How to Make Him Fall in Love With You: In Seven Easy Steps

We've all heard stories of those reckless couples where one person tries too hard and the other doesn't try at all. Don't be either of those people! If you are having trouble getting the man of your dreams, the first thing you need to do is know what he wants. It's not okay to assume that his needs will always correspond to those of your man. The first and foremost thing that a man wants from a woman is sensitivity. It shouldn't be hard! Women are known for being nurturing and caring and doing so would definitely keep your man hooked.

Okay, I may have said, treat him special but not so much, but I trust that you'd know where to draw the line. If you want his heart, you have to know what material things he likes. Of course, don't take out a loan to buy him a Ferrari, but you can definitely buy him that new PS4 console he has been eyeing for some time. This is another way of responding to his needs. And his needs aren't just emotional, they are material too: sorry, the bitter truth. To be responsive to these needs is a surefire way to make your man fall in love with you forever.

Well, okay, time to address the elephant in the room. Your sex life can have a huge impact on your ability to have your man fall in love with you. This is not to say that it's your responsibility alone to keep things exciting in the bedroom, he should be willing to put in some work too, but lady, we are talking about what you can do. Why not think of some exciting fun games to play in the bedroom or cosplay that your man is going to love? Know that all this isn't possible if you at least, on a very basic level, don't know your man well. So, the first thing to do is to get to know him and responding to his needs.

A surefire way to repel him is by being too jealous of his lady friends or when he goes out on a boys night. You don't want that! He has a right to his own time, just as you do. So, if you feel like he wants to spend time with his buddies, give him space. You acting otherwise is not going to help one bit! Also, it helps to live your life as an independent woman. So, if you find yourself stressing over him for not reason at all, make sure you fix your behavior before trying to fix him.

The way to a man's heart is through is stomach! Am I beginning to sound like I am reciting from an eighteenth century manual on "How to love your husband"? Bear with me here. Cooking can be that sensual activity you do together, it can really change your chemistry if you spend time with each other in a not-so-big area of a kitchen. Trust me, it will! So, if you want to make him fall in love with you, you have to try this tried and tested method.

When it comes to dating advice, most things may seem either counter intuitive or contrary and that's the case with this one as well. As much as I am asking you to go with the flow (pleasing him and what not) it's equally important to not be afraid when it comes to speaking your mind. It's important you maintain your own identity in a relationship and the only way to do that is by making sure you speak your mind. Of course, there are subtle ways of doing this and I am definitely not suggesting launching a fight!

Men and women have to jump through the hoops to make a relationship work and in the process, we often forget about ourselves. Sometimes, we can go too far trying to please another partner. Know when you have pushed too hard and know when your advances are not going to be reciprocated. More than anything else, it's important to keep your sanity.