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How Many Times can you Fall in Love

Updated on August 16, 2017
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How Many Loves

What is Falling in Love?

How many times have you fallen in love?

Have you struggled with the concept of there not being just one love in your life?

You fall in love with your ex, and for you he, or she has been the only one you have loved.

After your break-up, dating doesn't feel the same again.

Falling in love with someone else didn't come easy for the second or third time.

An Example:

She fell in love twice. The first time with a boyfriend she thought was the one for her.

When they broke up she took a break from dating. The second time, she fell in love with her husband. This time the love is different from the love she had with her ex.

You can fall in love with different people and in unique ways. Also, it is fine to say that you have loved someone in the past but in a different way.

Sometimes you fall hard and fast in a relationship.

The worst is when the person you fall for doesn't show interest in you and marries someone else.

Falling in love with someone and to love someone are different from each.

One person can show what real love is and the other can only show love and care as a friend or as puppy love.

When your partner shows you respect and treats you well is when you are in love.

No matter how many times you fall in love, love is part of your experience.

You don't always know what you want or what you are looking for in that person.

It just happens!

Love don't show you what you should see from the other person.

Do you think you only fall in love once?

Your first love is the only love you can truly be proud for and that is the real deal.

Does love happen more than once?

The other attempts are to fill the gaps in your empty hearts.

However, people have found their true love more than once, and won't think of the questions I have mentioned here.

Falling in love more than once is something only you would know from deep in your soul.

The first kiss, the first sparkle in your eyes, and how you went crazy about that person, is from within. A way you have never felt in your life in the past relationship.

How many times can you fall in love to have that experience?

You can fall in love more than once and each time you will feel different for that person.

Falling in love with the same person over and over again is another lesson to you. Remember that falling in love with someone doesn't have to be for a reason.

It just happens!

Love happens more than once, and you have to accept love in any way, or form.

Being in love is not for everyone. It can take you a life time to find the one and after many relationships. You don't know when you will have the feeling for that one and only.

To fall in love with someone that is a mystery in you and in the other person.

Being in love is such a great experience and yet so hard to understand at times.

When you fall in love, it is uncontrollable and creates a great interest to you and your significant other.

You fall in love to commit and trust again from a broken heart.

The one you fall in love with is not specifically chosen for you but takes a part of you with them.

In life, you experience everything that can make you or break you. Love holds those forces together.

How many times have you fallen in love?

You can fall in love as many times as you wish.

You only have a once in a lifetime experience to be head over heels with another.

Why is that you can fall in love more than once?

Love is what you experience, it is unique and is not replaced like you would with a utensil..

You can fall in love with someone after a break up given the necessary time out.

The new person who comes into your life brings a different kind of joy and laughter to yours.

Really speaking falling in love more than once is more about what you have to offer in your experiences.

It doesn't mean if you had a bad relationship in your past that you won't fall in love again.

So, you can fall in love more than once and that depends on how you define love.

Your first experience with love is from your parents.

Love is from the heart and it is normal to fall in love more than once.

Love can't be restricted, forced on someone, neither is love a command.

Whether you want love, or don't want love, it just happens.

You don't know what will fill-full your lifestyles, and you don't know happiness of anything unless you try something new.

Nothing stays for forever you have to continue to keep everything alive.

People get bored with anything and move on to more interesting activities.

The way you think and act shows your true feelings. In love you see your true self.

Love teaches you lessons in the many times you fall in love and sometimes you just don't get it.

For some people love is not enough.

I don't believe you would forget that first love, or that first kiss. In the rest of your experiences you compare your first time falling in love.

It is not possible to still be open in your heart about the first time you fell in love.

After your first love ended your relationship it made you feel alone and depressed. You think you won't fall in love again but you are wrong!

The second time is sweeter and matters to you more than the first one did.

Love surprised you once again!

The falling in love issue becomes more clear to you as you see your differences.

You understand each other and care for each other.

The little experiences you have with love shows you a new step forward to having more relationships.

You can fall in love as many times you want to, also, with the same person.

Falling in love with the different people and at the same time that is fine. The characteristics of others draw you to them. Each person experiences love in a different way and for different reasons. Each time you fall in love you have your own reason.

Love draws you like a magnet to a fridge door.

You can't keep count of how many times you have laughed, or cried. and you can't keep count of the loves of your life.

When you fall in love you will know best. The love you share will have a great satisfaction to you.

Other people enter our lives to challenge our relationships.

You can be the happiest in love and still meet someone else and feel guilty about your experience.

Crossing paths with different people allows for such moments. Eye contact tells you everything you need to know about falling in love. Your love is real when you appreciate each other.

