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Living with the Bedouin People

Updated on November 26, 2018
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Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing is a big part of her life. Online work has improved her lifestyle.

Love takes you to any part of this world.

I met my Croatian husband in South Africa, and decided to live in Croatia after marriage, and have learned the Croatian language..

I read an interesting story about a woman who approved of that lifestyle.

It is amazing where love can take a person far from home. I know that from my experience and to read about someone else, who had gone through such great obstacles, and still would want more from a nomadic life, is truly amazing!

Her story as follows:

While on her travels for a week to Petra, Jordan, she met a handsome man and chatted for a bit. He wore a heavily fringed and tasseled red and white cloth twisted up on his head, called a mandrel.

Nabatean people carved the Treasury by hand over two thousand years ago. Nobody knows if the Treasury is a temple or a tomb, the Bedouin people think the Pharaoh’s treasure is in an urn at the top.

The urn was placed there as a part of the living rock it had been hacked so the full part of the urn is not visible.

Who are the Bedouin people?

Bedouins are nomads and live in tents and caves with no education or sanitation. The young man enlightened the woman about the Bedouin people and asked the woman to stay for the night.

She was looking for an adventure and was accompanied by a friend. The invitation was accepted. The doorway to the cave was just high enough so that they did not have to bend.

They entered the cave and their eyes adjusted when they saw an almost square cave. only about five by six meters with a low arched roof just out of arm's reach, and a rough concrete floor. There was a Primus stove, a tray of glasses, a cooking pot and a few plates on the floor.

A meal was served that evening a thick goulash with potatoes, onions, canned of peas, tomato puree, and with corned beef. Some bread was served which he called shrank. The toilet they had to go down the hill behind some bushes.

A few days later after staying at a hotel they had decided to move on with their travels as planned but were called back by their guide to see a Bedouin wedding.

The two women attended the wedding and went back home back to England to get on with their lives. Going back only made Sheryl see where she really belonged.

The romance at Bedouin allowed her to leave and return back to Bedouin. Sheryl had to go back and marry that wonderful man she fell in love with while on holiday.

She knew this was the place for her and that she would rather be than in Petra with the one she wanted, her husband to be. Sheryl did what she wanted, and did not care for anything else in the world but to be with her new love.

No politics or philosophy, just her and a wonderful man who started his day by praying. She was not sure if it was the right way, and of what she was getting herself into, but knew she had to know more by trying it out.

Her wedding dress was made from synthetic material and is called a Mudra dress The preparations for the wedding were underway immediately. Soon it became clear to Sheryl, that she could not speak Arabic with everything happening so quickly, she did not have the time to think about how it would be to meet up with the rest of the family.

The Arabic man now married to a foreign woman was certainly a catch for him. The woman did not know how to milk a goat, how to make bread or how to start a fire and he certainly was not going to move in to take care of her in-laws.

A tough one to think about much later in that marriage and in that kind lifestyle. They went up to a mountaintop and sat up there to view the wedding celebrations from other caves. The Bedouin tribe who Sheryl was a part of had shown her true meaning of life from their culture.

Although many families had settled in Petra and no longer wandered the desert with their herds or goats, looking for water and food they insisted they were still Bedouin people.

Though she was welcomed and loved by all, it took the woman a long time to realize that after her arraign she had become part of something larger than she had ever thought of.

The other part of her marriage she never gave much thought to it was never going to be him and her there are also others involved in their lives. The family and friends also play a big role in their lives.

Learning a language was total immersion after a long day working as the nurse at the local clinic meant she had to know more about the language.

Their daughter was born in a public hospital on the south side of Amman in a predominantly Palestinian area. The different way of life surprised Sheryl. Her son was born a few years later and they got news to move into the new settlement. Red brick homes with concrete floors and slabs for roofs and the doors were solid metal.

It meant losing friends and the clinic she worked in was closed, to move away was put off. The decision of staying and missing out on her way of life had disappeared. Her husband Mohammed was a diabetic, and sadly he died in the comfort of their own cave home.

When the kids got older they went back to England to further their education. Sheryl went back to England to be with her family and now lives close to her brother. I wouldn't have been able to live in such conditions. It is difficult to be able to live in such conditions. I would have to be born into. It takes great courage, and lots of thought to be able to live in a cave and the sanitation part is another way I know won't go with me. To be able to live in such conditions one has to be born into that lifestyle.

Would you live without sanitation and in a cave?

