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Love is what you make of it

Updated on October 18, 2017
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Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing is a big part of her life. Online work has improved her lifestyle.

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What is True Love?

First love yourself

Love yourself first before loving someone else.

At the early stage of a relationship you think love is in the air, but after some time spent together the wedding day arrived, and that made you feel insecure about love.

You have more than just butterflies in the pit of your tummy.

Love grows and in time, you will know if you have love or not.

It does make sense if you have love for that special one.

Love grows in strengths, through all tough moments and weak moments.

Through your own actions you will grow with love, memories, some pain, empathy, and compassion.

Actions of love:

When you perform actions for the one you are in love with like, care for your significant other. You could go to great lengths to make it all possible for that partner.

These are actions that show true acts of love.

When he applies the same toward you, like doing something special for you, such as, making you a lovely breakfast, or taking you out on a picnic, that too is an act of true love.

The memories you have to look back on, to laugh over, and the more you share together.

The hurt you feel from love, opens you up to feeling the real meaning of love.

What comes from within boundaries be it good, or bad as long as it love is from both of you.

The sound of your partner's voice tells you everything about their behavior.

When the individual acts aggressive toward you, and only wants you to themselves, a start of a problem that many individuals fail to see from the day one.

Most partners look at jealousy, and over possessiveness as love.

I learned about love over the years and know this by experiencing it.

A solid commitment between us showed me love, trust, communication, respect and faith in each other.

My wedding day was a bit stressful as most would feel on that special day. I knew what I was getting into, and don't regret one moment of my marriage.

Does love get sweeter as you get older?

Is it impossible to detect authentic love in someone else unless you have experienced true love?

Finding true love remains a myth for many individuals.

Pay attention to what makes you feel alive.

Is it love?

Grow and know yourself to know true love.

Accept the reasons for feeling unexpectedly good about yourself.

Some people don't know what it is like to be loved, and will die feeling unloved.

If you were not loved as children, and at the adult stage of your life love can still feel out of reach. Falling in love with people who can't love you back, and when an adult that can ruin a big emotional part of you.

Most people are not lucky in love.

Searching for love, and not finding love, can spoil your chances of having someone special.

Love comes to you when you least expect it!

Love found me, and I am happy and free with myself. I did not go searching, love found me.

Valentine’s Day speaks for itself!

I was not looking for love, and we found each other. It is amazing how two people can make something out of true love.

I feel love goes beyond all forms of physical attraction and desire.

Love can make you feel lonely, that is if you make your life that way.

Love can make you feel abused, and feel sad, or angry.

All these acts of love can drive you in a wrong path.

There is cruel love, and injustice love.

It takes a much longer time to understand the meaning of love. Only, when you have true love will you understand it.

People abuse love, and use love to get near a person.

First begin to understand love before using it against relationships.

Love allows you to see life from another side.

Can love be earned?

One loves the other or love is from one person.

Loving your partner often happens from one side, until time passes by then the other tends to feel the same.

You can be in love with your partner and still not understand compassion and empathy.

Learning the meaning of empathy and compassion can take time. Grasping the whole concept can take years, or can happen very fast. If you are slow learner you can be mentally challenged.

Love leads you to many different paths of your life.

The emotions you did not know you had, and getting involved in activities which you have not tried from before can make a rapid change in you.

Love teaches you compassion and empathy.

Love takes you step by step in a blind way. You learn to have blind faith from love.

Love gives you hope and happiness.

When you have love everything around you feels normal and so great.

Your mind works on love daily in your fair actions taken.

You show love in all you do for your partner.

Love grows and bonds two people together strongly.

How would describe love?

Is it any different to what I have written?

Life is never what you want, or what you have planned.

Love makes you feel all mixed emotions, confusion happiness, and frustration.

Coping with love and a partner is not always a perfect moment.

Searching for perfection and for love won’t always fill in the gaps in your life.

Look at life in a realistic way.

Don't expect too much or too little from life.

Be appreciative of what you have, and feel good of your achievements.

Love is what it is!

Love takes you around with a smile, and is much bigger than you really are.

You attract love into your life, but you can't control love in the ways that love affects you.

The way love expresses itself is endless.

Love strikes like a flash of lightening, and you can give in into love very easily.

Ever found yourself loving someone you once hated?

Remember, that love does not invite itself into your life with any conditions.

There are no stipulations, agendas, and mysteries in love.

You can't buy love, or try to make someone love if they don't.

There are no boundaries in love!

Love is what you make of life!

You can buy sexual partners and marriage partners but love is never bought, nor sold.

When you are in love with someone you look no further than that person's eyes.

Everything about that person feels perfect, and beautiful.

You don't look beyond that life of love.

I found love when I least expected.

When you search for love it shows you are missing something special.

