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Having Feelings for Someone Else When You're in a Relationship
Guys who cheat a lot get labeled as a player. Girls do it and she gets called a Slut. Cheating is wrong but it is not just physical it is emotional as well.
When you emotionally cheat you start to have feelings for someone else. As much as it hurts the other person it happens. You can't control your feelings but you can control your actions. Maybe you have feelings for someone else because the person you are with is not giving you what you want.
The more you force the feelings to go away the more you will have them. acknowledge them and at the right time they will go away. Don't start seeing both people because then you will end up in a love triangle and love triangles always have consequences. You started dating the person you are with for a reason. Think about it and if you don't want to fix on your problems then make the cut. Don't string the person you are with a long. At the same time don't give up the good guy for a player. Otherwise you will be alone and the nice guy will have someone who appreciates them.
There are times when you meet someone else whom you are attracted to. Think things through before making any tough decisions. If you have a deep love then nothing or no one could stand in your way.