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Math Marriage And Relationships

Updated on August 15, 2009

What Does Math Have to Do With It?

Marriage and Relationships go together that makes two things in common. What about the third, does math really have anything to do with marriage and relationships? Only if you have learned the mathematics of 1 + 1 = 3.  No, I am not talking about the children, the babies or the additions that happen on down the line, just the simple mathematics of a couple (2) equals 3.

 In a relationship there is You, Me and Us, three separate identities.  There are three separate identities in a relationship, but the third happens by default. Keeping your eye on the third default member of the relationship is the best guide for a healthy indicator whether you are just contemplating a relationship, preparing to get married or have been in a relationship or marriage for any length of time.


Compatible math , there are 3 things in each equation that are unique.  The 3rd is a combination of the 1st 2
Compatible math , there are 3 things in each equation that are unique. The 3rd is a combination of the 1st 2

One Plus One Equals Three

What does the us or the we look like in a relationship or marriage? How can we identify it or assess how it is doing? Music and color vibrations are the best way to exemplify the answers to this. When one note is played, there is one sound. Each of us as one carry our own sound, our note, our vibration. When two people come together each of their notes get played in unison. Two notes played together always produces a third distinct note and sound separate from the original two. Yet without the two original notes or sounds combined the third sound or vibration would not exist.

Each color has a numerical vibrational frequency and each of us represent and vibrate at our particular frequency. Two individuals merging together in a relationship or marriage bring their color vibration into the equation. Two color vibrational frequencies combined always creates a third color separate and different from the original two. For example one is red, and one is blue, rather than getting red plus blue we have purple. A third a distinctly separate entitiy has entered into the room.

Wikipedia on color, vibrations and frequencies.

Compatability Is The Three, What Does It Look Like?

 Take time to look at more than who you are in a relationship, or what traits the other brings out in you.  Even vice versa what traits you may bring out in the other.  There are no bad vibrations, colors or sounds but there are some truly ugly combinations in both appearance and sound.  Two beautiful sounds that are not compatible can create a third sound that hurts the ears.  Two beautiful colors that are not compatible can create a less than appealing third color. 

As we are dating, associating, and learning about each other, take time to learn, look and listen to what you are creating together.  Is it a harmonic and beautiful creation?  What does the three look like in your marriage in your relationship.  It's never too late to take a look and adjust and work together to create a beautiful three 


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    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Thank You so much, truth from truth, So glad you enjoyed it! May your relationships flourish, Love and Light to you!

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      Truth From Truth 

      9 years ago from Michigan

      Good information, I enjoyed this hub, thanks.

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Yes it is a beautiful view and you are so in tune with beautiful vibrations. Enjoy the math of abundance and harmony...Warm wishes for you each and every day :-)!!!

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      Michelle Simtoco 

      9 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

      Isn't that a beautiful way of viewing relationships? It sure is! LOL I will see 1+1 so differently now. Have a beautiful day. :)

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina


      Thanks! We always find what we are looking for, we stumble sometimes to slow us down to see what is already there. Try the musical notes and listen for the third resonating sound, then your ears can become tuned to hear it in other places like relationships. Enjoy the journey!

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      9 years ago from New Delhi, India

      I am glad to have stumbled here following Feline Prophet's activity. You have explained such simple language and so lucidly what happens when two people come together, and suddenly there are three: you, me and us - the last as much a personality as the first two.

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina


      Very true, both add up to 100% but the third note cannot sound very pretty or be very eye appealing with this equation. No matter how it may appear or feel as far as the equation you presented, each person is vibrating their tone and creating a third, so essentially it is a 50-50 input from this perspective. The inbalance in the second equation is when the two tones are not creating a harmonious outcome of experience.

      We need to search for and create the experience that results in the perfect harmony of 100+100=300

      Thank you so much for sharing your observations, enjoy the journey as you seek for the harmonic balances!

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      nicomp really 

      9 years ago from Ohio, USA

      Marriage is often described as a 50-50 relationship. Sometimes it's 98-2.

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Feline Prophet,

      Thank you, Thank you, I appreciate you sharing that my form of written expression is clarifying things. Continue to enjoy, much better when we see clearly for our journey..

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      Feline Prophet 

      9 years ago

      I'm so glad I stumbled upon your hubs for the first time have a unique way of explaining things that suddenly seems to clarify it all! :)

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Thank you so much ethel!!!

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina


      You always bring more to each of my hubs thank you so very much! Reiki healing is something I hadn't yet considered as attached to this subject although I am a practitioner. Excellent tie in! I appreciate the love and light you have brought here so much...Continue to shine brightly!