There is no right, or wrong person to share your love with.

Love can be shared with anyone, and at any place, or time.

You don't need to qualify for love it just comes to you.

Accepting that fact of love is an issue if you see it that way.

Who makes you feel loved?

Telling your partner the three words is a big decision, and say it when you really mean it.

Love yourself before loving anyone else.

You can love better if you were taught about love from an early age.

Love grows from within and over time.

Often both partners don't fall in love with each other from day one.

One partner falls in love first with their partner while love grows on in time for the other.

Love is part of people's lives but when you are in love that is a different time for couples.

You can love family and friends.

Couples who fall in love have a totally different type of love.

Love is beautiful

Who makes you feel loved?

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      Devika Primić 22 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      swalia thank you very much for sharing your comments.

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      Shaloo Walia 22 months ago

      Beautiful and wise thoughts on love...Thanks for sharing!

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Janellegems Thank you for sharing whats on your mind. I appreciate the vote up.

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      Janellegems 2 years ago from United States

      Great stuff here. These are some excellent insights on love. Thanks for sharing your wisdom, thoughts and views. Voted up!!!

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Tamirogers, thank you for stopping by here I appreciate your comments. Croatia is a beautiful country and has a very different lifestyle. I love my new life in a foreign country.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Chitrangada Sharan, thank you for the vote up and for sharing your comment.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      VioletteRose, thank you for stopping by.

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      Tami Rogers 2 years ago from Seattle, Washington

      Beautiful glad I found you..I will be following!

      My daughter was just in Croatia for a study abroad are so lucky to live among such unbelievable beauty!

      You are a really good writer.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 2 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Beautiful thoughts about love! And I think it is relevant for the whole year and not only on Valentine's day.

      Interesting thoughts expressed by you in this hub as always. Voted up and thanks!

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      VioletteRose 2 years ago from Chicago

      Beautiful hub on love :) I agree, true love grows with time.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi FlourishAnyway, thank you greatly for commenting and so true.

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      FlourishAnyway 2 years ago from USA

      The feeling of love has matured as my husband and I have, and I hope that it keeps getting better. You reflect some interesting thoughts here. I don't think anyone really knows what they are truly getting themselves into until they're already in deep.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      sunilkunnoth2012, I like your comment! Thank you very much for stopping by all my best to you.

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      Sunil Kumar Kunnoth 2 years ago from Calicut (Kozhikode, South India)

      Wonderful thought and even wonderful presentation. Love is a topic we can write to any extent. It is a delightful experience. Though you wrote it for Valentine Day, its message is for all seasons. As always, your positive thoughts are what reflected here once again. Thank you for this post. Keep on writing. God bless you dear.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Cris Sp thank you for stopping by always grateful for your comments.

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      CrisSp 2 years ago from Sky Is The Limit Adventure

      This hub is full of love and so delightful.

      So, love I send you...from the sky. ~

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Lady Guinevere thank you kindly for stopping by

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      mary615 I so agree with your point here thank you

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Vellur thank you kindly

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      AliciaC thank you kindly

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi D.A.L. thank you for all votes I appreciate all comments

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      alaways exploring thank you kindly

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      sallybea thank you

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc so kind of you stop by I appreciate all comments, thank you

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      Debra Allen 2 years ago from West By God

      Loved this hub! There is a song that speaks all of what you have said in your hub. The song is titles Love Changes Everything. I am not sure if you allow links in your comments or not but here is a link to the song on you tube:

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      Mary Hyatt 2 years ago from Florida

      I found true love. Wasn't looking for it...he just came along and we were very happy for many years until he died. I still miss him.

      Beautiful Hub for Valentine's Day. (I'm a day late, sorry)

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      Nithya Venkat 2 years ago from Dubai

      Great hub for Valentine's Day or any day for that matter. Happy Valentine's Day, though a day late.

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      Linda Crampton 2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      There are some interesting and lovely thoughts in this hub, Devika. It's a great article to read on Valentine's Day!

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      Dave 2 years ago from Lancashire north west England

      Hello Devika, Good subject for Valentine's day [the day I am reading },and as always you have covered the subject in your unique style. The questions you ask and the facts you give are interesting indeed. Good to visit as always. Hope you have a great Valentine's day. Voted up,interesting and useful.

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      Sally Gulbrandsen 2 years ago from Norfolk

      Positive thoughts as always Devika. Oh yes, the affairs of the heart! I wish I had all the answers. I hope yours is a very special Valentine's day. You deserve it.

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      Bill Holland 2 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Great thoughts for Valentine's Day, but really, great thoughts for the entire year. I didn't know what love was until I met I do. :)

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 2 years ago from Southern Illinois

      They say that love makes the world go around. I believe that. Lovely write. Happy Valentine Day..