Nipple Sensitivity

Ooh! Self-touching while a man watches or helps. I always put in that in my books. Women love that, good suggestion!

I can't thank you enough for this very sensitive article. I think your recommendation to just check with a doctor if this is something new is very responsible advice. I have had this problem my whole life. I never thought of trying to touch them myself with my partner holding me. That's such a great idea. I am really impressed with how sensitive you were to this issue, and I think the advice you gave was just wonderful. Medical blogs don't usually address the sensuality part of this on a personal enough level. And certainly I wasn't looking for a raunchy response. This was perfect. Thank you Veronica.

I want to thank you for this article. I am experiencing an issue about this with my wife. For some reason we do not discuss it. Which is stupid. I want to suggest we try what you suggest and I want her and me to talk about this. I feel understanding now that I didn't have before. So I just want to thank you for this.

wonderful article my dear

wonderful article my dear

I have this problem with my boyfriend. Is there anyway that I could make my nipples less sensitive?

Being married to a wonderful woman who also has extreme nipple sensitivity, I have learned a lot just by observation.

It is my personal opinion that the concentration of nerve endings are the same as they are for every any other woman, but the problem lies more in the 'knee jerk reaction' you described.

How did I arrive at that conclusion? By taking note of the fact that only moments after denying my touch, she is able to twist, pull tweak, or do anything whe wants to with her OWN hands without experiencing any discomfort whatsoever. I beleive without question that the problem lies on a much deeper psychological level.

'Peter' should either give up and use an alternative technique as you suggested, or if he is obsessed with nipples as some men are, should look forward to many, many, long hours of therapy for his girl, and that's if she is willing to go. Even that does not gaurantee success. Chances are his girl has a history of being abused at some point in her life. Again, he would do well to find out more about her hangups, or the relationship will never last.

the last time my BF touched my nipples i fainted!!!!help!!!!

great article ..thnks..

good question and also a solution too..

wow great hub and very interesting, yes women can have nipples sensativity but you are correct she should talk about it, if she is willing to allow a man to be inside of her the least she can do is have ability to talk about why he cannot touch her nipples.

I'm a senior citizen but I have the opposite problem. My wife's nipples aren't sensitive much but mine are after working with them for years...and she knows it. It used to bother me, like feeling invaded, when she touched them. She started sucking on them and she saw that got me aroused so she quit touching them. It's funny how some things work and some don't

Very interesting..

I used to live on Kingsway, right near that dolt! I'm talking about the frigid moron that commented she couldn't understand what the turn on would be for a man to see a woman touch her nipples. Wow, what a clueless wench. Veronica, I don't know how you put up with getting such asinine comments. Obviously, not posting them is great. Letting us see them in your live chats is even better. We

Hi Veronica,

I'm commenting again. I am in your live chat right now and just couldn't get over the deranged woman that left that crazy comment you shared with us. I know you asked that no one focus on it, but since this lovely Hub was in response to my question to you I felt I had to. As I posted earlier, your advice was perfect. Why would any on want your advice to simply state - check with a doctor - and leave it at that? Like you said, it's wise especially if this is something new. And like I said in my comment, this wasn't new it was life-long. You were wonderful and responsible with your advice. I took all your suggestions and I've been very happy since. You really know what you're talking about. I pity the person that couldn't understand my situation, or your lovely advice. Thank you again as I said before, you've helped me and I'm sure countless others immensely.

Damn, I love those chats! I'm so glad you brought this Hub up tonight and shared that comment from that fucktard. The grammar, the use of 5 questionmarks, it really has to make you wonder how some people are able to navigate intersections. When you showed on the map where the IP came from I was relieved this idiot isn't driving around in my country.

Dear Veronica,

I am glad to see I'm not the only one from chat that couldn't just

drop this. This is a fantastic article handling an extremely sensitive

subject with a great deal of sensitivity and intelligence. To see a

comment so full of hate and stupidity is absolutely disturbing. You

have 250 articles on this website alone. You are a talented writer and

you are an expert in relationship advice. "Bell" has no business

questioning you, especially when everything she says is too stupid to

even consider. Her idiotic statements prove she is no expert. "She's"

nothing more than an insignificant little moron, trolling the internet

and lashing out from lack of anything better to do in her shallow

little life. I'm staying with what I said in chat - she's actually a

college aged male with the maturity of a 6th grader. What a pathetic

loser.

I realize the chat was just about the hassles of publishing online,

and the things writers like yourself have to deal with. I also realize

you share these things to teach us how to protect ourselves, our work,

and our feelings. I completely realize your reasons for sharing the

unposted comment and the IP Detective service you use had a higher

purpose. But I am one of many that simply can not just drop this as

you had asked. "Bell" is intolerable. That last line about most women

know the need of a man - what a psychotic thing to say. Calling the

women you've helped suckers, really quite damaging and dangerous. I

did think it was interesting the stupidest comment possible came on

the heels of that edu jerk.

Really, how clueless could one person be not to understand why a lady

touching herself, controlling the stimulation, and including her man

with this is the perfect answer. It's brilliant. It controls the

overstimulation, it's sexy as hell, it's intimate, there is nothing

that isn't spot-on with that suggestion. This is why I think the total

moron that commented has to be a college aged boy. Who else would know

so little and be dumb enough to blab and show it. The flood of

responses about that in chat was priceless.

Well whoever that was at ip 82.35.32.16 if it's a he or a she or whatever, they know nothing about sex, the female body, or what turns men on. What a wanker. I still think it's a girl because any guy no matter how stupid knows how hot it is to touch a woman while she's touching herself. Veronica you're too good to have to deal with that crap from imbeciles and jealous wannabes.

It looks like I'm late to the party. I wasn't in a chat and I don't see the comment everyone is talking about. But I gather from the recent slew of comments that someone posted some a ridiculous commentary concerning the advice in this piece. I work in a doctor's office and can tell you the article about offers very sound advice. You want to consult your doctor about changes in feeling, color, sensation, size, texture, discharge, and appearance. The article responsibly speaks to that, and then goes on. A lifelong over sensitivity to touch in this area is common. The advice on letting her control the sensation by touching herself is exactly what a doctor or therapist would advise. His having his hands there as she does this sounds intimate, trusting, and quite frankly beautiful. It's hard to imagine someone would know so little about sexuality and health, and yet have the audacity to attack someone that clearly does. I'm passing this link around our office. Great work, Veronica. Don't let the idiots get you down!

Thank you for your article, it was well written and informative. I read what some other people wrote in response and gather one of the commentors wasn't very nice. It's good to see so many people wrote to back you up. I am brand new to Hub Pages, or any kind of on-line interactive community. It seems like an interesting way to connect with people, even if you have to incounter a few stinkers.