- Gender and Relationships
10 Reasons You Deserve To Be Dumped
You Know What?
I Am Slowly Giving Up
No one enters into a relationship expecting it to end badly but sometimes not all relationships are built to last. Sometimes people just change, or they stop hiding their true self after a while.
Problems are part and parcel of everybody's relationship, but not all problems lead to breaking up. All relationships are unique and the break-up reasons are even more individual.
What Went Wrong?
Being in a relationship can be the source of incredible joy. But if love can bring so much of happiness, it can also bring about fighting, misunderstanding and unfortunately sometimes separation.
If you are a guy who is in a loyal relationship, there are chances that you face lots of complaints from your girl. Let me tell you, dude, don't take those complaints lightly, else you might end up losing your relationship.
Today, I am going to tell you the most common reasons that make your girl dump you.
You Don't Look At Her
Tear your eyes away from your phone or your favorite TV show and just look at her when she is talking to you. It's an easy way to strengthen your bond.
Broken promises, lying and cheating almost always results in relationship problems and is an obvious reason a relationship fails. If you don't keep your promises, she'll feel taken for granted and you might get into a big trouble.
You Stay Silent During Fights
If you are thinking that saying something will only worsen the argument hence you zip your lips, that's the worst thing you can do so. It sends a message that her argument is trivial.
You Only Text Her
Sexting is a cool option or asking a quick question is perfectly acceptable. But when she is arguing with you or wants to have a good conversation with you, just pick up the phone and call her.
You Never Say "I Am Sorry"
Having too much ego to never apologize can leave you flying solo. Keep your ego aside and utter the word 'sorry', it won't cost you your girlfriend's respect.
Don't let bad sex ruin your relationship. Although what constitutes a healthy sex life varies considerably from one couple to the next, compatibility in the bedroom is a vital ingredient of a successful relationship.
Don't let your possessiveness, jealousy, and insecurities dominate you. If your girlfriend lets on that she is going out with another man, be kind and understanding. Sometimes your over possessive nature can suffocate her.
How long do you want to continue to live with your bad habits?
Bad habits can actually have devastating effects on your relationship. One bad act is easy to ignore, but repeatedly doing something disruptive can put a crack in your relationship.
Comparing Her To Your Ex
Constantly comparing your girlfriend to your ex is a glaring sign that you are not over your ex, that's totally unfair to your girlfriend and a disaster is waiting to happen. Watch Out!
Making Your Fights Public
If you can't stop yourself to fighting in public places then you are definitely embarrassing yourself and your girlfriend, and this toxic habit could destroy your relationship.
Your girlfriend could become completely repulsed by this childish behavior and decide to leave you.
Learn Her Value
The above mistakes can do more than just annoy your girlfriend. These common slip-ups can drive your relationship into the deep end. By recognizing and addressing these toxic mistakes in a relationship, you'll have a better chance at making your relationship last for a long haul.
And She'll Continue To Smile...
© 2017 Shivani Negi