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Interview with a Two Timer

Updated on July 2, 2011
your heart belongs to ONE not TWO
your heart belongs to ONE not TWO

It's hard to be cheated by someone we love. But did it ever occur to you that being the cheater could be harder?

My best friend Kyle and I met two days ago and had some coffee. I knew that something was up coz he only treats me with my favorite frap when he wants to tell a serious part of him. lol

Some things in our conversation hit me so I'm sharing it with you.


Me: Caught you! You better start telling me what's bothering you or I would ask another grande of this frap.

Kyle: Whew, could never hide something from you, ha?

Me: Yup yup.

Kyle: That's it. I have something that I can't hide anymore...I mean, at least with you.

Me: I'm getting afraid.

Kyle: I wanna tell someone. I wanna tell it at least to you coz you're my best friend. I can't let anyone else know this especially Kate. (Kyle's long time girlfriend)

Me: You know you can trust me.

Kyle: I know. And I know you could even be mad at me for this but I need you now more than ever.

Me: I am listening.

Kyle: Ok...I am cheating on Kate. I'm a two timer.

Me: Hell no!

Kyle: Call me bad or whatever but I really am.

Me: How'd you do that?! You've been 4 years together. Why?

Kyle: Even I didn't know. I loved Kate and I still do. But I've met this girl that showed me a different world.

Me: So leave this girl now before Kate or anyone finds out.

Kyle: You don't understand, I fell for this girl. I love her.

Me: So, you don't love Kate anymore? I mean, your heart is not for Kate anymore?

Kyle: No. I still love Kate. She means the world to me. It's just that, the new girl gives me the world.

Me: Now you're having 2 worlds, ha! Who is this girl anyway? Does she know you have a girlfriend? Hey, does she love you, too?

Kyle: It happens and I can't get out. Her name is Ella and she doesn't know a lot about me coz all she knows is just to love me.

Me: You are so unfair, Kyle! Before anything gets worse, you have to choose one.

Kyle: I know. That's why I'am telling you all of this. It's really hard for me what to do.

Me: You have to choose really.

Kyle: I can't leave Kate but I can't bear losing Ella. Kate is all my life. Ella shows me another life. I can't hurt Kate but I don't want to see Ella sad.

Me: Someone's got to be hurt no matter what, Kyle.

Kyle: You're wrong. Everyone in this mess is gonna be hurt.

Me: You're right. You have to clear your mind tonight, Kyle. Take time to realize things. Whatever is your choice, I'm still your friend. Just listen to your heart.

Kyle: Thanks. Whatever is my choice, I know it's gonna be harder. So I'm gonna need you more after this.


i love her, but i've fallen for you...
i love her, but i've fallen for you...

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If you were Kyle, who would you choose?

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    • pinto2011 profile image

      Subhas 5 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Those who look for pleasure outside their vowed and solemnized marriage life are a societal havoc and should not be trusted for.

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      Subhas 5 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Those who can cheat are conscienceless persons and could not be trusted for. Those who can hurt someone to get pleasure are a havoc for the society and should be incarcerated.

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      DjBryle 6 years ago from Somewhere in the LINES of your MIND, and HOPEFULLY at the RIPPLES of your HEART. =)

      Cheating on someone does not only hurt others but it hurts the cheater even more. I loved the poll, and I voted NONE. It would be unfair for any girl to be chosen because Kyle obviously has psychological issues, he can't decide and is uncertain. He has to fix himself before getting a girlfriend. Voted up for an awesome hub! =)

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      Fehl Dungo 6 years ago from close to you...

      If you're really a good person, you CAN'T do that. Thanks for popping in Den :)

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      denden mangubat 6 years ago from liloan, cebu, philippines

      it,s really difficult if you're a good person

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      Surely it sucks. I cant say more things, just I always stick to one :)

      Thanks, Chris!

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      christalluna1124 7 years ago from Dallas Texas

      Been there done that it sucks. Blaise you have such a brillant way with words. I am glad in my case i let go, if he'd cheat on me with her, he'll cheat on her with someone else.

      warmest regards, chris

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thank you Empress F :)

      yah, it's no new story, but doesn't mean it's right

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      EmpressFelicity 7 years ago from Kent, England, UK

      I like the way you've done this hub as a dialogue - makes it very pithy and readable. Kyle sounds like a person who thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Which is part of the human condition, alas - although it doesn't make what he's doing right!

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      thanks for dropping by Howard

      that's so sweet ;p

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      Howard Roark 7 years ago

      I would choose you, the one I confide in!

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      Fehl Dungo 7 years ago from close to you...

      Yeah that's absolutely the best advice I could also give Waren E. That's so tough for a cute cat lol

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      Waren E 7 years ago from HAS LEFT THE BUILDING............

      ^^Just kidding up there^^

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      Waren E 7 years ago from HAS LEFT THE BUILDING............

      I would just tell them both how bad I behaved,the one that really loves me will stay,if they both leave ,then they never really were in love,so I didn't loose anything,

      next girl pleez..LOL!;P