- Gender and Relationships
Love : How to Love
Love, the amazing feelings of human heart related to a sense of strong affection and attachment, or sometimes it can really heart a lot which you never could imagine, but it's the best of all in the world. Albert Einstein says “How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love?” Through this page, I don't want to explain love but want to explain "how to love" in a general way to love. Really interested? If so, jump to the following lines...
Express your love
Love is not a thing to buy or sell. It's the true feelings of heart to someone or something. It's not global for everyone. So, you have to express your love. Love may spread various ways. Love for a mother or love for you life partner or love for any pet etc. are not the same. "I Love You", is the easiest way of express love. Do you think so? If yes, then you are totally wrong. Love is the desire to show some person that you love them or feel them. It's not same that you feel so. When you want to say such type of sentence, make sure yourself that you are willing to do anything for your special person. Try to understand the love, the feelings of love and express it with your own way.
Honor other's feelings
Try to empathize. Human is in different nature. Feelings also are very
different. No two moment's feelings are the same. Always try to
find the feelings or try to understand how others feel, how that
feelings come to them, how those feelings are changing and who are the
persons to feel. Also, try to realize how those people also love you
back just as well. Feel the situation, the environment and others
feeling. Then you will find the true taste of love.
Love just for the sake of love
You may love. You have the feelings. Actually, everybody has love,
feelings etc. Does your love and feelings are the same with others?
Probably not. But if there are some similarities then you people have
some feelings among yours (to whom you find match with your feelings).
Naturally, love comes from these ways. We are human. You love others. That
person or persons may love you. But human has different minds and different
feelings. So, love varies. The way, you love them is not the same they
love you. If you want to love them, you never expect anything from them in
return. So, try to love just for the sake of love. Never expect the
backed love from others as exactly as yours.
Divine taste of unconditionally love
Some people have the wrong opinions about love. Love is not the
condition of love. You may love. But it never says that there is a
condition behind that. For example, you are a university boy and your
lab partner is a girl. She helps you various ways to do your lab works
easily. Do you love her for this reason? Probably not. If you love for
those reason then you are in the wrong side of love. Moreover, you may love
others. But there is no condition that they also love you back as you love
them. So, for love no condition exists. Unconditionally love exists
forever and you will be lucky if you love unconditionally. Unconditionally love has the Divine taste.
Realize, love may be lost
Everything has a end if it is real. You don't argue that reality is
immortal. The same way, love may be lost. You have to realize yourself
about it. If you are realize that you may lose the one you love then
you have a true love. I think you are not clear or don't want to like
this words. But it's the real. You love one person. You can lose him or
her. You know the reality. So, aren't you the best to express your
love...? You know you lose it but you have dare to love. If you have
this mindset then think yourself that how lucky you are to have someone
to love. It's the true sounds of love, the true sounnds of feelings.
Let others be free to love
You may love someone. But it doesn't sense that you are a bad person, even if that person don't love you. If the person don't love you, you never tell that person that he or she is worst. The truth is that you must let them free. If you blame that person for your feelings then it proves your selfishness. So, be free and let others be free to love. Build your mentality to taste love.
Feel the situation of love
Love is in different forms and shapes. It varies form person to person,
environment to environment, relationship to relationship. For example,
mother-son love is different form your best friend's love. Both of these
love, is different form a husband-wife love or a romantic love. Never
express one love to other love. If you do so, you will be lost form the
love world. Try to understand the situation, the relationship, the
environment and express your love with best way.
Discover love in your own way
Presenting a gift or attracting one's mind, doesn't mean that the way of express love or to make love. Feel first to them and do things to make other persons feel good. You are the guy to take action to discover love. Never try to compare your feelings and your loved person's feelings to another mate's feeling. Be generous to discover love in your own way to win in the love world.
Keep in mind, you must have to love yourself before love another. Try to understand others and trust them. If you are hurt or unsuccessful in your love, don't try to hold it strongly or seriously or try to establish by any means. Just let it go and it's the best to do. Try to express your own feelings and love to your partner or the person to whom you love. It will more beneficial to make love with you. Make your own action to the right moment and right time to love. Feel the heavenly taste of love.