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How to Be an Amazing Wife

Updated on November 3, 2020
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Cristale Adams is an online author and publisher. Her articles vary in topics and focus on real life. She always enjoys learning new things.

A Lawfully Wedded Wife

When a woman decides to take that first step into building a life together with a man that she is in love with, it is a very serious and important step for anyone to take. Being married involves many different things, such as maturing and becoming stable. During the wedding ceremony, there are vows that are spoken to the man by the woman. These vows should be sacred, sincere, and full of love because they represent a deep commitment from and to both spouses. After the wedding ceremony, the woman becomes a lawfully wedded wife. This means that by law, the wife is bound to her husband as one entity and it will take a lawful annulment or divorce to end the bond/marriage. Being married changes a woman because she is now responsible for another person's needs, feelings, and future. There are responsibilities and obligations to fulfill by and to a wife. Making a marriage work each and every day is hard work. Dedication and motivation are difficult to maintain at times, but should always be first in the marriage in order for it to succeed.

A lawfully wedded wife should be aware that there won't always be rainbows and sunshine. There will be storms for the marriage to face and challenges to overcome. The more trouble a marriage faces can only make the marriage stronger, but only if the couple decides to work at it. Being married is the best thing in the world, other than having children. Many people don't take marriage seriously anymore, which is why America has such a high divorce rate. A lawfully wedded wife should act as such, with respect to her husband.

The Vows

"I, take you, to be my wedded wife/husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish until death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness."

A Wife's Commitments to Her Husband

The vows that are spoken by the wife during the wedding ceremony consists of commitments that are made from her to her husband. These commitments are important to keep in order for the marriage to survive and have any chance at success. The most popular commitment from a wife to her husband is to have and to hold him for better or for worse, in good times and in bad times. There won't always be good times, but the wife should be there for her husband as a spouse and also as a best friend.

Another popular and important commitment that a wife makes during her wedding ceremony is to love and to cherish him. A husband needs to feel like he is needed and loved by his wife. This gives him the encouragement and motivation to be a good husband that provides for his wife and takes care of her. A wife loving and cherishing her husband daily can drastically reduce the chances of divorce or him cheating.

Finally, there is the commitment to being faithful and loyal. This means that the wife does not cheat or have any type of affairs, physical or emotional. Being faithful and loyal is an important quality for a wife to possess. Many husbands value this commitment, while most wives do not. Among all of the commitments a wife has to her husband, the most important is to be faithful.

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How to Be an Awesome Wife

This article is about being an awesome wife and exactly how to accomplish said goal. Listed below are some great ways to be an awesome wife to a husband who is deserving and shows the same qualities in return. Many wives may think that they are awesome already, but in reality, are just too needy and/or too independent. Husbands need to feel that they are needed by their wives, but only in moderation. Husbands also need to feel that they have a life partner and a best friend that can be found only in his wife. Enjoy these cool and creative tips and even try them out tonight to see what a difference it can make in a marriage.

1. Be a Lady in Public and a Freak in the Bedroom.

This means that a wife should dress and act in a respectable way while out in public, with or without her husband by her side, but let out the freaky side only in the bedroom and only with her husband. Husbands everywhere love this and this will definitely make any husband more attracted to his wife. Some great tips for wives being a lady in public and a freak in the bedroom are:

*In public:

  • Dress and act conservatively.
  • Maintain mannerisms.
  • Squat instead of bending over.
  • Always sit with legs crossed at the knee or at least at the ankles.

*In the bedroom:

  • Spontaneously dress up in cute lingerie or a sexy costume.
  • Do new things and try new positions.
  • Be dominating and take control.
  • Attempt to fulfill the husband's fantasies.

2. Stop Trying to Change Him.

It seems like wives are always trying to change their husbands, especially right after they get married. Wives try to make their husbands procrastinate less, be less lazy, and be more mature. The harder wives try to change their husbands, the more resentment and detachment starts to come from the husband. Husbands will start to pull away and will eventually become withdrawn from his wife and the from marriage completely. Husbands want to feel that they are loved and accepted for who and what they are, not for who and what their wives want them to be. Just like husbands can not change their wives, and wives do not like it when they try to, the same goes for husbands everywhere. Wives will never be able to change their husbands, no matter how much effort they put in. The only time any husband will change is if he wants to on his own. Having children may change husbands, but that is not always the case and it is just plain wrong to have children in hopes of a person changing. Wives should just love and accept their husbands as to the man they fell in love with and married, or divorce him and move on.

3. Support Him While He Leads the Marriage.

The husband is supposed to be strong, solid, and a leader of the marriage and the family. The wife should support her husband with encouragement, kind words, and love. This will lead to the husband making better decisions and also will make him feel more like a man. Husbands really don't like wives that are bossy and who try to act like the husband in the relationship. It is one thing to be an independent wife, but the husband needs to feel like he is the man in the marriage. Husbands are meant to be the head of the household, not the wife.

4. Remain Loyal and Respectful.

Loyalty and respect are two important qualities to a husband, but also to men in general. A husband wants his wife to remain loyal and respectful at all times. This includes no emotional and/or physical affairs, but also respecting the husband's opinions and decisions. Wives want their husbands to remain loyal and respectful, so a wife should treat her husband as she would want to be treated. This includes listening and also hearing what is being said. Loyalty is hard to find these days, so give him nothing but the best.

5. Stay Beautiful for Him.

Many wives will often "let themselves go" after getting married. They will not wear makeup, dress up, or stay in shape anymore because they know that they have a man until death do them part. This is not the right attitude for any wife to have. Wives should continue to wear makeup, dress up, and stay in shape for their husbands. Husbands want to be proud of their wives and many husbands want to show their wives off to the world, but it is difficult to do that when the wife is wearing sweatpants and a stained t-shirt. Wives should take pride in their appearance because many wives expect the same from their husbands. Continue to be the woman that he married and he will strive to do the same.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2015 Cristale Adams


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