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How to Get Woman to Like You

Updated on January 13, 2011

Have you ever seen that woman where your heart starts racing and your palms start to sweat? You know that right away it is love at first site. She is the most beautiful creature you have ever seen with the perfect set of eyes the perfect skin and the perfect hair. There is nothing it would seem that would get in the way of you talking with her. Except that she is totally uninterested in you bummer right?


The woman then feels important because they have a feeling of having earned you. With that in mind it is best to always come from a mindset of high self-worth and value. Never seem needy or desperate in front of a woman nothing will turn them off faster.

So when meeting a woman for the first time or your love at first site keep a couple simple things in mind.

1.       Be confident

2.       Do not appear desperate use a non-attachment approach and as you get to know each other you will know whether it is meant to be or not.

There should never be a challenge in the race to be with you. Woman does not like to compete for guys at least most. They feel more important when you compete for them. Which rightly so, they are the dearest of people.

The best way to attract woman by having a high self-worth as well is to develop a good social network with as many friends as you can. Make friends with woman and get to know them even if you are not interested in them they might have friends they will introduce you to that you are compatible with. Going on periodic dates with different woman will also allow you to get to know them and also help you decide in exactly what you would like in the perfect mate.

Some men think having a overabundance of woman in their life is a god send well its not. Having that one special woman is what most men are aiming for. Not all but most. Having a very active dating life is fun but does get old after a while.

Physiologically whenever a woman sees other woman talking to a man there is also a notice of attraction with them. It is known as a social proofing and it is more common to be seen in woman then men and they respond to this.

One example is next time you are in the bar or hanging out with friends looks around the room and see the guy with the woman around him. Watch as your female friends will begin to talk about him and some may even drool it’s the social proofing in action.


Having a strong attraction to a woman is a normal thing to have its when they do not notice you that is hard to except. No one like rejection. Always remind yourself though that there are truly a lot of fish in the sea and if one rejects you it’s her that is missing out on something special not you.

The one thing that guys fall over is that they start to think that every woman is the same. Wrong, as soon as you start to do that you will see that they will lose attraction for you. Its ok to think one particular woman is amazing but there are lots of other women that are amazing too. This helps your ability to psychologically in your own mind know that you are not desperate or needy.

So take these secrets to your grave and never tell another soul because if word gets out then there won’t be any woman left for you. And most importantly be you. If you do that I think you will find you will have more friends and dates then you will ever know what to do with.


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    7 years ago

    very well constructed. great post

  • Lady_E profile image


    8 years ago from London, UK

    Lovely article, Cupid. :)

    This will help a lot of people.

  • Ingenira profile image


    8 years ago

    Very good advice. :) True, not every woman is the same, there is nothing much to lose if you try.

  • Hello, hello, profile image

    Hello, hello, 

    8 years ago from London, UK

    A very true and perfectly written hub.


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