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Perfect Three

Updated on January 30, 2010

The Perfect Three

 

Ok this is another difficult one to explain, as I am not qualified in relationship counselling or anything like that all I can tell you here is my personal thoughts and experiences, you do not have to read this if you don’t want to because relationships are an individual experience and only you can have that.

In my opinion when it comes to choosing a partner nowadays gay people are always guided by two things

·Straightness

·Looks

Straightness or how straight some one is or acts, and to many homosexuals this is the huge attractiveness about someone, because the more straight acting some one is the nearer they are to their ideal of a straight person.

Looks is the other thing, because most people are lead by magazines and media and believe that they want some one who is a Hunk or Babe mainly as a trophy rather than a partner.

It all sounds perfect and wonderful but this is what I think about that forget it! It only happens in fairy tales sorry but it makes me sick to think that you would judge other people by those two stupid standards that other misguided people invented.

How I personally chose my partner was for three things or what I term ‘The Perfect Three’.

·Love - I love this person not for his looks, straightness or money but because I love them for being them and because its what is inside that counts..

·

Trust - I can trust this person to be as faithful and monogamous to me and only me as I am to them and only them.

·Happiness -

I have true happiness with this person and they have true happiness with me and its not one sided but mutual as much as the other two.

I have been with my partner for six wonderful years and was the happiest man alive when we married over one year ago and even now we both are still as happy as we were when we met, and that is because the perfect three does work. It is not how camp or straight, how rich or how poor and how beautiful or un attractive someone is, it is ‘the perfect three.’

If any of my views have offended you then I am sorry, I can only tell you my opinion on the subject but you have your opinion and we are all entitled to our opinions that is the best thing about expressing your view not every one will agree with you and nor should they as it would be a boring world if we were all yes men and women wouldn’t it.

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    • calpol25 profile imageAUTHOR

      Callum 

      8 years ago from Edinburgh, Scotland, UK (At Home With My Wonderful Partner)

      Thank you Izzy and I hope the same for you :)

    • IzzyM profile image

      IzzyM 

      8 years ago from UK

      Good luck to you Calpol - may your marriage always be as strong :)

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