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7 Painstaking Reasons Why She Doesn't Find You Attractive

Updated on September 2, 2019
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Fernando is a millennial university student who writes real articles for real people.

Hey there. So, which is more important: personality or looks?

Personality, you say.

Think again.

Personality and looks are two pieces of the same puzzle.

You figured that one out. Good job. Seriously.

Understanding whether someone’s not interested in you because of your personality or because of your looks is no easy feat. But when’s the last time you’ve considered how you present your body?

For the sake of this article, I think it’s time for you to take a journey ride into what could be the next you – perhaps even find out why you can’t get a date.

1. You Still Care What She Thinks

It’s not about how you look. It is what’s on the inside that counts.

Why do looks matter when you have a chiseled personality?

Regardless if you’re not the most attractive person out there – no one is perfect – you’re still a person. You’re still beautiful for being you.

Who cares what you look like? You’re a beautiful creature regardless. Live on with your life.

2. You Haven't Accepted Who You Are

Am I good looking enough? Do I look dazzling?

Who cares? Your looks are – your looks. They won’t go away. What can go away, however, is how you treat yourself.

Seriously, stop treating yourself like an old fart bag – or even an old sock. You are wanted. You are sexy.

You’re simply doing it all wrong by blaming your own body.

3. You Don't Know How to Compliment Your Body

Looking good means complimenting your body.

Eye wear

Make sure your sunglasses – if you even wear any – fit your face! Same goes for your regular glasses. Who wants to have a bad shape for the wrong face?

Hats

Don’t wear a bad-looking hat. But if you do, make sure it looks good on you.

Watches

Don’t overdo it – then again, how do you overdo a watch? I’m sure it looks good on you!

Other Accessories.

Wear whatever you want. It’s all good. Just make sure you look good.

Properly fitted clothing

You don’t want to look funky in the wrong gear.

Make sure your clothes fit!

Don’t wear loose clothes unless you must. If your clothes don’t fit you anymore, it’s time to hit the markets.

If you’re still using skinny jeans that make you look like Batman having a rough day, you’re doing it wrong. Make sure your clothes fit.

And, for the love of God, make sure your legs are built for skinny jeans before you put the jeans on.

4. You Still Care About Body Size

You could be a big dude and still rock the attire – the looks, you.

Size doesn’t matter. What matters is how you use your size to your advantage.

Big guy? You’re strong! Hopefully.

Small guy? Lean and mean. I’d hope.

Just because you’re not the average size doesn’t mean you’re not attractive. You don’t even know how attractive you are yet!

So, what if she doesn’t find you attractive? She just doesn’t know – yet!

Work on yourself. Work on you. Then, and only then, will you see everything fall into place.

5. You Don't Know How to Work With Your Body

The key to understanding how to look good is learning what works for your body.

Products

If you’re still using moose for your hair because your mother said so, I’d invite you to try other products – hair texturizers, for example.

Get to know the products out there. There are a lot of good products to help you look good.

Hairstyles

Get to know your face shape. Your face shape usually determines what hairstyles will work for you.

The point of a hairstyle is to compliment your face – not shame it.

Products and modification do not define your body. You’re already a beautiful human being.

Just don’t screw it all up by looking like a dirty tire, either.

6. You Don't Even Try to Look Your Best

Take a shower.

Aim for at least once a day. Better if two times a day.

Self-explanatory. Try not to skip showers.

And no poor man’s shower shenanigans – okay?

Comb your hair.

This is popular with high school students. Nonetheless, at least try to fix your hair.

If you have no product to fix your hair with, a simple comb goes a long way.

Brush Your Teeth

Brush your teeth at least twice a day. Don’t skimp on this.

Your Nails

Cut your hawk talons. You don’t want to scratch your next date.

Shave your facial hair.

Looking good means looking your best. Your facial hair is not an exception.

7. You're Not Taking Care of Yourself

Take care of your mind and your body. A shower can only go so far – you need to both look and feel good.

If you’re not feeling good, your body will show it.

Your body reflects who you are and how you feel.

Taking care of your mental and physical health will go a long way in becoming an attractive you.

Go out for another walk. Get more exercise. Exercise through more puzzles. Do what you have to do to improve.

Conclusion

Hey. If you've been paying attention up there, I never said you're ugly.

Once again, she isn't disinterested because you're ugly!

It’s a mistake to think you’re ugly. It’s also a blunder to believe you’re a goner.

Make changes now, say “smell you later” to your problems.

The sooner you change your habits and improve the way you present yourself, the quicker you will be attractive.

Don’t disrespect yourself – the most common mistake many young thugs make. After all, you’re a handsome, beautiful person and you should respect that.

Get back out there. Good luck.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2019 Ferny Vise

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