Getting back in touch with an old flame
Getting back in touch with an old flame could be wonderful. Sometimes that is how you know it is meant to be. Other times it could be hard. It depends on the situation.
If you liked a guy in college and now he wants to hang out that's great. What if he is hard to talk to? You feel that you can't tell him about your life now. You had inside jokes but those were 10 yrs ago.
If you can't talk to a guy about the easy stuff than you can't talk about the hard stuff later on. When two people really care about each other they can tell each other anything. They don't feel embarresed as to what the other person thinks.
Focus on that someone whom you could be yourself around. That is the guy that you should be with.