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How To Get A Girlfriend In School

Updated on June 15, 2013

How To Get A Girlfriend

All of your friends have a girlfriend and you have been left on the sidelines wondering to yourself where you are going wrong.

Why don't the girls like you? many questions run around your head.

  • Do you smell bad?
  • Are you ugly?
  • Are you immature?
  • Are you just a bad guy to know?

The answer is probably none of the above but if you are asking yourself any those questions the simple fact is that you lack confidence in yourself and you are probably a little shy around girls.

Don't Be Broken Hearted

Say no more to a broken heart, work on your confidence and shyness if you really want to get the girl.
Say no more to a broken heart, work on your confidence and shyness if you really want to get the girl. | Source

Top Reasons Why Girls Won't Go Out With You

Five reasons why girls might not want to go out with you are

  1. Immaturity, if you play the fool, can't take anything seriously play silly jokes and so on, how is a girl ever going to take you seriously, if you really want a girl to take you seriously, it's time to grow up.
  2. Self Confidence, girls like boys to be self confident, if you are not confident about yourself, how do you expect a girl to be confident with you?
  3. Over confidence, there is such a thing as being over confident, girls like confidence but overdoing it makes it look like you are boasting.
  4. Appearance, if you don't take care of your appearance a girl won't want to go out with you, if you cant take care of yourself how would you take care of her?
  5. Egotism, a big ego means a big head, you may think that you are the greatest thing since sliced bread but you are the only one, if you spend all of your time thinking about yourself you wont have much time left to think about her.

Be Honest With Yourself

Be honest take a close look at yourself, what do you see? Write down what you like about yourself and what you don't, If you need to ask your friends what they think then do so.

Discover who you are and if you don't like what you see its time to make some changes, sort yourself out and be who you want to be, learn to love yourself because if you don't, how can you expect anyone else to love you?

A lovers Embrace

Everyone wants to have a little love in their lives and the first step to achieving this is to overcome your shyness.
Everyone wants to have a little love in their lives and the first step to achieving this is to overcome your shyness. | Source

Overcoming Shyness With Girls

Shyness and low self confidence is a major bummer when it comes to talking to girls, simply because they prevent you from actually talking to girls in the first place.

If you are ever going to be successful in your quest for a girlfriend you will have to over come them both.

Shyness can really hold you to ransom especially when it is with a girl that you really like but it can be easier than you think to break yourself out of that rut and gain more self confidence.

Practice makes perfect, practice what you want to say to a friend who is a girl and ask her for advice on what to say or how to behave.

Become more sociable, Try to talk to as many people as you can every day, the more people that you talk to the more easier it will become to talk to that girl.

Start with a simple question, when you approach that girl you don't really have to go in all guns blazing, "How are you today?" would be a good start before getting into a conversation with her. When you feel the conversation is drawing to an end it is the right time to ask her out.

Something along the lines of "I have eally enjoyed talking to you," followed by "I wonder if you would like to have lunch with me some time?"

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Get the girl

There are no hard and fast rules to asking a girl out, be mature and confident and of course you must always be ready for rejection, girls cannot be forced to like you, they either do or they don't, rejection isn't fatal, it's a set back and you will get over it quickly.

Pickup lines, are a good start if delivered with the humour intended, although some girls don't like them they can be a good icebreaker.Make her laugh, talk about things you both like, don't tell lies they can get out of control and a relationship based on lies will never work.

Just be yourself dont try too hard enjoy the moment and have a little confidence in yourself after all if you don't ask for what you want nobody knows that you want it except you.


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      Dylan 3 years ago

      I'm just a child I'm 9 years old

      old

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      Shawn 3 years ago

      WHY CAN'T GIRLS JUDGE BY PERSONALITY, NOT LOOKS!!!!!!!!!!????

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      Shawn 3 years ago

      I need a girlfriend ... but the only time i get even close to getting one ... it turns out they be trying to play me ... I HATE BEING PLAYED!!!!

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      Dray 3 years ago

      i have a crush on this girl and i have how to do this

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      ethan 4 years ago

      i love this girl at school i like to be silly around girls because hanging around one makes me nervous but i will use your tips as soon as i go to school if there is any more tips like this or how to tell if a girl likes you i will look it up thank you

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      David 3 months ago 4 years ago

      now I have a girl since 7th grade.

