What's Love?

Everyone talked about it and my friends explained it to me but I didn’t get it. I certainly didn’t feel it. I loved my mother and family but why was love with a boy such a big dea? That is what I couldn’t figure out. I like boys and they do serve a purpose or so I thought but what is love and why is everyone taking about it? Through the years I learned what my friends and family were talking about, what they were feeling and why it meant so much. Now that I am older and experienced many different kinds of love, the first love, the true love and everlasting love, they are completely different.

My first love was traumatic and wonderful all at the same time; he showed me love that was beautiful and scary. He looked at me and I melted within, my heart crashed into my chest and screamed the devotion and love that I felt. First loves are the hardest to overcome in my opinion, because it’s innocence love and most of all pure. The love comes from deep inside of you that showers the person so much its suffocating. It’s a love that shines in the light and glows in the dark. That person can not do anything wrong in your eyes and you will always remember your first true love. It’s the one love that is unconditional, pure and totally true to one another. First loves are also the hardest because they touch your heart so deeply that their imprinted on it forever. Thus, you never, ever forget your first love.

True love is a lifetime of experiences. Or what I believe is true love. True love builds over time and has the potential to last forever. But true love is what you want it to be, what you create it to become. True love is so special it fills your heart and explores with such emotion when you see, touch or feel that person near you. This kind of love can develop into the life thereafter because your souls, hearts and minds touch and slowly become one. You become friends, lovers and communicate to each other about every thought and feeling. True love is sensual, sexual and passionate. The bond is so clear and deep that you forget who you are but what you have become. I believe, that children come out of true love, whether through your stomach or heart, children should be developed in this stage of your life. It’s meaningful, connecting and fulfilling in everyway. During this time of your life, enjoy the love flowing between you and your partner, flirt, talk and be erotic with each other, it’s extremely special and wonderful to experience.

Everlasting love can be so dramatic and shocking that you know it the first time you experience it. Everlasting love starts out as first love and grows through all stages until you are in the everlasting love stage. Feeling the deep seated emotion is rather hard to explain, because few ever find it. The old myth “when your soul is split into two halves and your whole life you look, search and try to find the other half to create your soul mate, that is everlasting love.” Your soul feels like it has come home, home to a love that is strong and secure, connected in the deepest possible way.

Love is a very magical emotion, regardless of which stage you may be in, remember, to embrace, live it, breathe it and love every single moment, because you may never experience it again.