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How to Develop Self Confidence

Updated on November 13, 2014


Self Confidence at its Finest
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The Importance of Self Confidence in the Dating Scene:

If we do not love ourselves, it is virtually impossible to love another. Self-acceptance or self-confidence is a personality trait we are not born with. It is something we learn as we grow up through encouragement from others. Some of us need to learn to accept ourselves completely, both the good and the bad. We cannot truly love another person completely until we learn this very important personality trait. By loving ourselves and acknowledging that although we are not perfect creatures, most of who we are and what we possess is quite beautiful. Until we accept ourselves, we can’t offer unconditional love to another.

How Others See the Self Confident Woman

Self-confidence is a crucial quality to possess for a woman in the dating scene. A confident woman can enter a room so gracefully, she has an almost regal air of elegance about her. A woman with high self-confidence feels very comfortable mingling with others. She likes socializing in situations where she can meet new friends. Her positive outlook towards herself and life attracts people. Since she feels at ease talking about herself and can laugh at herself easily, others tend to enjoy her company. Her friends and acquaintances usually perceive her as socially competent and she gets invited often to functions.

Self-Confidence- The Foundation of a Woman

Self-confidence is not just a quality, but a personality trait that creates the foundation of who a woman is and the influence of her positive outlook. Although she may have many personality strengths, she also acknowledges and accepts her weaknesses. She does not put herself down about flaws she has no control over, rather as a self-confident woman, she takes full responsibility for her actions. She does not place blame on others in order to make herself feel better about her own actions.

Be mine

Be Mine
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No Regrets

She is not the type of woman who regrets her behavior or things she’s done in the past, nor does she embarrass easily. Perhaps the most defining features separating a self-confident woman from others are the exceptionally high standards she sets for herself. Her skill in acting effectively and competently in all types of social situations gives ample proof of this. These characteristics make it quite common for her friends and peers to seek advice from her because she’s viewed as a woman with leadership qualities.


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Success in the Dating Scene

A woman with self-confidence is very likely to be successful in the dating scene, no matter her age. She feels and looks beautiful to others who are attracted to her confident aura. A confident woman exuding this valuable trait has true love, trust and little conflict – the key elements to a fulfilling relationship.

© 2013 Helen Kramer


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    Helen Kramer 4 years ago from Santa Barbara, CA.

    It is always a pleasure to hear from you CrazedNovelist! Thank you!

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    A.E. Williams 4 years ago from Hampton, GA

    Very interesting subject matter. Thanks for sharing!