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      Ethel Smith 

      9 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull

      You put that so well and succinctly

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      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Thank you for this Hub. You have given such excellent explanations with colours mixing together (!!!) and sounds... As a part of Reiki healing, people learn that they also need to send energy to the third entity - relationship itself. Excellent article (!!!), you said it all... Many thanks again, a lots of love & light.

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      SEM Pro,

      always a delight to have your experiences add to my hubs. Synergy is the scientific description of the mathematics and vibrations presented. To have the synergistic realization of what we seek an awareness of the vibrations is mandated. First to be aware of what we are vibrating, what the other(s) are vibrating and then feeling the synergy of the experience. As with any instrument, it can be tuned, but we first have to be in tune with the intrument and the vibration itself.

      Thank you so much for your positive feedback :) Let your light continue to shine and the vibrations to be harmonious!

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina


      You brought me a smile this morning :-) Thank You! Many do see it this way, and if that third vibration is not pleasant to the eyes and ears, the lawyer eventually does hear about it. Best of wishes as you continue to search for the beautiful vibrations in your life and for the other vibration that creates a third beautiful resonance combined with yours. Let your light shine and enjoy the journey! Thanks, Sue!

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Universal Laws,

      As one who has studied vibrations, your sharing here is deeply appreciated. Your mathematics applies to my hub, "The Power Of One" with unlimited possiblities of magnitude.

      As you say, worst case scenario one vibration can become so overwhelmed it can appear to be swallowed and removed, but that vibration does continue to exist and by changing what it connects its vibration to, without changing the vibration itself is the act of healing and resonating to a higher vibration. An unhealthy, versus a healthy relationship. Thank You so much for bringing your knowledge and light vibrations to this hub....Sue

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina


      Good morning friend, You continue to be so insightful yourself, I appreciate what you have shared as to the mathematics of relationships. Thanks You So Much, Sue

    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Hi Elf,

      What a pleasure to have you visit and share on this hub. You are such a wealth of information yourself, I am so grateful that you find something to add to your knowledge and understanding here. You are welcome and Thank You, Sue

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      SEM Pro 

      9 years ago from North America

      Great alternative way of assessing EmoH! The only relationships I have seen and felt creating truly beautiful sound and color have been those with synergy, and thus the one + one = 3 once again applies. The synergistic cohesion seemed to be displayed where the individuals were aware of the 3rd, thus each other, in every moment. There was consideration of the other before any decision was made. That represented a fundamental shift from the norm.

      Wonderful job! As usual :)

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      9 years ago from On New Footing

      I think the third thing is really a lawyer these days!

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      Linda Joslin 

      9 years ago from UNIVERSE

      I like this hub a lot! Simply and clearly told. I always say that a relationship on the right level makes a bigger better vibration to feed out to the world 1 + 1 can make 10!

      Alas its usually the undealt with needs and emotions that bring that figure into minus numbers.

      The worst being where one person allows their vibration to be swallowed up completely in the equation.


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      Om Prakash Singh 

      9 years ago from India, Calcutta

      Very good advice and the explanation is awesome. The mathematics of relationship is not as simple and well defined as the one we learned in schools. We really have to understand the complexities and that comes from experience. Good one!

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      9 years ago from Canada

      Greetings, Sue. Great Hub! You have a unique and, I find, interesting way of looking at things that always adds something to my understanding of the world. Thanks so much.


    • emohealer profile imageAUTHOR

      Sioux Ramos 

      9 years ago from South Carolina

      Very Nice Rob.....Looks like you can go in and write a great article for the marriage hub mob as well. Thanks for adding many important things to this hub..A friends comments are always appreciated! Sue

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      Rob Dee 

      9 years ago from Florida

      In addition to the also need 7 -

      1. Maturity – a person' s ability to interact with other people and achieve solutions to problems;

      2. Relational Positioning – the relative position on the continuum of maturity that each partner in a relationship to the other partner of the relationship;

      3. Chemistry – a biological physical attraction and emotional body language that draws you to the other person;

      4. Compatibility – similar likes and dislikes, with no major incompatibilities (Deal Breakers), along with the capacity to move over time into common directions;

      5. Equity – since there is no such thing as a perfect match, we have the ability to enter into a “balanced” relationship as long as there is equity. In this sense, the balance of What’s In It For Me for each partner, determines the “fairness of the deal”. However, changes in that relative position of one partner to the other can prove disastrous to the relationship.

      6. Commitment – valuing the relationship above your own short term preferences, not as a martyr surrendering your needs, but as a mature adult who takes responsibility for their own actions and desires to find solutions that are acceptable for both parties.

      7. Adaptability – as one or both of the partners changes, their internal relationship changes, requiring either no relative internal changes or that each party can adapt to relationship changes or the relationship fails as a result of the Bad Changes.


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