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Getting Over Someone in Seven Easy Steps ( How To )
Have you ever hurted from an old relationship ?
Getting over a person who hurted you or he was your old love is seems to be very easy , but most of people think it is very hard to achieve the complete stage of getting over that person , even if he work with you , in this article I will tell you how to do overcome any old bad memories , or to getting over someone who hurt you
how to get over someone you think that you can't live without him/her ??
First : asking yourself always : who is going to take care of me ? who will be beside me when I'm bad or down ?? , sure questions like this makes you fall again in living in the memories of your old relationship , STOP thinking in that way , search in your life , you must found lot of peoples who are already care about you .
Second : Listening to depressing musics and negative ones program your mind that there is no way to overcome this relationship , special if this media wether it was video or music or even a soundtrack remembering you with your old partner , please never listen to a music after ending a realtionship for some days , you can only listen to the positive media only .. and forget the romance ones .
Third : as long as you go to the same placesyou are used to go with your partenr , you make getting over process more harder , if you persuade your mind and yourself that every thing is over , you will never think again to go to this placeswhich make you more depressed .
Fourth : Some people after ending up a relationship , when the mobiles rang they ran to see who is calling wishing that the caller is his/her old partner , or even calling him/her trying to get everything to normal , other people still visit their Facebook or myspace pages , and always try to know more information about them, all this methods deep your hurt more and more , stop thinking about your old partner make you never even remember her .
Fifth : most of peoples after ending their relationships start to visualizing their old memories and how much they love each other , and remember their best days , and their distress situations , as I said before persuading your mind that everything is over helps you very much in never even dream of him/her .
Sixth : Keeping anything related to the other partner sure make you remember him/her , so you have to get rid of everything can remembering you with the other partner , also never keep his/her photos in front of you .
Seventh : Keeping convincing themselves that he is the one , and no one like him in that world , all this things will never help you to getting over this old relationship , you have to know that their are lot and lot of potensial partner who are around you , just start to search your new soul mate :)
At the end , it's all about your mind persuading , if tell yourself that it is over , then you will never think about him/her again , and never look at him every 2 minutes if he/she work with you .
doing this seven steps well , help you greatly to forget any old realtionships or any old partner and you will have a new great life ;)