- Gender and Relationships
Guys Who Make You an Option
It's not fun being around a guy who is making you an option when you are making him a priority. To some girls there can be a lot of guys who make them feel that way.
When you make a guy a priority who is making you an option you will find yourself like a hamster. Going around and around and getting nowhere. You think that there are things you can do to make him want to be with you. No matter what you do it won't be good enough. He has to like you for who you are and appreciate you.
It hurts when the person we want does not want us back. Feelings don't change overnight but surround yourself with people who make you feel number one. There will be that one guy who will make you feel first. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't giving you the time of day. Focus on the one who will do anything to be with you.
Unfortunately to some girls they have to keep on looking until they find the one for them. Don't stop looking. It may be a bumpy ride but there is someone out there for you. So whatever you do don't give up. At the right time you will meet the guy who will make you feel like you are the only girl in the world.