The important part about falling in love is to understand your situations together and not to rely on what will tear you apart.

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      Devika Primić 3 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi friend I appreciate your presence at my hubs. Thank you.

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      Shyron E Shenko 4 months ago from Texas

      Devika, you are so right. My thoughts on falling in love many times means the person is in love with love, and the fresh newness of love.

      Great hub

      Blessings

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      Devika Primić 4 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hello ChitrangadaSharan thank you for sharing your side of love. An arranged marriage allows for such admiration from the two people. Sounds like you are happy with your marriage. Falling in love more than once is when partners meet different people.

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      Devika Primić 4 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thank you!

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      Devika Primić 4 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thank you very much. Hope you keeping well!

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      Nell Rose 4 months ago from England

      Came back for another read and share! :)

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      Devika Primić 5 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Nadine May thank you for sharing about falling in love. You are right! Sometimes falling in love more than once can show you true meaning of love itself.

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      Nadine May 5 months ago from Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

      Yes good points you make. I have fallen a few times in a romantic love scenario. The last relationship lasted 33 years! I vowed never to Marry again and then I found my true soul mate. We are now for 16 years still in Love and will be together always.

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      Devika Primić 5 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thank you very much so appreciate your kindness.

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      Nell Rose 5 months ago from England

      Came back for another read and share! :)

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      Chitrangada Sharan 8 months ago from New Delhi, India

      Interesting hub!

      It is a difficult question to answer. For me it was not love at first sight but slowly attraction and admiration for each other evolved into what could be termed as love. I have an arranged marriage and I think for me love has developed gradually into commitment.

      Enjoyed reading your take on it! Thank you for sharing!

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      Devika Primić 8 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Nell Rose, that is a good experience and thanks for sharing it. I appreciate your comments.

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      Nell Rose 9 months ago from England

      Yes, 3 times! And all begining with the letter J! true!

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      AliciaC Thank you for commenting and I am glad you think that way about my work. I appreciate you stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring, thank you very much for sharing your opinion.

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      MsDora Thank you for commenting. Love is just not for everyone

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      dashingscorpio "Falling in love with the different people and at the same time that is fine." Well, it is fine if you are not committed. Thank you for sharing an interesting and thought provoking comment. People have their own opinions and I respect the opinions of others.

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc thank you for sharing that. Sometimes you experiences push you to find the one as you have in Bev.

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Erickdierker, Thank you. Love is not for everyone and first loves aren't lost in one's life. I appreciate your comment.

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi FlourishAnyway thank you for sharing your comment here, always appreciated.

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      Linda Crampton 9 months ago from British Columbia, Canada

      You always include interesting and thought provoking statements in your articles, Devika. Thank you once again for sharing your ideas.

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 9 months ago from Southern Illinois

      I don't believe anyone ever forgets their first love, yet many find that special one later in adult life. Great topic. Enjoyed...

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 9 months ago from The Caribbean

      Different qualities in different people appeal to us, but we choose to be loyal when we're committed. We can love and admire other people, without even expressing our feelings, and we can remain faithful to our spouse.

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      dashingscorpio 9 months ago

      It's a romantic notion to believe that love "just happens".

      Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.

      Each of us (chooses) who we will spend our time with.

      Therefore the only way you're going to fall in love with someone is because you (chose) to exchange contact information, go out on dates, spend time together, kiss, make love, and so on.

      Essentially you have to say "yes" several times before becoming a couple.

      If you get to choose who you spend your time with then by default you have some say in who you fall in love with.

      Having said that everyone has their own list of "must haves" with regard to their "mate selection criteria" in choosing who they will say yes to. However one's "must have list" does tend to change with life experience.

      I disagree with your statement: "Falling in love with the different people and at the same time that is fine."

      People who claim they are "in love" with two people at the same time are kidding themselves. In all honesty if you're actually "in love" with the (first person) you're not going to "make time" to spend with a second person to discover their traits.

      Having said that being "in love" doesn't mean you don't notice people who are handsome/beautiful/sexy. Being "in love" means you don't want to do anything to risk losing what you have. If someone is risking their relationship to spend time with someone else they're not "in love" but rather still (keeping their options open). A person with a (full belly) isn't tempted to eat again.

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      Bill Holland 9 months ago from Olympia, WA

      I have no answer for the question. Looking back, I wonder if I was truly in love prior to Bev. :)

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      Eric Dierker 9 months ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Interesting piece. Time changes all things including love. I have had much love in my life. I really like who I love today.

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      FlourishAnyway 9 months ago from USA

      Sometimes instantaneous, sometimes a slow simmer. It's hard to predict.