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      harry 4 years ago

      Ineed a girl friend

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      kalvinm 4 years ago

      thanks you saved me a lot of truble, now i have the girl i have liked since 6th grade

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      Ducky 4 years ago

      first thing i noticed was all the guys using the word hot. dudes, seriously, theyll thing youre just a tard if you do that. try to sound like youre intelligent. use a dictionary if you must.

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      i like girls 69 4 years ago

      I NEED A GIRL LIKE NOW BECOUSE I HAVE BEEN TRYING SINCE 4TH GRADE CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE

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      luke 4 years ago

      hi i do not have a girl.I GO TO OXFORD ELEMENTRAY SCHOOL NC CLAERMONT and this girl is in another class. She was in my class last year.and i think i am going to man up and i am 9 years old so whenever school starts back i might ask her out or give her a not saying do you like me? yes or no hope she says yes cannt wait.and she is the only thing i can think of she is like my heart to me. and i even had a dream about me and her kissinggggg hop says yes really bad.

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      HOT-GIRLS-226 4 years ago

      I like this girl. Her name is Lordes. i think that's how you spell her name. oh what were are my manners i'm ten years old and my name is Ethan. So there are two kids that like her. One is my BF and the aother one is me.I think she like's my BF better. (WHAT DO I DO) ): Please help me.

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      Sean Chambers 4 years ago

      I think she likes me but I'm 9 and there is a really hot girl in my class named Tessa she knows I like her she keeps pulling my hoody tazers me and laughing I think well she laughs when we chase each other in the library its fun the problem is this guy named Alberto likes her to hes had a crush on her for 4 years so I think she will come around aventually

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      :( 4 years ago

      i got a girlfriend in school but i do not know she likes me or not

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      mikey 4 years ago

      there are loads of girls at school but none of the fancy me why?

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      connor 5 years ago

      hi im yousing mi moms computer can you tell me to get a girl at school

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      for ever a lone 5 years ago

      I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      devon bennett 5 years ago

      please help me im turning 12 and prom in 4 months i need some advice how to get a girl for the prom im a bit chubby and i love to play football im in 6th grade and i like a girl in 7th grade what do i do ive know her since preschool but i dont think she likes me like i like her

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      ryan 5 years ago

      thanks for the comments it really work you are a genius this girl name is tianna i did the five rules they totally work i am 12 tianna is a girl i always hang out with she was my best friend gf but they broke up i tried talking to her but nothing work i ask her out she said no she said i am ugly so i go online and i saw this i read it and the next week i went to her i had self confident and it totally work and tianna she is totally hoooot she have sexyassthanks for the tip

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      13 5 years ago

      i am 13 about to be 14 in 2 weeks. there is this girl i hang out wiht at school and she is one of my good friends last year at the end of the year we hung out alot and talked she was really nice and i didnt really think about then now i cant stop thinking about her and shes always in my mond prob is she has a lot of guy friends and i think 3 like her i want to go out with her next year when im in high school but my problems im fat because im fat i want to go out with her before the others ask her out so i need advice and fast

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      kolby 5 years ago

      i took my time on the tips and i got a girl thanks for the tips i am 9 [;

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      nishaant 5 years ago

      hey i hav a crush on a girl which is toooooooo sexxxxxxxxxxy ,hot sweet and i need d some tips to make her my girlfriend

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      Lili 5 years ago

      Ok guys hey im a 13 yr old girl and the thing all girls love is when u just say simple things like just telling them"hey" or "u look nice today" and make them feel like ur whole world we love feeling special and the #1 rule is always be nice and soon ur crush's crush will be u trust me.:)

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      bryardean 5 years ago

      im under 10 im 9 the way to get a girl to like you is make her laugh a lot be nice protect her

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      James 5 years ago

      Ok, so I am 13 ( going to be 14 in october) and I have never had a girlfriend. There is this one girl I like, but she is taller than me by about 3 to 4 inches and I don't think she likes me more than a friend. I know 2 more girls who might like me, but one has a boyfriend and when we went on a field trip I was the only guy in my class that went (the rest had bad grades), and we went swimming and I hung out with her and her boyfriend and they where fine with me, but when me and her got out she told me to hold her hand then we both jumped in. (Her boyfriend was fine with it). Sometimes at school I think she hints that she likes me (I think she might be trying to make me jealous or something). The other girl has always been there for me, when my laptop broke she helped me with projects, she has never been mean to me once (the rest have been mean to me at least once) other times she has helped me look for stuff that went missing, and we pair up a lot when we have to do projects with a partner. I also sometimes catch this other girl staring at me and other times I think she flirts with me. What's the catch? Well you see there is this other girl who is fucking huge and strong (she is not fat) and she is just mean to me whenever. She tells me to shut up even before I talk. I called her a bitch one day and she shut up the rest of the day. I don't dare mess with her, I may be able to run a mile in 5 minutes but still. Another catch is that the guys in my class are very cruel to me. However the first 3 girls all stick up for me (the 4th is almost always sitting at the other end of the lunch table). I need help!!!

