What does it REALLY mean when someone in a relationship says that they "Need To Find Themselves?"
Meet the invisible woman
Meet the invisible men
"So you've given up on me?"
She said,
amazed
at all this rare talk
from him.
"No,"
he murmured,
unconvinced,
"I need a beer,"
he quickly left.
"Why can't she get it?"
he entered the pub
and found his mate,
"When a guy sez,
he needs to find himself,
it REALLY means
that another girl
has caught his eye
and he wants to see
if he can get her in bed....."
(Meet the invisible man
number one,
and his answer
to this universal question,
how to take your leave
without facing 'the storm'
of consequence).
"So tell her the truth,"
his mate's girlfriend
joined in
handing them
a beer each.
"It's NOT really a lie,
of course,
since he REALLY
"needs to find (himself)"
in her's or his bed........."
(Meet the invisible man
number one,
again.)
"You are just a jerk,"
the girlfriend waved her hand
and moved closer to her boyfriend,
who quickly backed his mate:
"It is better than to say,
he needs more space,
like another bed
with a girl in it,
imagine that?"
They both laughed,
while she punched her boyfriend
angrilly in his rib:
"I will tell her everything,
what you said,
don't worry about that,
and then you done, mate,
no girl and no bed
a hundred mile around here."
"Just calm down, honey,
what is said here,
stays here,"
Her boyfriend said
and ordered another beer.
A barman
filling their glasses again,
looked her in the eye,
with a little sad smile:
"They are full of silly little cliches
like I need some space,
or I need a little more time.
They think that phrases
like that are
'deep' and 'meaningful,
but you know them better,
than that."
(Meet the invisible man,
number two,
his answer,
just like the answer before,
you find
for your reference
in the question
section,
thank you
my fellow hubbers,
for letting me
to use it,
here for you.)
