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How to turn on a Woman -How to Attract a Woman

Updated on September 4, 2010

Do you really have a clue what women want? Or what to do to keep then happy?

There is not much a man has to do to keep woman happy or to turn woman on, well for most woman anyhow.There is a reason why understanding woman isn't easy because woman process thoughts very differently than a mans way of precessing thoughts.

Woman tend to use emotion to process there thoughts for decision making. I always wished I had a man that would just do some simple things and keep me happy forever, so to all you men out there, you can get what you want from a woman more often with a few simple guidelines.

What do woman actually want from there man?

* Confidence in a man is what turns me on the most. Girls do not want a man who is a big wimp, we want a man to protect us. I'm not talking about a man that thinks he is Mr. Tough guy either, just a man that can protect his woman when she needs protecting.

* I want a man who is funny. I love to laugh, it makes a woman feel good.

* A man who can provide some sort of security for me. If I don't feel secure, I am one miserable woman. I am not saying the man had to have a lot of money by any means. I am not a woman who goes after a man just because they have money. I actually hate woman who are that way.

* Make your girl feel like she is #1, as though she is special an there is no one else out there like her. Tell her she is beautiful, and you love her, especially in front of other people. Open the car door for her. Offer her your coat if she is cold. Woman also need there man to make them feel beautiful an sexy.

* Always listen to her, allow her to speak. Most woman have a need to be heard. Listening requires paying close attention to what she is saying. She needs to feel appreciated and needed. And she needs to feel that her man supports her in everything.

* Woman also want a loyal man. Do not discuss how you cheated on your ex infront of her.

* And as always lots of sex, not at first of course. If you are first meeting your woman do not try to get her in the sack right away, let her make the first move. Woman like a challenge.

By the way if your woman is not getting her needs met she will not stay too long, so to all you men out there you must try to fulfill your womans needs unless you want her to leave to find another man.


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    • kmackey32 profile image

      kmackey32 7 years ago from Pittsburgh PA

      Thanks Cupid...

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      cupid51 8 years ago from INDIA

      Very nice and practical information from a woman regarding a woman. Every man must look into this. Thanks for sharing.

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      kmackey32 8 years ago from Pittsburgh PA

      That is very true Richie.

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      Richieb799 8 years ago from Cardiff, Wales UK

      It depends, women may want all these things, but they also don't want to be alone just like some men.. so it is also important for them to be reasonable too

      - Good article though, lots of good pointers

    • drej2522 profile image

      drej2522 8 years ago from Augusta, GA, not paying attention, not opening doors, not saying "I love you", and no sex doesn't work?? Damnit, every time!

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      philip carey 61 8 years ago

      I'm funny between the first and second beers--sometimes, anyway.

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      GoldiString 8 years ago

      A good sense of humor.

      Add: Women wants to be serenaded!

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      philip carey 61 8 years ago

      "What does the woman want?"--Sigmund Freud

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      Rob Welsh 8 years ago from Tomorrow - In Words & NZ Time.

      Is that all we have to do Kristy? Some of us do way more than that and we're still single dispite our good looks and culinary prowess! lol. I wonder if I need to paint my cave?

      Good hub and thank you for the opportunity to reacquaint myself with the rules of the wild... Ummmmmmmm I must listen more too. Take care.

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      makeyourwifehot 8 years ago

      Hey guys! Did you notice how a woman's emotional and relationship needs come FIRST! Sure, a healthy woman loves sex as much as we do, but remember they need security, loyalty and confidence prior to opening up themselves physically to us.


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      yamanote 8 years ago from UK/Spain

      "Do not discuss how you cheated on your ex infront of her."

      A nice practical tip!