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      Gorge 5 years ago

      im 10 and I like this girl perla but I am berets to talk to her

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      getting up 5 years ago

      i am hopless i know this girl allysa and she is kind of a bad girl and she goes out with abunch of guys at school and all she cares about is the popularity and she goes out with the ugly popular guys

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      mikey 5 years ago

      im 14 and i live in the uk ive hanged out with this girl since i was 10 ,ive only started like her now and i can't stop thinking about her ,i would ask her out but here the part im stuck at im not sure she likes boys, she might be bisexual so please help i really do love her HELP!

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      Justin 5 years ago

      Ther is this girl I like she is the most butifull girl her hair her eays she was sooooo butifull I like her but she dosent know what do I do

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      Ali 5 years ago

      I really whant a girl but I just don't fell confident or waht to do I never got a girl of I had a wish it wild be to have a girl fiernd all of my other class mates have a girl firends so why can't I:( I hope I will get a girl some day right befor calloage I'm in middle school

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      Allex 5 years ago

      Hi I really like this girl at my school and she alway looks at e and every time I look at her she looks at me too and I really need help

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      kolby 5 years ago

      need help i have to win the girl im loseing

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      Charlie 5 years ago

      Okay so I like this girl she's really hot but I'm the shy nerdy and no style type of guy and the worst thing is that were on vacation now so I have to wait for like 2 months to ask her but then we uses to be friends in 4th grade but now she like sorta hates me because I tend to talk alot when I get shy

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      kolby 5 years ago

      help help help

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      kolby 5 years ago

      i like this girl and she likes me but i asked her out and she said no shes really hot pleasez i need help

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      kolby 5 years ago

      i like this girl and i asked her out and she said no but she likes me alot pleasez i need help

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      asdq 5 years ago

      i am in school i like a girl but she dont like me how can i immpress her to be my girl friend and the most bed think is that my skin is little bit darky please answer me

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      The Matrix 5 years ago

      Im really having trouble with getting a girlfriend, i really liked this one girl i eventually liked her until the 8th grade but then i found her kissing my best friend then there was this other girl that i liked on valentines day i got her a big basket filled with perfumes, roses, chocolates, poems in different languages, mix tapes, romantic movies, and body washes and then the next week she said she hated me and nevered wanted to be my girlfriend and this other girl i like we started talking then her boyfriend just started talking to her about how he loved her and she said things about how much she loved him and the next week he was cheating on her then it was another girl we started talking again and after school i went to football practice when we got in our coach told us that someone went through our stuff and to check to see if anything was missing and my money and my ring turned up missing the next day she whispered in my ear that she stole it aand gave it to a friend and she kept the ring how can i get help on choose the right girl for me.

      im not skinny but im not fat either im not popular but i am on the football team as starting d linemen im really nice, sweet,unique, and funny i can be really mushy at times im not like the other boys in my class. im really a love sick lover boy some girls think its weird for me to be nice.

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      man 5 years ago

      Ok ok I have to say I really loved haveing a gril friend. Now thanks to this I can love it again

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      Dorrian 5 years ago

      Most people say I'm ugly what can help me fix that

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      rrrbbb 5 years ago

      just be your self and ask her out What els could you do

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      just a girl 5 years ago

      All guys really need to do is be themselves. Who cares how you look. Girls like interesting funny guys. If you wanna ask a girl out do it face to face don't be a pussy and do it over the Internet. Just let out pure confidence don't be an ass. Thank you.

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      Cody r 5 years ago

      I like several girls in my school but I'm over weight and they I always go for the guys that are fit but jerks. What do I do?

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      khoi 5 years ago

      i cannot find a girlfriend that cute what i going to do?

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      zzz 5 years ago

      i will just tell you guy to stop lusting for her and just be her friend with no bad thoghts of having sex cuz i bet youll never get her so just be yourself........ everything will be fine..

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      Noah 5 years ago

      thanks for the advice.I finally got the perfect girl.

