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When a Woman Loves a Man
Should I Ever Try Again?
I am talking about marriage , some may say that I am not lucky in love, or could it be that I won't put up with allot of crap. I would love to find the right person. Someone once said "theres a lid for every pot", I wonder if that's true. I realize a relationship is give and take, at first its all peaches and cream , but then watch out! It usually takes about a year or two, and then there it is the true person showing his true colors, and its not pretty.
The reason I got married the first time, was to simply to get out of the house. I know that was bad reason to get married in the first place. hes was to young, and I was to uneducated or (stupid), but there you have it. This happens more than you think. The second marriage was because, I had two sons, and boy did I need help. He also needed someone in his life , and I needed him as well. He was a lost soul, but had a good heart though, and after many years of hearing "I am so sorry" I promise I wont ever do that again. I had enough of that. The third one was the best I thought. He did everything for me, and in his eyes I could do no wrong, then after two years the unglyness showed up. He didn't think my sons should be in my life, as much as they were. Of course I wasnt putting up with that. My sons are the world to me, and they will always come first before any man. My third husband didn't have a relationship with his own children, so I guess he didn't want me to have one with mine. He also wasn't concerned about my needs anymore. A woman has to know that she is appreciated. To all the people out there, that are in a loving relationship 'never take your loved ones for granted' because this can do allot of damage to a relationship.
Don't you just love to be in love
I guess there's many reasons why a person gets married. I have always thought that I did my part in compromise, when it came to give and take in a relationship, and sometimes even more . I know I put up with allot more than I should have in my second marriage. Even then it didn't work out. I think of myself as a loving,and caring person. I love to be in a loving relationship, where both can remember how wonderful it was, when you first felt your heart hit the floor when one or the other entered a room. I realize its not always that way. There's also respect, and just knowing that he will always be there might be enough. Some people love to be in love. Don't get me wrong, the whole honeymoon part is awesome, but when its over its deafinitely over. Every now and then theres, a love between two people that can not be denied a love that will last for ever. In theses cases they are very fortunate, to have found someone, to be their soul mate. That one person that will love, and respect them for as long as they live. I truly believe that there is one special person for everyone, I just haven't found my soul mate yet, but I know hes out there.
First love is the hardest, because when your in love for the first time. It feels so good, and yet it hurts so bad, when he or she gets dumped. To have someone love you when your a teen is very special .That's what it felt like to me when my first love, after three years dumped me. I didn't come out of my room for months, or maybe it was days I really can't remember. I didn't think I was going to survive this, but I did, and life went on.This person was my everything, in my mind he was my soul mate. Some young girls will do some stupid stuff for their boy friends. Not realizing that this young love is just the start for both them. I think if we were a little more wise, when we first fell in love we might make better choices. Sometimes those feelings are so powerful, a young person doesn't think there will ever be another love like that again. We hear about this all the time on the news, where a family tries to keep them apart. Usually the girl goes along with her boyfriend, to get rid of the parents. Thinking this will solve their problem, at this point she can only think of one thing her lover, and how much she loves him. It's "unbelievable to me how this could happen", but it does. If they only knew there's ,so much more to life than that. They have just begun to experience life. The question is how much are you willing to up with? If you are doing all you can ,to make it work and it fails anyway maybe it wasn't meant to be.
- Turn Back The Hands Of Time
I remember the first time I noticed boys, I was nervous, and didn't know why I had these feelings . I didn't know what to do. I was 16 years old, and this boy pursued me for two weeks. He knew or could tell...
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