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How Does a Lady Attract The Wrong Man Into Her Life
It is true that a man broke your heart by dumping you either for another woman or without justification, but why? This question of “why” is one big question that women fail to answer whenever they are faced with situations like this.
Before a man dumps a lady, something must have transpired it, it doesn’t just happen. Some ladies would tell you that they did nothing wrong to the man who eventually dumped them, which is a big fallacy I hate to believe. I know quiet sure that most of these ladies who became victim of this devious act, are most times innocent when it comes to moral judgment, but that is far from what I am talking about here.
Whether you did something wrong or not that triggered the eventual collapse of your relationship with the man you love, I want to tell you that you have a hand in the failure of that relationship.
I said this because you attracted this man into your life in the first place. If you did not attract and allow him into your romantic life, it is definitely impossible for him to hurt you. Secondly, you allowed your heart to fall in love with him without putting into consideration his early signs of betrayal; this is why it is necessary for you to test before you trust. All these all well explained in my E-book titled: “Secret Exposure for Single Ladies”, get a copy today and watch your life transform into virtue.
If you did not blindfold your eyes and sense of judgment with the illusion of love, you will be able to know if the man you are dating is good or bad, and you will be able to predict his ability of exhibiting such behaviors.
Remember once again that a man doesn’t just go to any lady he comes across, something must attract him to her. This may either be as a result of:
1. Physical attraction
2. Emotional Attraction
3. Spiritual Attraction
Physical attraction has to do with a man being romantically or sexually attracted to a woman either as a result of her physical beauty, shape, body movement, dressing or body exposure. This form of attraction is very vital in every romantic relationship because, before a romantic relationship can be successful, both parties must first be attracted to each other physically before any other reason. This is why it is also vital for a woman to be very cautious of the way she dresses, to avoid attracting the wrong man into her romantic life.
Every man loves a beautiful woman, but not every man loves a provocative woman. Remember, if you dress provocative or skimpy as a woman, you attract randy men. On the other hand, if you dress religiously, you attract religious men. Have you ever seen a stripper getting married to a Church Pastor, never! Logically, where will they meet in the first place, except the Pastor goes to a Night Club, which means he’s no longer worthy to be called a Pastor?
Strippers date club men because they are their remote choice, unless the stripper changes her dress code, physical look and also her environment.
When you dress wrongly, even with a pure heart, men will believe you are wild, and they will come wild. Men hardly forget the first day they met a woman; it keeps ringing in their head. And if for instance, a man meets you on the wrong interpretation of your personality; it is very difficult to change it because he will always believe that you are a wild woman even when you have changed. All these are the reasons why you need to be careful of how you attract men into your life, it matters a lot.
Does all this imply that you should not dress well as a woman? No! As a woman, you should dress smart and beautiful, but not provocative, unless you have made up your mind to play the game. If you really want the good men to come your way, dress modest. One thing women don’t know about men is that they rate them according to their physical appearance.
Another means of attracting men into your life is by emotion. Your emotion sends out signals to men every time, but the ability of your jamming device to diffuse or jam their own signal receiver, protects you from harmful attacks, which come in the form of advances by men.
Bad men or simply playboys, have high frequency signal receivers that have the ability to receive even the least frequency signal coming from the women. What do I mean by this? Be careful, if you have a poor emotional control, bad men will ripe you off emotionally.
Let’s take for instance you are a young lady, who is still in the University, and a time came that you became financially handicapped, and the you start getting pissed with yourself because you cannot even afford to buy yourself the basic things you need as a lady. Now listen, if you do not guard your emotion carefully, it is very likely that you will attract a man who would want to help you financially. And most often, such men are playboys looking desperately for preys to devour. If you do not exercise your wise sense of judgment at this point, you will fall prey to this man, thinking that he is being kind to you.
Eventually this leads to a romantic relationship with him, it is more likely that he will leave you the moment he achieves his set target of having intercourse with you.
It is therefore advisable that you control your emotion, especially when things are going wrong in your life, so that it doesn’t send the wrong signal to bad men waiting desperately for such signals. Don’t forget that hard times are a common and natural occurrence in human life, no wonder the Bible said in Hebrews 12:7 “Endure what you suffer as being a father’s punishment; your suffering shows that God is treating you as his Children. Was there a child who was not punished by his father?”
Be bold and confident at all times, and you will see that the bad men will run away from you. They only come when they sense or receive signals of emotional fear, weakness or anxiety in you.
I feel like going on and on, but space wouldn’t permit me, therefore I will rest my pen here for now, if you did enjoy the words you red from this hub, there is still more for you to read on my newly published E-book titled: “”Secret Exposure for Single Ladies”, click here or log on to http://www.lulu.com and search for the book title on relationship and love topics. I look forward to reading your wonderful and encouraging comments about the E-book. God bless you always!