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      luke 5 years ago

      hi, i'm in forth grade and i won over the girl i like but broke my friends feeling. how do i cheer him up because he is really my number one friend and he likes my girlfriend a lot

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      Brittany 5 years ago

      Tell her you like her.

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      shorty boy 68 5 years ago

      well its summer and i want to tell this girl i like her before she moves Arkansas little rock June and i have her phone number what the heck should i do.

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      Brandon 5 years ago

      People say I should go out with this girl named erica I want to someone help me

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      D C F 5 years ago

      I can tell all of you a tip that can also help a good bit is being respectful to the girls And what I mean by that is to protect them from guys acting dirty,having bad language and more bad things that guys do And also instead of calling them girls try calling them young ladies because it is the most respectful name to call them And that is the reason why relationships break up real easy because the guy doesn't respect the lady And if you do what all I said then the ladies will look up to you and sometimes like you But as long as you STAND UP FOR THEM AND DON'T JUST DO IT FOR THEM TO LIKE YOU OR FAME!!! then it will help you a good bit in life

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      scottyro 5 years ago

      theres this rlly nice girl in my karate class that i really like and i think she likes me too. Unfortuneately i dont know her well enough to get the guts to have a 1 on 1 conversation. When I get to the next class, up ill barely see her. Do i need to show her that i like her?

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      crazyhot 5 years ago

      OK a_man1234567....I might be able to help. i've been watching how girls act since last august when school started. You can see if shes interested by watchingif she keeps looking at you for ling periods of time or if she asks you lots of questions.Both of those are good signs.You could also ask her friends about it... and if they dont answer then just keep trying. Talking to a girl is literally easier said than done. You just have to walk up to her/ when you have a chance in school or after/ with all the confidence in the world and try to start a conversation like something about what she is wearing.Overall, just try to be her friend. Hope that helped you some, tell how it goes if you want.

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      a_man1234567 5 years ago

      I like this girl at school, but i have no idea if she likes me. I don't hang out with her, and we're from different social groups. A girl said i'm attractive, but i don't know how to talk to a girl for anything. PLease give me tips, or advice, or something on how to get this girl? I need help, and God Bless!!!!!

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      Brittany 5 years ago

      Hey crazyhot well that is this weekend i would say to kiss her not a big out there kiss but a kiss to let her know you like her and if she kisses you back she likes you but if she pulls away she dont like you. Hope This Works And Let Me Know How It Goes If You Want=)))

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      crazyhot 5 years ago

      I figured out that I'm goin campin with her Memorial weekend and I want to make a move. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

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      crazyhot 5 years ago

      There's a girl at school that i like but shes like a sister to me. What do I do?

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      Jimmy 5 years ago

      Anonymous don't be shy if

      U love just asker her and get it

      over and done with

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      so theres this girl, and shes somolian, and my friends think i should go for it, but im afraid of what would happen to my rep if i get rejacted

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      guys look. there was this girl that absolutly starstruck me. sure we both had problems and whatnot but, i loved her. their was one day, when i could tell, she felt the same way. but i couldnt nut up and ask,every day i think about her and what may have been. i legitimately saw a futur with this girl. dont screw up. be brave, confident, and defi all odds. ask her out. dont make the mistake i did

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      jeremy 5 years ago

      im in 6 grade and there is this girl i like when i waited for my dad to pick me up from school we talked and left when i do but that was 1-2 months ago i need help i even asked my friend if he could help and he is but nothing is working plz heeeeeellllllpppppppp mmmmmmeeeeeeee

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      Jimmy 5 years ago

      Thacks. Singh

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      singh 5 years ago

      cool

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      Jimmy 5 years ago

      I love this. Girl she name is

      Is Morgan but I'm shy to asked

      Her on a date I like her but

      I don't think she likes. Me

      I told one of my best friends

      To tell her that I love her but she

      Said I no that

      Please help

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      Razzle 5 years ago

      To all the people's about when to ask that special girl, it's now or never. I regret never asking the girl I liked in the lower grades. She's really popular and even hotter now.

