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How Is Your Heart? What Do You Feel For Others Of Your Pass?

Updated on August 1, 2010

Loving Beyond Understanding

The reason this question is asked.

Recently my Ex-mother-in-law was rushed to the hospital for something very serious. She had to under go surgery of the brain. But God brought her through it all. She was in the hospital for two months including rehab.

She has a very strong family and I know that everyone of her Children was suffering the faith of losing her. But God seen her through! After she returned home you could feel the fear and the gratitude. She has to have someone there by her side at all time to help her with whatever she might need through the day. I was very happy to see her at home. She is very special. I was always her home décor person .Even while she was laying in her hospital bed at home she asked me how the color schemes look through out her house. I smiled and told her it is all beautiful as always. That say’s a lot about her, not only a strong woman but a woman of order as well.

She asked if I would come and sit with her one day to visit. My reply was yes. And I did.

A week later her daughter had some errands to run for the day and asked if I can come and assist her mother and I replied yes with no questions asked.

With that thought in mind. After I was there a few minutes the question came to my mind

How is your heart?

How do you feel about the people in your pass?

How do you treat the people in your pass?

Do you only remember the bad times?

Can you love the people of your pass?


Will your love go over and beyond the pass happenings?

This is a test of all time and I’m glad I was asked. Though my Ex and I have no quarrels. We are at peace with each other and we have moved on with our lives. I can’t say that I’m doing it because of the person that I am. God is God and he always want to know what would we do. How will we react to circumstances? Not because we should be there but because we want to.

I had a short conversation with one of the daughters and my Ex one evening sitting out on the patio and something was said and my reply to the conversation was Love is Large!

Those three words. Love will break the Ice no matter how cold it is.

Love is so much larger than we as people will let it be.

Love from the heart crosses what ever might be in the way.

Love from the heart brakes down any obstacle standing to stop it.

Love from the heart ties a Knot with a red ribbon of care.

Love from the heart is a foundation of eternal existence……..

Love and Peace to all that read….©7/2010 Sharon Smith


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    SwiftlyClean 7 years ago from Texas

    Hello fred allen, that is so true it brings out a true joy and a great peace in life to give from our heats.

    I'm so glad you stopped in fred.

    Thanks for your comment.

    Peace and much Blessings to you!:)

    Sharon Smith

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    fred allen 7 years ago from Myrtle Beach SC

    From the heart. If it isn't from the heart, it is simply duty. While there is honor in duty, God wants us to experience the joy that comes when we give and love from the heart. Great hub!