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Never Date Someone Like This

Updated on July 27, 2020
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Never Date Someone Like This

Dating and relationships are complicated, there are no accurate rules on what to do and how to do it. People sometimes rely on what they see on movies but most of it are unrealistic and cannot be applied to the real situation. Sometimes, relationships are so unique that what you experienced may not have been experienced by others which makes it so difficult to ask for any advices from friends and family. But even if there’s no handbook for dating, there are obvious signs that your partner may not be the right one for you. Here are some red flags that you should totally look out for.

Their mood changes quickly.

Do they treat you cruelly for half a day and then flirts with you like nothing happened? That is a major red flag and you should back away immediately. People like this have no remorse. They don’t feel guilty about treating you badly, they don’t even apologize. They just start talking to you normally without giving you any explanations about their personality a while ago. This could be tough on your part since you will be left out hanging without any clarification.

They call you names when they are angry.

Disagreements are normal, but be wary of those who turns into someone unrecognizable just because they are angry. It is like they transformed into a monster when you are in an argument. You cannot control these people and situations like these could get out of hand. You could be in danger. This behavior is a clear sign of disrespect and a poor skill of conflict resolution, which you don’t need for a happy relationship.

They can’t stop talking about themselves.

It sounds good at first since you are just starting to date, it’s a good way to get to know that person but after some time, it will be infuriating to listen to them talking about themselves. This person doesn’t care about you at all, you are just there so that he can boast about his lifestyle and successes. If you continue to date him or her, arguments will be hard to resolve because this person doesn’t know how to listen to you.

They rush you to be in a relationship with them.

People like this either have no patience to wait for you to really get to know them or they have a toxic personality of manipulating others in to making them do whatever it is that they want. They may just be using you as a trophy to signify that they have a partner. Either way, it is a big NOPE! Think carefully if you really want to date this kind of person or else you will definitely get hurt. Practice vigilance when you decide to date or be in a relationship.

They try to keep you away from your family and friends.

Anyone who doesn’t want to share you with other people especially your family and friends are just pure selfish and obsessed people. They want to keep you all for themselves which is very creepy and dangerous. Run far, far away from them before they sink their fangs deeper. Do not try to justify their actions because you can’t. This is a clear bright red flag waving aggressively in the wind that you must simply acknowledge.


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