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      Jake 5 years ago

      Theres this girl I like her names zoey ages popular im a little popular I talk to her and every thang make her laugh flirt with her asked her out and she keeps saying no my friends tryed to help me get a girl he tells me what to say to them and I still get rejected please help me I'm fucking tires of this

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      Sam 5 years ago

      Ok so there is a cute funny attractive girl in my school that is in fourth grade and I'm in fifth. I love her and she likes me too. We are both ten yrs old. The rumor went around the school that I liked her because of one of my friends that told everyone. I skipped a grade that's why I'm in fifth. We are the same height and I am outgoing, likes sports and running just like her. I don't know what to do. If my parents find out I don't what I would do. She is the most attractive girl in school. No one else like like likes her so I think I'm going to take over. BUT HELP I DON'T KNOW HOW TO APPROACH THIS SITUATION! Please help! Thanks in advance!

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      Jonathan Beckley 5 years ago

      hey guys I have a crush on this really cute girl we are in the same grade every time I see her my hart pumps really bad and school is

      almost out what could i do to win her hart.

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      Ausin Oakes 5 years ago

      Ok so I like this girl my sis and her sis want us to go out but I haven't ever talked to her but I see her every day at schoolS so where do I start I need to know ASAP So I don't mess up. Pleas help

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      dexter 5 years ago

      My clase has a has girl that is cute and every wants to date her but there my friends what do i do how do i ask her out tell me please

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      Angel 5 years ago

      Alright theres this girl at my school shes 11 and im 11 and i dont know if i should ask her out

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      devin 5 years ago

      there is this girl name LITZY she is so hot my friend sais she likes me but idont think she does ineed help

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      Joseph 5 years ago

      Thanks for the advice

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      Skeeter 5 years ago

      There was a girl I liked in high school. I asked her out for four years, constantly and she still said no. It messed my confidence up really bad and I had no self esteem. I realize now, she wasn't worth all the hate and pain she put me though. The key is, don't try to look for a gf, the right one will come to you in due time.

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      Man 5 years ago

      I asked out a girl in a valentines card she said no I still wanna go out with her and I think she likes me what do I do becuase if I ask her out I'll be taken the mickey out of.

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      Ben 5 years ago

      I know this certain girl and i like her and she kind of likes me i think. but i think this advice of getting a girl is really good.

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      Move along, nothing to see here 5 years ago

      Hi I have a question. There is a girl I like and she likes me back we flirt all the time and it's really obvious we like each other. The thing is, we really don't know each other too well. My question is: should I ask her out ASAP or wait and get to know her first?

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      Ryan o76757 5 years ago

      What the heck, I`m sad. I`m ten and the girl a like, Rachel Kolb, had moved from my school. It stinks. I got her phone number and I gave her my number. Like I basically did all the steps. She moved from Georgia (the state I live in) to Chicago, Illinois. I havent called her yet except once, that only time she didnt answer. HELP ME!!! Perhaps I should call her more.Like ive talked to her, she likes soccor, loves it, basketball, and watches every U.S. soccor match. She said her father`s name is Kevin Kolb (Not the QB for the Arizona Cardinals), she has a brother named John, and a mom named Jen. I have had at least 10 dreams about her, she means a lot to me.

      Thanks for the help, Ryan Simmons.

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      Adam 5 years ago

      I am not sure if she likes me cause in class I talk to her and lay with her.Plz help mee

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      Dennis 5 years ago

      ih there is a girl at school we dated off and on never for long.i REALLY like her but iem ugly.i will tell you how ugle iem all the girls not her but all the girl when i git close to them they run and scream. i need help please

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      devon 5 years ago

      I'm 12 yrs old and i like this girl how do i know if shee likes me and ask her out

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      daniel 5 years ago

      step 1: whatever you do, dont freak out

      step 2: get to know her, be friends with her (most important), talk to her

      step 3: flirt a little. if you dont know how to flirt, sit next to her in class, compliment her, lightly tease her a little (but not to much (that'll make her hate you))

      step 4: get her email/phone number. ask her casually, or she'll think you're desperate

      step 5: ask her to a movie. if your not comfortable just the two of you, do a group outing, but make sure to sit next to her.

      step 5: ask her to be ur girlfriend. see what jimmythejock wrote in this link: https://pairedlife.com/dating/How_to_ask_a_girl_to...

      everyone fears rejection. dont let it get to you if you are. and through this all, dont make awkward silences, or talk to her like shes one of your guy friends (inappropriate stuff). good luck!

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      mason 5 years ago

      hey um...i'm 9 years old and theres this girl that i like and i'm freaking out i don't know what to do HELP ME ):

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      Armous 5 years ago

      Hey guys, I'm 11yrs old &

      In yr 5 I really like this girl she's 12 but not in my class :(. But she's way to tall!!!! I'm not sure if she likes somebody else but every time I look at her I dream of having a gf. Plz help ppl!!!!!!

