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How do you know when someone really loves you

Updated on May 25, 2012

Saying I love you is not enough. If someone really loves you, that someone will prove his/her love for you. That someone will not let you find a reason to doubt his/her feelings for you. Remember words will remain useless without action. Here are some of many different ways to determine if someone truly loves you.

Forgive and Forget

We are human and we all made mistakes. One of the most hurtful mistakes we can make to our partner is cheating. But when your partner, truly loves you, he/she will accept your sincere apology and will move on, slowly build his/her trust again and keep on loving you unconditionally.

You don’t have to be afraid even If you have bad history, because your partner won't care about that if he/she truly loves you.


There are times that we fall in love with the right person but the family of our partner cannot accept us. They have their own reasons, but whatever their reason will be, when a person truly loves you, he/she will never listen to them. He/she will even favor you and will be your defender for criticism. If someone truly loves you, he/she will support you in all your ambitions and decisions. He/she will always be at your side all the time.


Your partner will always trust you, even if you have break your promises many times, your partner will never be wary on your words. He will always give you another chance to fulfill your promises.

Your partner will not be jealous even if you are not on his/her sight because he/she trust your love and commitment.


Even if you are not perfect, you can expect for the highest respect from your partner. He/she will treat you nice. Your partner will not even attempt to hurt you physically and emotionally knowing that you are weak and fragile. Your partner will always listen to your suggestion and comments. There will be many fights between you and your partner but, the respect will still be there.

Can’t live without your love

Yes, they can’t live without your love. Based on recent study, it shows that there are many cases were an elder person die a few months or years after their partner died. They got so depressed for a loss of their true love.

If someone truly loves you, he/she can't last a day without showing his/her love in every different ways. A simple words or actions can prove someone's love, but only you can say if that was true or just a lie.

Aside from lovely words and very sweet actions, you can recognize and feel if the love was true. If somebody truly loves you, you will see on his eyes and on his acts. Your partner will do the things that will make you happy and you are always be the first priority. Sometimes when a person truly loves you, you became dominant on the relationship, not because you are strong but because your partner don't want a fight and he/she don't want you to be upset or angry.

Lastly, only time and distance can tell if someone truly loves you.


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      Chris Hugh 5 years ago

      I think you're setting the bar a little high here.