Love Is What It Is; Love
When it comes to people “defining” a relationship unfortunately many describe them in the physical view of the couple. This is not an appropriate way of describing a union of two people who love one another.
Society & social media as well as negative, judgmental individuals will always criticize anything & anyone who doesn’t fit their standards of love. In today’s world it’s already difficult enough to take on the world’s harshness alone. No one can imagine the complications of dealing with ignorance of the world towards a relationship that doesn’t suit their eyes; much less their heart.
Love comes in ALL shapes, forms, colors, sizes, cultures and genders. It should never be described as anything but what it is; love. I personally believe that if a man/woman 6ft tall is with a person who is 4ft tall should not matter; they found love with one another. A couple who share their photos with the world because they’re happy & proud shouldn’t be criticized. When either party has big lips and the other has thin lips. A large person with a thin person is judged harshly. Why? They have love they found love and are lovable as much as the next person. A man in love with another man; does he not deserve love because so? No he deserves it as much as the next person. A couple where one is terminally ill & they remain together is their decision; not yours. Love is going through life’s issues together. No one has any clue how happy they are and make it work between them.
No one should ever judge a person’s mentality for being in a relationship with someone who is large, small, short, tall, black, white, transgender, bisexual, homosexual or ill. It is their business only.
There are so many negatively, miserable people in the world who love to criticize what their hearts truly desire. They can spend a lifetime speaking ill of happy couples because their standards of finding love are nowhere near reasonable. Those people will end up alone and bitter for being so.
Love is love and will find its way into any and all hearts that are open to receive it as they wish to give it. Love is strong & powerful. Love is NOT conditional. It is accepting another into your heart as they are.
There will be many people who will not accept and or judge your relationship. Do not allow this to affect it. A relationship between two people will stand strong because it’s built on trust, faith and the love you have with each other. If it is strong it will survive anything life throws at it.
In the end it all comes down to this. LOVE IS LOVE and nothing else should matter.
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2020 Lynn Rocha