      If u wanna give me advice , talk to me on this Armous@hotmail.com.au

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      lukasz 5 years ago

      there this girl i like in school i dont now if she likes me how do i tell if she dos like me.

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      Bob 5 years ago

      There is this girl I really like, but I don't know if she likes me back, a lot of the times she's happy when we are in a group together or partners for something, but sometimes it's the opposite, how do I tell If she likes me

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      Adam 5 years ago

      There is this girl, we get along really well but how do i asked her out?

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      matthew 5 years ago

      there is this really cute girl in my class,and we dated for a year,and everybody found out,so we split up,how do i get her again?i know she likes me i can see it in her eyes...

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      Awesome 5 years ago

      I'm decent looking and there is this girl I really like. How do I ask her out?

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      girls!! 5 years ago

      yea guys since i wrote on here about 4 months ago ive had 3 girlfriends just from being nice to the girls and listening to them. but now i have realised that all the girls like you for a bit then dump u. im gunna wait 4 a very long time now, so yea good luck to everybody else.

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      Man 5 years ago

      I like a girl I never really noticed her at the start of year 7 but at the start of it my best friend has always fancied her and I don't want to upset him that I love her aswell what do I do, she is also going out with a boy but Idon't think it's gonna last very long she tricked me and said she's ask out my best friend coz I was routing for himm to get her but I really wasn't. I like more than anything people would make fun of me if I asked her out. She's one in a million!

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      Charlie 5 years ago

      Hey I am 12 and I love this girl in my class, but I am really shy around anyone, espeacially girls. I can't look at them whilst I talk, though I can never talk to them anyway. I mumble and kick the ground. The only things I am good at is freerunning and XBOX 360 gaming. I write books too. Most people hate me, they are chavs but this girl is beautiful and she is not a chav. She smiles at me but nothing more. Her friends are always with her and I can't get anywhere near her as they start throwing insults. I just keep walking away. She looks at me with a mixture of disappointment and what my friends interpret as longing. Maybe she likes me? I don't know. My best friend Dylan was good with girls. I need advice guys.

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      jamie wight 5 years ago

      i am 10 years old and i don,t have a girlfriend

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      Josh 5 years ago

      I really like this girl everytime i see her i get butterflies in my stomach, she has a this boy thys her friend he always makes her laugh and stuff i wana ask her out but i know she likes me, its tge last week of school what do i say i was thinking, hi she saiys hi i say i really like u and i was wondering if you would like do go out some time?

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      daniel 5 years ago

      hey, jaidyn, dont try to delibratley cut yourself, just cuz someone doesnt like you! i'm sure there's someone for you out there, who'll charish and respect you. and dont kill yourself! thats a horrible idea! good luck!

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      planfit 5 years ago

      the first time i liked a girl she found out from my so called friend she called me a fugly dumb ass when i was 12 now i am 13 and i am a joke to all the girls

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      Jaidyn 5 years ago

      It is me again. I wanna kill myself rapidly cuz i m REALLY shy and she use to talk to me and have a few jokes with me being funny. It looks like she likes another guy and U should see me, i m an emo,(a person who rapidly cuts themselves.) I have scars and everything... I just want to kill myself... Pls answer this in comments. Btw, that person she likes, he likes her to and a LOT of other girls. How does he deserve this? He isn't even a loud to like girls 'till his 16. I m just shy. I am not gonna type her name cuz what if she reads? I'm dead... I will most likely kill myself. Answer this of how to get her when I am shy... I am only 11...

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      daniel 5 years ago

      Hi, i really like this girl 9.5/9.75 (1-10 how much i like her) and she knows. my best friend is (almost) dating her best friend (ironic) whos had quite a few boyfriends, and im getting advice from her. the person who i like still likes this guy, but she cant decide between me and him, and the last time she saw him was 2 months ago. i gmail chat with her almost everyday, and i talk to her, my best friend and her best friend at recess everyday. i'm in 6th grade (12) and i dont know what to do. im thinking about telling her that i like her a lot soon, but i dont think i have the guts. shes a year younger than me. i dont necessarily want to go on dates with her, but i need some advice. please help!

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      Jacob Boulais 5 years ago

      I need a girlfriend and how do i get one

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      ADAM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 5 years ago

      I am 13 an in year seven and i like this girl but she does not like me what do i do.

      i dream of her alot.

      thanks so much ADAM