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Love, why got Faded with Time: A true story
I am daring to write this hub, as I personally felt and gathered strength to touch this topic, due to supporting and encouraging words from fellow hub writers.
When you LOVE someone, things change. Everything around you changes automatically. The way you think, the way you see situations, the way you approach life entirely changes. You start living for the person, you are in immense love and all you care for is he or she only. Your world start and end at him/her. Not only this, you stop thinking what you like, what you want etc. All you think is about is your LOVE. All you are worried about all time is to keep him/her happy and give her best of life.
But suddenly, for any reason, if the LOVE is converted into hatred, the feelings change entirely. You just start thinking negative about the same person, who was your dream man or women.
How does that work? Few arguments, hard words, few fights can change someone.
Reason behind choosing this topic is I have seen a relation very closely being victim of this:
It is a love story of two love birds those who were happy in their world and was completely lost in their life. They were not worried about anyone around them. Every day use to start with hearing each-others voice, and end the same way. They use to have endless conversations which never use to finish but with chirping of birds they use to sleep, thinking it’s late to go bed. When they use to meet they use to hold hand and never ask or say anything to one another. The tears in one’s eyes upset another for months and months. They were two bodies but one soul as they even breathe in one another. I have seen them personally sharing one bread loaf in two pieces and giving to one another thinking he should eat. That was so touching and emotional .Tears comes out while seeing the love in their hearts for one another.
But as LOVE has to give its test, the time came where the same lovers changed for one another. They started measuring their love for one another, and slowly love started fading, the same dream girl was left to her fate and destiny and same dream boy was left to fight with his life problems. The love of years came to a painful end where they were no more together and also had no one to share their pain and grief.
Few questions arise. Why relations so strong in beginning lose their grips with storms and winds. Love, so intense and pure in beginning why got faded in changing situations. Why same people change for one another with different situation and time.
Very humbly, I am asking a question to my hub mates. Why all this happens in some Love relations? I am searching the answer. I would really appreciate if someone really join hands and comment so that reason behind can fixed.