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Is Love Worth what you have with Your Partner?

Updated on April 19, 2018
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Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing is a big part of her life. Online work has improved her lifestyle.

What do you think about Love?

What is the meaning of love in a marriage?

Love makes everything comfortable, easy and understandable, at your worst times you can show love for each other.

You can be crazy in love with your partner and be most frustrated at the same time.

What do you think love is?

Love holds two people together and keeps you faithful too.

The kind of bond that shows strength and allows you to be hopeful. It takes you further in your marriage to experience your obstacles together.

At times you can't look in the eye of your partner, and at times you just want to hug and kiss each other.

The special time shared makes your moments golden and most blissful.

Is love worth all the effort?

Love is worth your time and effort you put into your marriage, without love everything else is meaningless.

For example:
Recently, I attended a wedding of an older couple his first marriage and her second marriage.

She married him for his money and for the need to have a partner in her life. A woman in her forties.

He married her so he could have a helper, also someone to get home to after a hard day at work.

Love is not part of their marriage.They are married for four months and still have an arrangement.

Their arguments get louder and louder each day. It is difficult for her to help with field work or chores around the home.

During the honeymoon phase, she was very happy and loving every minute of his pampering.

Will they grow to love each other or grow to hate each other and depart?
I have noticed when in presence of others they show off their affection for each other.

Though at times he does not like it when his wife puts her arms around his shoulders.

It is obvious to me that she did not expect to be more of a worker than a wife in this way. He expects too much from his wife.

Too much to do and too much to cope with from the daily work.

The wealthy life and fancy home have lots to do with how much money they have to spend.

In this marriage money means everything. Love is just on the surface.

They are feeling the tension but often pretend everything is fine.

They don't have much in common he married her thinking it would work out it is rather early to tell if it would or would not.

It was a quick decision and this left him pressured into thinking about their lives together.

The rich man took this woman out of her poor life and gave her something she never had and her focus is mainly on the good life.

He did not look for their common interests an arranged marriage is quite different.

Do you think many couples look for their common interests in each other?
When you meet someone common interests do play a part of the relationship and getting to know your partner is very important especially, right from the start.

You can always learn more about your partner and in the beginning. That pays to know as much as you can a chance to know more about what you can share together.

Imagine you choose to get away with your partner for a few days, and when you get to the destination he wants to be on his own and doesn't feel like doing something together with you.

What would you do?

The getaway can feel lonely if two people don't make the best of holiday time together.

It is not always necessary to do everything together. When you spend some time apart you can still be together at the end of the day and will see there is more to talk about.

Fake love and fake smiles, show from some married couples to make others feel their marriage is getting on and the many obstacles and disagreements can show unhappiness.

Married life has caused this married man to feel stressed and his face shows more of the quick changes.

She is not capable to work as hard as he had thought she would for him.

The little arguments put more pressure on his mind.

If they have loved it will grow and eventually she will accept her life with him. Love is beautiful and always makes moments feel better afterward.

When two people love one another they would do anything for each other and that kind of love is easily felt in the presence of others.

The eyes connect with two people in love; the eye communicates and sees life through its own world. If two people really love each other you will see it in their eyes.

The eye holds two people locked in when they make conversations. When two people fail to see eye-eye in any conversation, the signs are there for an unhappy marriage.

You do not have love if you have to experience a hell of a life to get love.

One woman experienced emotional, mental and physical abuse throughout her life from her father.

When she got married her husband continued in the same way, and all that time she felt love was created from such actions.

What is love?
Love is from a feeling of how someone acts toward you.

With love you can create trust, comfort, a place of openness and love is sharing and giving to others.

Love stops you from being selfish.

Throughout her abuse, she felt no love for her father instead she felt anger.

The abuse destroyed herself worth and her identity.

The bad memory left her feeling no love.

When she married her husband her thoughts were happier thinking this man will show her love.

In her life, she was trying to heal the old pain and wanted to move on to a new memory. Her stroke of bad men struck again he abused her just as her father had and her challenging life lies with no love.

Sometimes you can forget that two people who care for each other can actually move mountains by showing love and enjoyment.

You should love yourself first before you love someone so why is that important?
To find your soul-mate you need to love yourself first because your soul-mate reminds you of yourself.

The relationship you have with your soul-mate is the one you have with yourself.

You love that person for the reason you love yourself.

Also, you hate that person for the reasons you hate yourself.

If you don't love yourself then you won't love your soul-mate.

In other words, you can deal with you and your soul-mate with ease if you first love yourself.

When you hate yourself your soul-mate can show you your better side in the reflection of them that is why you need a soul-mate.

How much love can you give and take?

Love shows you when you show happiness and laughter.

When two people work together they show love and strength without love life would not be as happy for any two people, in a family or with a friend.

The different kinds of love are needed for all.

Appreciate the love you have and don't let love go once you have found love hold onto it.

Can you handle your problems with love?

Love and be Loved

Love Makes it all Feel Easy

Love and Accept Each Other

Did Love Change your Life?

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© 2014 Devika Primić

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Monis Mas thank you kindly for commenting on my hubs.

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      Aga 

      4 years ago

      Fantastic article DDE! Love did change my life for better, and I believe true love is worth all of the efforts!

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billys1 thank you kindly

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      grand old lady thank you

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      lisavanvorst thank you very much

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway thank you very much I appreciate your stopping by.

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      billys1 

      4 years ago from "Somewhere", USA

      Without true love why do we have life. I believe that love brings about life and that life nourishes that love. It is a never ending cycle either here on earth or beyond this earth in our eternal heaven.

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      Mona Sabalones Gonzalez 

      4 years ago from Philippines

      Although love is a commitment, love is the fun and fulfilling part of marriage.

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      Lisa VanVorst 

      4 years ago from New Jersey

      A beautiful poem about love. People should marry for love not money. Great hub.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      4 years ago from USA

      Love is a bond that can carry you through some very dark times.

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      kidscrafts you said perfectly and that is so true thank you for sharing your love thoughts here

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc you are so right thank you

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      kidscrafts 

      4 years ago from Ottawa, Canada

      Love is very important for me. Love and respect go hand in hand in a couple :-)

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      Bill Holland 

      4 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Love is only the most important thing in life. Is it worth all? Most definitely.

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