The choices I make have to be carefully thought of before taking the plunge. Some people do enjoy adventures and seek that experience as much as I do enjoy different experiences hygiene does make a difference to me.

A challenging lifestyle, and to give up all you have to go and live a nomadic life is a great experience for a day, The Bedouin people were loving and friendly to Sheryl. They felt Mohammed had a good catch a foreign woman whom he did not have to pay for as others do in the nomadic tradition.

A lifestyle that may not work out for everyone. Lots have changed and modern lives have taken over though some people have no choice but to live in such poor conditions.

I look at it as poor conditions but if people choose to live that way and don't want to move on then that is what they have to live by, their choices are made and that is how they want to be in their lives.

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    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Harishprasad Sheryl showed her true life of what she really wanted in her life thank you for the vote up.

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      Harish Mamgain 

      4 years ago from New Delhi , India

      Devika, so interesting article and Sheryl is just unbelievable ! You have shown a different and bizarre world. Voted up.

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      justmesuzanne I find it hard to believe that people can still manage to live this way thank you for all votes your kindness is always appreciated

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      4 years ago from Texas

      What a fascinating story! It is interesting that there are still people in the world who are able to live this way. Voted up, awesome and interesting! :)

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi D.A.L. thank you for the vote up, interesting and useful thank you for making the time to stop at my hubs.

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      4 years ago from Lancashire north west England

      Once again you have added to my knowledge of the world and its people with your very interesting and informative work. Well done ,voted up, interesting and useful.

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi precy thank you for making the time to stop by at my hubs I appreciate your kind words.

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      jtrader thank you for the vote up and interesting I appreciate your time and effort.

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      precy anza 

      4 years ago from USA

      Very interesting read. Love could make us do such things or decisions in life that we hadn't imagine before would happen. Brave of Sheryl to do such a change.

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      4 years ago

      That certainly is an adventure. She has had to adjust in many ways. Voted up and interesting!

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Shyron The woman certainly is courageous thank you for sharing your thoughts here I appreciate your time and effort.

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      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway thank you for sharing your mind here

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Nell thank you kindly.

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Sally thank you for taking the time to stop by at my hubs your kindness is always appreciated.

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      rajan thank you very much for stopping by

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      kittythedreamer thank you

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      ChristyWrites, thank you very much

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      MsDora thank you

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi billybuc thank you very much

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      Shyron E Shenko 

      4 years ago from Texas

      Devika, very romantic for Sheryl to go and live in a life style she was not born into. Sheryl has more courage than I, or maybe more love than I.

      For I don't think I could live in a cave. Or maybe I could.

      This is an interesting story.


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      Phyllis Doyle Burns 

      4 years ago from High desert of Nevada.

      Hi DDE -- this is a really interesting lifestyle. I believe that true love is more powerful than anything and it was love that Sheryl made her decision on. Thank you for writing this hub. Voted Up, Interesting and shared.

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      4 years ago from USA

      I couldn't do it but she is courageous to go and follow her heart and live with him in this lifestyle. Eye-opening! Great hub, Devika!

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      Nell Rose 

      4 years ago from England

      Hi DDE, what a fascinating story! And what a brave woman to go and live in a cave with the man she loved. good on her! We all say we have to live in the modern way, but if this is what she wanted then it was amazing. Such a shame that her husband died, but I do hope she gets to go back and live there, great hub! voted up and shared, nell

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      Sally Gulbrandsen 

      4 years ago from Norfolk


      Fascinating. Don't we take so much for granted - even when others have so little! I think one can adapt to almost anything, even a life without sanitation. It very much depends on what you want out of life. I for one like the simple things in life, material things are unimportant - you can't it with you.

      I very much enjoyed learning about the Bedouin people.

      Thank you


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      Rajan Singh Jolly 

      4 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

      Very interesting and eye opening. Living life the way one wants to is one's own choice. I wouldn't be able to with no sanitation.

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      Kitty Fields 

      4 years ago from Summerland

      Very interesting! I have heard of them but hadn't read much about them. Lovely hub.

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      Christy Birmingham 

      4 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      Really interesting. I don't know about not having sanitation... but everyone does make their own choices and everyone has different preferences. Very well written!

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      Dora Weithers 

      4 years ago from The Caribbean

      Love does seem to bring about some crazy consequences, but if the lovers are happy with their choices, so be it. Thanks for sharing this story and yours.

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      Bill Holland 

      4 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Fascinating...thank you for sharing this so we all may learn.

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thank you Ericdierker

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      Eric Dierker 

      4 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Very interesting and informing.


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