- Gender and Relationships
Love Is Blind and Is Not Always True
Love Shows you and can Tell You
They departed like every other day, and nobody noticed them leaving their home.
The family often came to visit and left without anyone knowing of their departure.
It is their life, and when she doesn't see her friend part of this family, she is not happy.
On a sunny and quiet day. The peaceful environment is great.
Lots to enjoy with such breathtaking views, and not to forget the fresh air.
She yearns each day to see him and talk to him but he is not around anymore.
The woman doesn't know why he is not coming by to pay his regular visits.
This makes her feel lonely without his conversations or the simple ''hello,'' that always made her smile, and feel cheerful.
He has a busy lifestyle, if only he could make five minutes for her!
An unmarried man who has never been in a relationship, he is kind, earnest, and always there when he says would come by. It is hard to find someone like that.
Finally, she has found the kind of person whom she can count on through all times, and now just misses his brief conversations.
The simple person who accepts her for who she really is sometimes he can be self-centered, but then who isn't?
One look into his bluish-gray eyes and she could not resist those feelings that had come over her. She wished for something that could never be but hope will be. The married woman knows deep down that is not possible.
A married woman who is unable to control her emotions for a single man.
It is not about what he possesses. They both come from different worlds but have one thing in common loneliness.
He cares about her, and often he shows that and is direct in his conversations. The problem is this guy wants to be with her and knows that it is not possible.
Ever watched the movie Love in the Time of Cholera?
I have watched this movie three times, and wouldn't mind watching it once or twice more.
In their youth, Florentino Ariza and Fermina Daza fall passionately in love. When Fermina eventually chooses to marry a wealthy, well-born doctor, Florentino felt lost, but he is a romantic.
As he improves in his business career he goes on with his years in having six hundred and twenty two affairs. In all that time he had those affairs he reserved his heart for Fermina.
When her husband died it was time for Florentino to let out his feelings to Fermina.
It took fifty years, nine months, and four days after he had first declared his love for Fermina, and now he had to do it again.
This man can wait as long as he likes to declare his love for her but that won't be anytime soon. His eyes say everything about the way he feels about her and is held back from expressing his feelings.
It is difficult to think of going down that road knowing she is not free to express her feelings for him.
All she could do is pray for him to be there for her but in the most friendliest of ways.
Love is beautiful no matter who you have it with and love can't be controlled. Love happens and takes over a person's thoughts.
Sometimes one just has to be patient for the next moment to appear and then experience their new adventures.
During all of June last summer it was fun to be together for him and her. They shared many mornings together having coffee, talked, and laughed freely.
He is not coming around like he did in the past. He now realizes he can't step over any boundaries and wants to pull back from her.
What he does not realize is that he won't always be able to control the way he feels and at some point he has to come out and say something to her.
At the moment hey are very good friends and nothing will ruin their friendship.
Surely if they keep their relationship that way things won't get out of hand.
He respects her and knows a part of her life story which he won't discuss with anyone, and the best for both would be is to stay good friends and not to act on their emotions. In this way no one gets hurts.
August was an interesting month for all of them.
They were invited to his place for supper living right next door, and off-course her husband was there after a few wines most people get braver and speak out their minds.
He did exactly that, got braver and spoke his mind out. He spoke of how he is living a lonely life and gave the odd look at her while talking about his lonely life. They managed to go on to other conversations.
When seen in public in presence of other people it is so obvious of how he feels about her.
It is written all over his face. The way he looks at her, and the constant making sure she has everything in her plate makes it clear in their minds.
He makes such a fuss over her at the dinner table to make sure she enjoys her evening at his place.
The whole situation is blurred because nothing more can be of this relationship.
During the winter they spent a fair amount of time together, and he got closer to her with lots of smiles and a jokes.
There has never been anything more than laughs and jokes, just so different and so true.
He is like the angel she never had, standing over her. They have a complicated relationship it is like they can’t stand being away from each other but with certain limits.
Love is blind and he is certainly showing that in her.
When two people are restrained in a relationship, one is married and the other is single, what would you do in such a situation?
Get that thought out of your head!
It is never going to happen and be faithful to your man that is the right thing to do.
She knows what makes her feel good he certainly does that for her, and he knows what makes him feel good. She does that for him but this does not make sense at least in some ways.
Sometimes feelings can't be controlled, and spending the lonely moments together can open up some kind of feelings to show for two friendly people.
They both know it is better left alone because the intimate relationship, or the fling they want can't happen. That won't happen and it makes all the difference in their lives.
They can't go back to pretend nothing happened but can go forward, and forget about their past. It had made them feel kind of uncomfortable, in the presence of others.
In this way, the friendly couple don't have this cloud over their heads. A waiting to burst out cloud when they know it won't burst now or ever.
Their feelings could sub-side and things could change. People grow apart after getting to know more about each other it happens all the time.
Loving someone you can't have can make your life a misery. Remember you can't always call it love. It can also be lust, or one of your greater fantasies but how you handle the situation is entirely up to you.
Most people fail to see what is right in front of them, and focus on what they can't have.
You learn from your own experiences and of what others tell you. From what you see in other's and from their actions.
When you react to your feelings that can change lots for you. Sometimes it can be a good thing, or a just a failure.
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© 2013 Devika Primić