife and the marriage.

The wife is jealous because often her husband hovers around this woman.

It is difficult to make sense of it all when you are faced with such situations.

Flirting with your next door neighbor's husband to get back at his wife for jealous issues can ruin relationships.

She doesn't fancy this man and has a marriage of her own but the man flirts with her in a serious manner.

The woman is flirting with the man to get back at his jealous wife as in being revengeful.

He pays more attention to the other woman than to his wife when together and this shows how much he cares for that woman.


Does he prefer to be with the other woman than his wife?

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      Devika Primić 19 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi FlourshAnyway, thank you for commenting.

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      FlourishAnyway 19 months ago from USA

      Flirting when committed isn't appropriate.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      moonlake Thank you for commenting it has been a while since I read something from you. I appreciate you stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      rajan jolly Thank you very much for commenting.

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      moonlake 20 months ago from America

      Flirting while married is a dangerous thing and shouldn't be done even to get back at someone you don't like.

      I have seen it happen only once and she was shocked when the whole town started talking about her. Some people he/she have to have that attention. When it could cost them their marriage.

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      Rajan Singh Jolly 20 months ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

      Flirting when in a relationship is something I don't agree to for whatever reason. Interesting read though.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hello Shyron E Shenko thank you very much for commenting best wishes to you.

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      Shyron E Shenko 20 months ago from Texas

      Hello Devika, to answer you question, no I am not a vengeful person.

      Very interesting hub you have here. Most men think if a woman smiles at them they are flirting, and in most cases they are not.

      Blessings my friend

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      enge thank you very much for stopping by.

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      Madan 20 months ago from Abu Dhabi

      Wonderful post on reality in life

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      thank you swalia I appreciate your comments.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi MsDora thank you for commenting. You mentioned valuable points.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring I appreciate your comments thank you.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc You know you will be surprised of what goes on such lives! Thank you.

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      Devika Primić 20 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Harishprasad thank you for commenting. You are one of my great supporters always appreciated.

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      Shaloo Walia 20 months ago

      Flirting for revenge??? Some people can stoop to any level.

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      Dora Weithers 20 months ago from The Caribbean

      Flirting for any reason can be dangerous. But then again, some individuals may accept it as a fun thing, depending on how they were socialized. The best scenario may be for on spouse to flirt with his or her partner.

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 20 months ago from Southern Illinois

      I can't imagine how this type of behavior could benefit anyone. YUCK..

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      Bill Holland 20 months ago from Olympia, WA

      Does this really happen? I've never experienced it or seen it happen. Very strange.

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      Harish Mamgain 20 months ago from India

      A captivating piece about relationship turning sour ! In this part of the world, this kind of flirting is "no" "no". You wrote it so marvelously.