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How To Build Interest with Your Guy

Updated on April 4, 2012

So you've probably stumbled across this blog hoping that I can give you all the secrets right? Well your in luck! Because that's just what I'm going to do, spill my guts and give you the thing that all guys crave. Is it a recipe? Is it some workout for your ass that will put you in pain for days, but make your butt instantly awesome? Something really really kinky? No, no its not that. Although I'm sure all of those things wouldn't hurt, lol.

Confidence baby, that's most of what you need to win over any guy. Show that you love your stuff, and that you love him. It'll drive him wild, not joking. Ever heard of guys liking woman in charge? Most guys want to seem like they always know what there doing, its the thing programmed into there DNA saying that they are big tough men and if they don't, there not even men, let alone big tough men. So when you take over sometimes it can be a huge relief that he doesn't have too. And showing him that you can own yourself, life and him....makes him want you even more.

Knowing that you don't need him, makes him realize that you want him. Now that's a huge turn on, for anybody. It will also make him want to prove himself more, just for the simple fact that he knows that you don't always need him to be the provider. Plus it will increase interest in what you are doing, since you have your own agenda. So be prepared! You also want to be independent, but not a renegade. Just the right amount of "I don't need you to use a power tool" and "can you please open this jar of jam?" makes him feel that you want him more than you need him on some cosmic balance. Thats just the right amount to make him feel needed but not weighed down or to lose interest.

Now the thing is you actually have to believe that you can do whatever you set out to do, practice even if you have to. Write down lists of things that you love about yourself, that you can do well. But beware if it is something kinky, make sure you know what your getting into before you do it. Don't just do it for him even though you really don't want to, you'll really regret it afterwards. Trust me, I know because I've already been there and done that.

If its simply just you wanting to get him to pay attention to you more, don't be afraid to speak up and take control of a situation, vacuum naked because its hot, or fix something around the house that he would usually do in front of him. Know that you are awesome and he will follow. And if he doesnt follow, then you just realized how much more awesome you really are, and now you can go get a hotter guy that will really appreciate you. Hows that for girl talk? ;)


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