ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

MY WIFE BETRAYED ME.IS SHE A WHORE??

Updated on July 28, 2015

Marriages are made in Heaven. Really, has anyone gone to heaven to see it or returned from there to tell it. We are used to such words by our so called priest or god men. These type of people has nothing to do with our happiness or sorrow. They are just here to enjoy the show and to show their intellect. Marriage is an effort to monopolize love which is a worst thing a human can do. On very clear terms monopolizing love means from today onwards you can love me and cannot love anyone else .This is not love this is taking away someone’s freedom. Freedom is a basic nature of each and every living thing on this planet. When we free a dog we can see a kind of happiness in that dog’s face. That dog does not want to be tied with chains. He wants to be free so that he can roam freely. It is completely natural. If I am married and my husband/wife finds someone else after marriage and he/she wants to settle with someone else we call them characterless, playboy, whore etc. I mean if someone get true love after marriage then what is the problem I can help someone to get his true love because I love that person. But it’s not possible because I feel something wrong is going on. Actually it is my ego that is feeling bad that my husband/wife has found someone better than me. It is not an insult to the woman to say, "Honey, the honeymoon is over." It is not an insult to the man if the woman says; "Now things cannot be beautiful. We always want to be bonded with chains and make others bonded to us out of fear. We are afraid of freedom and don’t want to remember that it is our basic nature to love freedom. Love can never be monopolized nor can it be bonded with chains. But the most disappointing things is there are lot of elements in this society those who try to keep love in boundary like religion, court, law, culture, so called ethics etc. But we all know loves knows no boundaries. Human beings have created societies, cultures, civilizations, rules, regulations, and made the whole humanity unnatural. Now after creating all this now we fell secure that nothing wrong is going to happen. We have already imprisoned yourself what else can you expect to go wrong. The only thing I want to address from this article is never be afraid of freedom. Anything that binds you let it be a person or place or anything is bad for u and anything that liberates you or make you free let it be a person or place or anything is good for u.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • dashingscorpio profile image

      dashingscorpio 

      3 years ago

      I agree some people love to play the "blame game" or see themselves as "victims" because (they are unwilling to take responsibility) for their own actions! There are over 180 countries and 7 Billon+ people in the world.

      The world may not owe you anything but (you) owe yourself the world!

      No one is "stuck" anywhere or with anyone. It's one's (choice) to see finite options in a world with infinite possibilities. Life is a (personal) journey!:)

    • Pritam Patnaik profile imageAUTHOR

      Pritam Patnaik 

      3 years ago from Mumbai

      You are absolutely correct.But still their are many people who feel monogamy is a DNA code. Still there are people who marry only for their family. Still their are suicide on betrayal. You have a open minded perspective towards life. Hope everyone gets that perspective and life will be easy and beautiful.

    • dashingscorpio profile image

      dashingscorpio 

      3 years ago

      "On very clear terms monopolizing love means from today onwards you can love me and cannot love anyone else ."

      However it's very important to note that marriage is not mandatory!

      People actually (choose) to get married!

      In fact in the U.S. there are over 2 million weddings preformed every year. Monogamy is a (lifestyle choice) and not a DNA code.

      No one should get married who does not want to be married.

      However it's also important to note each couple is allowed to have their (own) "marriage rules". Some couples have "open marriages". Ultimately it always comes back to the (choices) of the individuals.

      You are always where you (choose) to be. One man's opinion!:)

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)