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MY WIFE BETRAYED ME.IS SHE A WHORE??

Updated on July 28, 2015

Marriages are made in Heaven. Really, has anyone gone to heaven to see it or returned from there to tell it. We are used to such words by our so called priest or god men. These type of people has nothing to do with our happiness or sorrow. They are just here to enjoy the show and to show their intellect. Marriage is an effort to monopolize love which is a worst thing a human can do. On very clear terms monopolizing love means from today onwards you can love me and cannot love anyone else .This is not love this is taking away someone’s freedom. Freedom is a basic nature of each and every living thing on this planet. When we free a dog we can see a kind of happiness in that dog’s face. That dog does not want to be tied with chains. He wants to be free so that he can roam freely. It is completely natural. If I am married and my husband/wife finds someone else after marriage and he/she wants to settle with someone else we call them characterless, playboy, whore etc. I mean if someone get true love after marriage then what is the problem I can help someone to get his true love because I love that person. But it’s not possible because I feel something wrong is going on. Actually it is my ego that is feeling bad that my husband/wife has found someone better than me. It is not an insult to the woman to say, "Honey, the honeymoon is over." It is not an insult to the man if the woman says; "Now things cannot be beautiful. We always want to be bonded with chains and make others bonded to us out of fear. We are afraid of freedom and don’t want to remember that it is our basic nature to love freedom. Love can never be monopolized nor can it be bonded with chains. But the most disappointing things is there are lot of elements in this society those who try to keep love in boundary like religion, court, law, culture, so called ethics etc. But we all know loves knows no boundaries. Human beings have created societies, cultures, civilizations, rules, regulations, and made the whole humanity unnatural. Now after creating all this now we fell secure that nothing wrong is going to happen. We have already imprisoned yourself what else can you expect to go wrong. The only thing I want to address from this article is never be afraid of freedom. Anything that binds you let it be a person or place or anything is bad for u and anything that liberates you or make you free let it be a person or place or anything is good for u.

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    • dashingscorpio profile image

      dashingscorpio 2 years ago

      I agree some people love to play the "blame game" or see themselves as "victims" because (they are unwilling to take responsibility) for their own actions! There are over 180 countries and 7 Billon+ people in the world.

      The world may not owe you anything but (you) owe yourself the world!

      No one is "stuck" anywhere or with anyone. It's one's (choice) to see finite options in a world with infinite possibilities. Life is a (personal) journey!:)

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      Pritam Patnaik 2 years ago from Mumbai

      You are absolutely correct.But still their are many people who feel monogamy is a DNA code. Still there are people who marry only for their family. Still their are suicide on betrayal. You have a open minded perspective towards life. Hope everyone gets that perspective and life will be easy and beautiful.

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      dashingscorpio 2 years ago

      "On very clear terms monopolizing love means from today onwards you can love me and cannot love anyone else ."

      However it's very important to note that marriage is not mandatory!

      People actually (choose) to get married!

      In fact in the U.S. there are over 2 million weddings preformed every year. Monogamy is a (lifestyle choice) and not a DNA code.

      No one should get married who does not want to be married.

      However it's also important to note each couple is allowed to have their (own) "marriage rules". Some couples have "open marriages". Ultimately it always comes back to the (choices) of the individuals.

      You are always where you (choose) to be. One man's opinion!:)

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