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My Kiss

Updated on October 9, 2016

The Kiss

Is it emotional? Or, is it physical?

For some it is one or other. For others it is both. For fewer it is neither.

I find it to be primarily emotional for myself.

I had been dating this girl for a bit more than 4 months. Yet there was nothing going off in my head that indicated that she was 'The One' for me

Then one morning it happened. I knew it eventually would. She was laying on top of me looking down into my eyes when she asked. "Do you know that we have never kissed?" with disappointment in her tone. We were never to be intimate with each other ever again. Never to be that close again.

She knew that the kiss would have meant that she owned my heart.
Her instincts led her to believe that she would never own my heart. She needed the kiss. She needed to know for sure.

The kiss never happened. It was never going to happen. I can not pretend to kiss.

Yet when I do kiss. With confident tenderness to start. Their reaction very telling in a very pleasant way. Often turning the kiss into something much more.

Never knowing what they like more. The heart in my kiss or the security in my hug.

HUGS FOR EVERYBODY !!!

The kiss is emotional for me. Seriously emotional. It is the one thing that I truly give that comes from my heart. It has to be earned. It has to be deserved.

Something has to make me feel like they are worthy of what I guard so closely. It has to be an instinctive desire triggered within me. It can not be faked.

I do all the majority of intimate acts with the poise of a true romantic. While other intimate actions have been just short of the wreck-less abandon of an animal. Always with mutual admiration and appreciation.

Yet, the kiss. If my heart is not in it?

There is no kiss. The greatest gift I give.

I will never dilute that. I protect it with my heart.

My kiss.







You Just May Have To Steal Mine

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      & just maybe some of us men can not sincerely connect without the sex... It is just that it is not politically correct to be admitting that... And it is easier to deceive to achieve... I personally just can not fake it is all... I need reasons... & reasons more than just the sex... yet the sex is part of the formula to generate 'My Kiss'... Again, few men are willing to admit that... Even if it is the truth for most men.

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      beadreamer247 5 years ago from Zephyrhills, FL

      LOL...how do you get to work on time then? - Anyway, for me no men would ever get sex from me without a kiss.....I cannot connect without it.

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Something else to learn beadreamer ?.... Is that most men prefer the 'sensual' kiss to be delivered 1st thing in the morning... Something about that whole morning wood thing (*grins*), and there being no better way to start any day... Yes, some of us have heart, showing it with our kiss, and protecting it appropriately for all the right reasons..

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      beadreamer247 5 years ago from Zephyrhills, FL

      An interesting hub, also something to learn about men I guess, not every man but some. I had more the impression they tend to get a woman with a kiss....not sure why. But I also know from personal experience....love without a kiss, is not the real thing. And there are different types of kisses...the sweet one in the morning to wake you up or the sensual late at night in bed.....both are great in different ways. And even if a kiss gets a bit more sensual during the day, it affects me a lot and I might not want to wait till late night! LOL. - But I never knew that for some men a kiss means some commitment and more from the heart. Always something to learn....

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Thank you peeples !... Thank you very much indeed !!! *smiles*

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      Peeples 5 years ago from South Carolina

      Reading this took me back 6 years to a sweet man sitting in my truck after work, leaning on my shoulder since we had such a long day and obviously debating on if kissing me was the right or wrong thing to do ( I was in the middle of a nasty divorce). I'm glad that after 45 minutes he finally did. Loved reading this!

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Thanks!, for stopping by LT... Ya, not all men are completely senseless... I know my value... & yes, I do protect it at all costs...

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      LaThing 5 years ago from From a World Within, USA

      Interesting concept..... Never thought it that way. I would think it should be the other way round, BUT then men to think differently then women! :)

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      "Where a kiss is not a kiss without your sigh"...

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      Dave Rogers 5 years ago from New York

      It is a movie and a song too, think the artist is Bertie Higgins...

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Thank you snoblet.... Casablanca ?,, that's a movie right??... I'm too busy playing outdoors usually...

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      Dave Rogers 5 years ago from New York

      Nice and for some reason this reminded me of the song Casablanca

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Thanks for inspiring another thought Ruby... *smiles*

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

      Hummmmm, The kiss is the important spark that lights the flame, I guess not true for all. Interesting indeed..

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Not likely... but your thought is sweet lovedoctor, thank you.

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      lovedoctor926 5 years ago

      Interesting how the male mind works. Women should not give up their power so soon in a relationship. Perhaps, if she would have waited longer then she could have gotten that kiss.

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      I know... *sigh*

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      B Lucy 5 years ago from Podunk, Virginia

      A really good kiss can be the downfall of a really good woman. *sigh*

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      Murphy 5 years ago from Chicagoland, Illinois

      Pretty much billybuc... sex is the easy part... the kiss requires a little extra somethin' somethin'... & I can't pretend to kiss... *blushes* ... Thanks for stopping by!

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      Bill Holland 5 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Interesting! "Pretty Woman" meets modern day man!